Sadness

yup.. i can feel and sense it from your discussions all that, i feel that u wun share your sadness easily because u want all ple to be happy^_^ And u are right too, there's no point in being sad for long as it wun change things.. just look at it from other angles and it will make u feel better instead^_^ hehe

but there are times that i feel really down that i can't seem to lighten up even though how hard i try.^__^;; during those times i couldn't wait to go to sleep and wait for the morning and start a new happy day.^__^

YUp.. There are always times whereby u need to be your true self^_^ How u bring out yourself to others is important but maintaining your true self is much more important too:) hehe^_^ If i'm sad, i wun be able to sleep no matter how tired i'm, unless i can vent it out.. hehe

It not easy being strong on the outside as well as inside.. Being strong on the outside actually means the person is very fragile, u know?? When u are strong on both inside and outside, u will take longer time than normal ple to get over things:( But i know eating can help to ease the sadness and chocolate is the best thing to have^-^ LOL

hehe,yes.
chocolate is always good choice i see movies show girls eating it.
sometimes crazy.

Not crazy.. but it's because chocolate is sweet.. They just wanna eat away the bitterness feeling in them and so that they will feel better:) hehe

yes,that's right.
by the way,i like to eat.
when i wanna eat something,i eat for it's taste.

haha.. I only eat wat i like.. So i guess i'm like u, eat for its taste:) hehe.. BUt only fried stuffs and eggs and potatoes for me.. LOL

yeah,i know.
i'm wondering how you survive now.
wish everything is alright!hehe
is now daytime or night your country is?

haha.. Even i myself also wonder how i manage to survive.. LOL.. BUt no worries, i do workout and run so i'm actually very healthy too.. hehe.. When u respond to this, it's morning and now when i reply back, it's also morning.. Both singapore and china is the same, +8 gmt:) hehe

really.
oh,it's afternoon now.
though we are in the same time zone,we still have some difference.
hehe,it's okay.the most important this is that we communicate well.
wish you have a good day.

Yes, with Mylot, no time zone can really affect us as long as we can communicate in here.. hehe..

Distraction is good and work.. Because once u work, u will be concentrating alot on your work and another advantage is that when u do it well, u get compliments from the boss and also can distract yourself away and slowly get over the sadness:)

YUP.. Strength training or even running is a good way to take off the sadness in u.. I just feel better after a run whenever i'm sad.. hehe.. Yeah, talking about it to someone is good too but provided the person is willing to listen and not try to cut into wat u trying to say and the person should just be quiet while u talk:)

Yea, sometimes its helps if you have a conversation with someoone and not just having them be silent while talking to them. I agree that the person should listen untill you have said what you wanted to, it also helps if being clear when you accept the other person to say something.

If the person you speak to understands you, words from him/her can help more than pure silence.

Yup, u'r right:) If the someone is able to share the same thoughts as u, u will definitely feel better faster:)

wow.. That's an opimistic way of overcoming sadness:) hehe.. Beneficial for yourself as well as others:) hehe

Children song?? That's new to me.. hehe.. BUt it's true, children's song are usually happy and light hearted.. So when listening to that, will make u feel better:) That's a good one!!:)

MOst ple will tend to cry when they are sad, or just being quiet.. BUt trying to think of happy thoughts will be quite hard i guess.. Because if one can really think, they wont be sad in the first place.. hehe^_^ I dun like to voice out my sadness too, as i think it's kinda useless.. Because they are not me, they wont be able to fully understand what i'm going thru..

Thus instead of making another person sad, i might as well pretend everything is ok right?? IT's always good to see others and frenz around us being happy.. haha=D Too bad for me, i dun write, and thus i can only be sweating my sadness away in the forms of exercising.. hehe^_^

Cry on movies yes, but definitely not onions!! lol=D I will eat them instead.. lol=D

hehe...well its really not easy to turn sad moments into a happy one...but again, as i said, it depends on what makes me sad...if i am just sad out of nothing, i can sometimes turn this down...and turn my mind into a happy thoughts and it lessen the sadness that im feeling...little by little...hehehe

maybe most of us are like that, we don't like to share our sadness to others coz we don't like them to be sad for us also...hehehe but sometimes, its good to share it with others...just for a release...there are some friends that are good listeners...
at least even if you don't write, you still have an outlet...by exercising...at the same time its healthy for you...hehehe

haven't you experienced slicing onions? try it, slice red onions...and cry. hehehe

I have not experienced slicing onions, but i have always seen those crying scenes about that in movies.. lol=D

