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 I have seen many spinsters/bachelors live life of ease and comfort. They are answerable to no one, enjoy life the way they feel they should and are content. I have also seen them die lonely deaths if they have no one to care for them. On the other hand, being married means having to learn to live with another, working more than usual, having to tolerate their tantrums and tempers and bring up children. Yet, with the right partner, one can do almost everything. However marriage is no guarantee for all the good things in life. What would you advise the young of today?
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1.  chunter (1771) | 7 months ago |  Marriage is no guarantee for all good things in life? WTF????
What makes you think its no guarantee, especially if its coming from someone who is not married? Just because there are divorce cases does not mean its no guarantee....
Like you already said....being married means to learn to live with one another....and that is enough guarantee until one or the other decides to part...
As for your question, it depends on what the individual wants eventually....As long as he/she can live happily, it doesn't really matter
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 ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | Friend, I have been married for the last 20 years. I dont say we dont fight and argue. There are times when i really feel not havng married would have been better, but that is in the heat of the moment. Marriage is like a lottery, if u find a good partner, vow, if not life is one big misery. You either grin and bear it or part and having to marry only to part is not what I would call marriage made in heaven. | |
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | Yes marriages of old have lasted and lasted. I am one of the fortunate who has been married for the last 20 years. I agree that kids get into relationships very fast without knowing the real thing. I like the way you put it, keep their knees together. Maturity also plays a very important aspect in chosing the right patner. | |
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| artemis432 (1721) | 7 months ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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3.  Estina54 (402) | 7 months ago |  When 2 people decide to get married, they should make sure they have a good future together. They should know if they will have a happy marriage and if they can accomplish things together. They'll have to live a long time with each other that's why they should know each other pretty well in order to do this. The mistake most people make is counting on their future partner's changing after marriage, that's why many marriages fail.
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | I have known of a few couples who have dated for years and years before marrying. They feel they know their partner very well. Actually you get to know a persons real nature only after you start living with him. So after marriage, all the rosy picture gets tainted. Marriage of such people break. One is at ones best when dating, and when you start living together does the true nature of the person erupt. I suppose they take each other for granted. | |
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| 4. haroldg_slasher (85) | 7 months ago |  marriage is important in our live(thats my side) it is because if you have your family, you will not find anything difficult in your life, a family would give you all you need like happiness, comfort, guidance, and even strenght to do better in your daily life
while for those who are alone have an advantage also especially financially, it is because if your alone you dont mind other things but just yourself..
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | If you have found the right partner, then nothing like it. You get all the comfort and happiness, the strength to face the trials of life. But if your partner is not right, then life can become hell. choose your partner carefully and with time. Get to know him/her thoroughly before commiting. | |
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| 5. oguchai (5) | 7 months ago |  yes it is good for a man or a woman to get marry
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| artemis432 (1721) | 7 months ago | I happen to agree that in some cases it is good for a man or a woman to get married - but I'd like to know why you think so? | |
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6.  asawanialvin0611 (1641) | 7 months ago | I rather stay married happily with the persohe most in my life no matter what circumstances we had been | |
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | The word happily is of prime importance. if your partner is good and understanding, nothing like it. One must stay married and get strength from each other. With the wrong partner, life becomes miserable. You either grin and bear it or part. | |
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| 7. psyche49f (1730) | 7 months ago |  I'm married for over 25 years, so I could not imagine myself being single and missing the joys of motherhood and that of being a wife. But I have friends who seem to be happy with their being single, so I guess with the state that they are in, some single people could be happy and satisfied with their life....
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | Exactly my views. I too am married for the last 20 years. Good marriages are made in heavens and the ones that turn sour are maybe also made in heavens but we as humans could not adjust or just plain bad luck. Sometimes it is better to be single and enjoy life for you are totally stable financially, emotionally . | |
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8.  cartoon4umaniacs (625) | 7 months ago |  It really depends on the person or people involve in the relationships. If the two are ready and they want to yes but if it is for convenience or just for the heck of it no. For some people it is best that they stay un-married and just co-exist or be alone or for others it's better for them to married. It really depends on the people...everyone is different and one solutions is not an answer for all......
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | Marriage is like a lottery. If you get the right partner, you have stuck it rich. Otherwise it is a either grin and bear or part solution. Yes, there are different solutions for all and we cant paint it a shade of grey. | |
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| 9. neetipari (48) | 7 months ago | well you are true. i think every kinda life has its own fun and negative points. However i feel if you are right and understanding spouse you lead a wonderful life. however but in marriage you should be caring to each other and give the other person his/her personal space and trust him/her.bachelors life looks good for some time as some point of time you feel to have someone to share and be supportive.DOnt mind this is my personal view | |
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | As I have mentioned, a bachelor lives like a king and dies like a dog. But it is not completely true. The same can be said for a married person. If the partner is not right, a married person lives like a dog and dies like a dog. Actually, I am married for 20 years and have a good partner in life. But I have seen enough marriages broken. So getting the right partner is the key to a good marriage. | |
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| 10. izathewzia (1974) | 7 months ago |  I guess, it depends on the person concern. There are a lot of single persons that lived their lives to the fullest till they die. There are also married people who lived their lives to the fullest till they die also. Getting married is not for everybody. There are those who are cut to be single for life. Whatever, it is just a state of mind. You can still be "better" either you are single or married.
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| ketybhagat (619) | 7 months ago | The key to a happy married life is finding the right partner, a lot of love, understanding and care. Both bachelors/married people can live either full happy lives or sad miserable ones. | |
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sheynav
(87) | | yeah, and im glad it didnt happen coz we were just planning to marry for the wrong reasons.. | |
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AnnaB7
(56) | | I mean if you love someone and they love you is that really enough to over look culture or background differences?
Or is that just a recipe for a bad marriage, or relationship?
Also what about... | |
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jer31558
(2110) | | Truly I am not getting married as I have been happily married for over 14 years now. However I am interested in your opinion on this. Lets just suppose that I am a personal friend of yours, I am 19... | |
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maple_kisses
(331) | | I always love Whitney Houston's "Saving All My Love For You". It's a woman's song for a man who isn't hers and can't be hers because the man is already married. No, I have not been involved with a... | |
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CharRay7
(57) | | Hi,I've been married to my hubby for 9 years now and yes we still love each other. For the past 7 years, we've slept in separate rooms, in separate beds.
Reasons:
1. he likes it warm, I like... | |
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