Mood swings are actually harder to capture because it's unpredictable.. Especially when one is sad over nothing, they can be happy the next moment, before becoming sad again!! I always hate that kind of feeling, and i will rather be left alone.. hehe^_^

Well, i always like to share my frenz sadnessand burden but i will never share mine with them.. haha=D I'm a good listener and advicer but i'm not a good sharer.. hehe

haha...then try it, to experience it yourself! hehehe

well i think this kind of feelings happened to you very rare...unlike for a woman like me...mood swings are always there...*sigh* and i also don't like that feeling of as if i am crazy...happy now, sad later...hehehe sad now, happy later! huh!

hmmm...now i know, and so be ready when i will feel sad...i will call you to listen to all my sentiments...hahahha...your ears will bleed in listening...hehhee or rather your eyes will bleed reading!

haha=D NO thanks, unless when there's a time i really feel like crying and wanna hide, only then i might consider trying.. lol=D

Well for woman, it's kinda understandable because it's normal.. PLus, when your monthly period comes, u will experience mood swings as well, because u are not feeling comfortable.. hehe^_^ When mood swing comes, try to make it known to ple around u, so that there wont be any misunderstandings.. hehe

hehe^_^ No problem on that though, for my ears have alreayd ran out of blood to bleed!! lol=D I love sovling problems and listening.. hehe and it will be my utmost pleasure and honour to be able to know the real deep inside of u.. hehe

haha..why not? hehehe

you really know about women's mood swings during periods?/ huh! have you gone through it? hahaha just kidding!
well, atleast on my part, i don't always have those swings during menstruation...jhehehe those moods just came into me with or without my period! hahaha that's why its sometimes difficult...huh!

well, well...i guess, just before i answer this one...i already make your ears bleed! hehehe

NO no, onions are meant to be eaten, and not to be used for 'tear-ing'.. lol=D

lol=D I have got female frenz too, and it's natural that i know some things.. haha=D I even have a fren of mine, sharing her pain with me, whenever that happens.. haha=D And thus, i will roughly know what causes their mood swing.. hehe^_^ Maybe u need to see a psycho for that.. lol=D just kidding..

haha=D My ears had already ran out of blood, way before this.. hehe^_^ IT's only full in it, and it will never burst.. hehe

hehe...maybe with you, it is the onion who will cry...hehehe

you must be so close to your female friends...hehehe
coz i don't remember sharing my pms pains with my guy friends! haha

know what? sometimes, i really think about that! hehe i feel like there are times that i need some psychiatric help!

haha..why it runs out of blood? hehe maybe you already hear many many ear bleeding stories...huh!

LOL=D I will LIKE to that that happening!! haha=D Maybe i'm cutting them up in such a violent way, that the others got scared!! lol=D

haha=D Well, she's my manager at work at that time, and it so happens we are about the same age, only a difference of 2 yrs or so.. haha=D PLus, i do learn about human body in school too, and that makes me more approachable to them as well.. lol=D

I will help u then!! lol=D NOpe, but rather it's filled with air in it.. haha=D So that it wont burst at all.. lol=D

haha..i think it will look like funny instead of scary...haha...just like what i watch on some comedy shows...hehehe

really? so she is just my age? hehehe looks like you really are close to older people...hahaha
great that you are close to your manager...
but even if you learn about human anatomy in school, its still deiiferent and you will not really understand this pms unless you feel it...haha

you can help me? why? are you a psychiatrist? or a psychotic as well? hahaha

haha=D BUt this is not a show, it's a real life performance, whereby u cant even watch it on youtube.. lol=D Because it's done in private.. hehe

I think so.. Yup, same age.. haha=D I'm close to them because i'm a responsible worker, and thus they feel safe with me around.. As such, manager tend to become frenz with me, no matter who they are.. haha=D

lol=D I do understand, and we even use it on guys, when his mood is not quite right, or normal.. lol=D Well, i can definitely help u, because i'm a plain 'psycho' maniac.. lol=D

haha..even if its a private show, it will still be funny for me..as long as you are just chopping the onions and not me! hahaha

so, i guess you really are a good employee...that's nice! so are you your boss pet? haha
psycho-maniac? waaaah im scared! hahaha

lol=D When it's a private show, things will be very much different as i will be chopping the onions with a mask on, while i'm doing that on front of u, so that u will be the one crying instead.. lol=D

Pet?? NO no! I'm just being someone who's responsible in my area of work, and being an efficient worker as well.. lol=D

Beware of the pyscho!! It's coming at u soon!! lol=D

haha...maybe it will be better if you also give me a mask...hehe and lets have a masquerade party! haha...

really? you are a good and efficient worker? wow! no wonder your boss like you...hehehe

i think the psycho just go me...haha

lol=D no mask for u, because u are not son of the mask.. hehe^_^ GREat idead to have a masquerade party huh?? who's invited then?? hehe

Well, u can see from my speed and efficency here!! lol=D I'm always busy like a bee, buzzing around doing nothing.. lol=D Of course psycho will go for u, because u are simply irresistible!!

hehehehe

haha...let's invite acie and your 'dear' friends...hahaha it will be fun!

yes yes, i saw it how you work here...maybe that's one thing about you, you have focus when you are working...hehe

My 'dear' friends?? I only have got reindear with me as well as mommy for my private party.. lol=D

I have focus?? Or maybe i have foetus instead?? haha=D I always like to finish things up, fast and have a sense of achievement.. hehe^_^ Or maybe u can say, i like to 'stress' others instead.. lol=D

haha...yes your 'dear' friends! hehe as well as my dear friends...see, our friends are dear to us! hehe

whatever you call it, still, you are working good that way...

stress others? huh! and are you stressing me?

LOL=D THen i shall invite my pet, petigree and reindeer, your u will invite all dear, acie.. lol=D

Stressing u?? Am i?? I dun think so right?? hehe

well...stressing me, maybe not...hehe coz you are always saying not to stress my self answering your posts! hehe and take my time doing it...haha

petigree? reindeer? haha who are they? hehe
okay, i will invite all dears here as well as acie! hehe your dear my dear everybody is invited! haha
and what mask are you suppose to wear? a peter pan? an aladdin? or still casper? hehehe

lol=D YEah yeah, but asking u to take your time, while i'm typing away furiously at my side.. lol=D So in a way, it's like some kind of stress for u, in order to be fair to me.. hehe

Reindeer, is my 'dear', while petigree will be my classmate.. hehe Mask?? I dun need any mask at all.. For my true self is casper, and all of them can fly together.. hehe

hehe...but i guess now, you are the one being stressed her with many works to do! haha

thought you'll gonna be mask rider black! haha ooops mask rider white? haha

and we have an additional guest...our new classmate & your new friend...hehe the green people from other planet!

YEah, indeed!! JUst see how much difference does a month made!! lol=D

If i'm the mask rider, what makes u then?? A 'ghost-rider'?? lol=D

haha=D Those uninvited guest?? They will come and go quietly when we are pulling out slowly.. hehe

haha...why are you using the red faced smiley? haha

i think you should be happy for a boost in your earnings! haha coz more works means more $$$!there's really so many things that can happen in a month! haha

ghost rider? hahaha nice one!
maybe after halloween, from being a broom rider i will be a ghost rider! haha or just ride in santa's sleigh? hehe

doubt it! haha

lol=D Boost in my earnings is a good thing, but now it's different!! Because there's no more of privacy for us!!

haha=D Need not wait till halloween is over.. Because the ghost is always ready for u over there, anytime.. hehe Just have to make a cross over, and u shall be owning it.. hehe^_^

Well, hopefully, we get to return to peaceful state again.. hehe

hahaha... there's always a price for everything! hehe
and i think no more privacy & peaceful state coz there's already anm alien invasion on earth!

hehe...really?! but the cross over is impossible...haha

YEah!! INVASION!! Let's chase them out of our planet earth!! and HAVe A WORLD PEACE! We must work hand in hand, and be ridding those pest.. lol=D

NOthing is impossible.. lol=D Cross over can be done via online too.. lol=D Just that, there's no actual feel

haha...how can we get rid of them when we are welcoming them in our world? huh!

haha...but nothing beats the real thing!

Welcome them to HELL!! lol=D Dun u know, we can always be welcoming them, before leaving them all alone.. lol=D

YEah!! so, when will u be making the trip down?? lol=D

haha...will it make us bad? leaving them just like that? huh! well, if that's so, don't let them expect much...so that they won't be hurt...haha

hmmm...when? on the end of the world?

lol=D Wil it make us bad?? We did welcome them, but we din say we have to entertain them!! lol=D They have to help themselves, while we are only there to pick up those left over pieces.. haha=D

Am i being worse here?? lol=D

So, when will that be?? lol=D

nah! that won't suits your friendly ghost image! haha
well, anyway, just let it be and wait till it dies naturally...if it does...
if not...

when? december 2012? hahaha

IMage is just an image.. I'm always there to protray a wrong image and be a bad role model!! lol=D

They will die off naturally, for not everybody is as patient like us, or share such wavelength like us too.. hehe

Why must it be in december?? lol=D

haha...i don't know, but that's what they are saying ...haha that the world will gonna end on december 2012...

well, well...like what you said, they just come & go.

Why?!?! That's my favourite end!! Just that it's at the end of the year, it does not mean it has to be end of the world too!! lol=D They have no creativity at all!! lol=D

COme like a splash, fast and furious, and be gone like a wind, losing track and contents.. haha=D

haha...but didn't you read in some discussions? they say that the world is coming to its end come dec 2012! haha
yeah, i know its your favorite days...hehe maybe the day after your favorite day it will gonna end! haha and too bad coz you will be just on your 29th by that time! hehe too young to be gone...

hehe...i don't thinks so, coz they are rising again with new contents...hehe

NO!!! Maybe i shall be creating history, and make the world end sooner than expected, and not in December!! lol=D IF predictions are true, i shall wait and see.. If not, i will be one of the predictors on my own.. lol=D

DEad man rising?? Undertaker?? lol=D Well, it needs time to be thinking of innovative contents, so as to make one feel contented with the rise and fall of tides.. lol=D

haha...then end the world this december 2009!
so that everybody will be shocked and prove them that their predictions are wrong!

well, i believe you will never get out of contents!

LOL=D NO way!! It can be in 2009, but definitely not in december or in JAN!!

hehe^_^ I'm always content-full.. lol=D And be contented to provide whatever contents i can find in my dictionary to bring contentness to mommy!! haha

haha...so it can be February? hehe

well, go on... think of more nice contents and be as innovative, imaginative,poetic and artistic as you are ...hehe

YEah, it can range from anything from FEb to november.. haha=D If december is considered end of the year, then march can be considered as well, as it's the end of financial year.. lol=D Whereby the world goes bankrupt.. lol=D

hehehe^_^ That will need some kind of motivation huh?? So that things will get fresher and more detailed.. lol=D

haha...but i don't mind if it ends by the end of December! haha

well, here, March is also the end of the school year!

hmmm...are you motivated? haha

NO! Dun be selfish!! haha

March is end of school year?? Over here, end of school year is in december, while holidays starts in mid or end november.. lol=D

MOtivated?? Depending on how detailed are my hints and clues?? hehe

selfish? on what way that i become selfish here?

yes, march and sometimes april... coz school starts at june.
in college, first semester is june-oct and 2nd sem nov-march or april something like that...
December, we have our Christmas vacation...

weh...

lol=D Every way!! hehe

THat's kinda weird and funny to me.. MAybe i'm too used to our own system over here.. hehe^_^

BUt in december, over here will be our christmas vacation as well as school holidays for all levels.. hehe

WEH!! WEH!!

every way?! haha i'm not like you!

well, well, that's really our system here and some people already asking to change it coz june-august is a rainy season here thus it also affects schooling...but i don't know when will it change coz i remember that it was already asked before, i think i am still schooling then, but nothing happens...

we also have school holidays every december, usually days before Christmas and dec 30-jan 1.

lol=D Very soon, u might end up like me, being so SELFISH, that even nemo has has got to give way!! hehe

AH okay.. YEah, it's kinda troublesome and problematic to be attending school during rainy monsoon seasons as it's quite dangerous as well!! Authorities should have taken that into consideration but why din they do anything?

haha...i think somehow, i'm already am...you're such a great influence on me being bad, selfish & greedy! wahahahaha

i don't really know why it can't be approved to change the school year here...but i guess, there's also many people who don't really like the idea, coz their summer vacation will be affected...hehe

hehe^_^ Isn't that good?? It goes to show, i,m such a good teacher in teaching all the bad stuffs!! haha=D Or i think, u are a fast learner instead!! hehe

Crazy!! Who cares about summer vacations when they cant even get past the monsoon season?!?! I think they are just plain stupid!!

haha..its both! you being a good/effective bad teacher and me being a fast learner student!

haha...not really crazy...haha but we all get used to it already!
and besides, its still better to have no classes during summer...its better to have a vacation during summer instead of a vacation during rainy days...

lol=D Looke like u have inherited my genres, of "BOTH".. lol=D

Is it just u or me, getting hot in here?? lol=D

WHy!! So that everybody gets a tann out there?? lol=D Or there are more summer activites so that carnivals wont be affected by the rain and fun.. hehe

YEah, never bottle your feelings inside yourself^_^ Sharing is a form of releasing, and allows u to recover from that trauma u gone thru^_^ Hope u are doing fine now

That's good for u.. at least, u know the place to find solence for yourself, and making yourself feel better.. hehe

And i do agree with what u say, up to the decision of ple, on how they are gonna take it!!