Was Your Pregnancy Planned Or A Surprise??????

United States
February 9, 2008 10:11pm CST
So you skip your period..or g/f or wife did..u buy the test..it says postive..u buy another and another..positive..was he/she planned or a Huge Surprise?( i dont consider and baby a mistake so please dont call any here that...thank u)As for me..Skylar was a huge HUGE SURPRISE!! lol..
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10 responses
• Australia
12 Feb 08
Our first 2 were planned, the last 2 were surprises and my current pregnancy, well, let's just say we were trying to prevent more at the time. Still, mother nature has her say every time.
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11 Feb 08
We had been trying for a few months and nothing was happening, got quite disheartened, but it was a huge suprise as happended the month we decided to stop trying.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
10 Feb 08
The pregnancy of my wife was neither.It was a struggle.Yes she didn't conceive for ten years.We badly needed a child and spent a lot on medication for three years.We lost hope and made up our minds to settle for a life with each other.The next month she became pregnant.Life is definitely beautiful and full of surprises.
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• United States
10 Feb 08
Humm...lets see. The first time it was not not planned but not planned if that makes any since. We were 16 and fully aware of what could happen. I think all the other times but once or maybe twice they were surprises.
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• United States
10 Feb 08
My first was a surprise since I was on birth control. That was back before they put warning labels on antibiotics that they lessened the effectiveness of birth control pills. My second was planned by me and came as a huge surprise for his dad. (yes I am an evil woman) He was 11 lbs 1 oz and over 24 inches so I made sure to get the depo shot before I left the hospital. 3 month later when i went to get my second shot SURPRISE! I was pregnant again. And my little avatar was the biggest surprise of all but I was trying to have her. So technically my 1st and 3rd were surprises and my 2nd and 4th weren't (at least not to me) :)
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• United States
10 Feb 08
I have two and they were both. My first we were trying but I kept having miscarriages and when I got pregnant with her thought it was going to be another one. My second we had planned to have them two years apart. When the time came we were deciding whether to wait due to finances and found out I was pregnant a couple days later.
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@jewel76 (2305)
• Canada
18 Feb 08
My baby boy Matteo - My baby, sleeping in his daddy's arms
My pregnancy was planned, had been planned for a little over a year, but due to life's circumstances, it wasn't really time before. When i found out i was pregnant (may 15th 2007)we had decided to start trying real hard from now on!! Guess we didn't have to!!:)
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
10 Feb 08
mine was neither planned nor surprised we just decided to let it happen
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• Canada
10 Feb 08
Mine was both if that makes sense lol. My hubby and I tried for 4 years to get pregnant with our son. I had totally give up on the idea of having kids and then I found out I was pregnant. I was so suprised. I'm currently 34 weeks pregnant with my second son and this one was planned. Took 4 years again however :)
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@kiran1978 (4134)
• Australia
10 Feb 08
I am pregnant at the moment and she was a surprise. I was on the pill and I started the new packet 2 days late. However I am glad that I am pregnant now, like you said I don't consider any baby a mistake, it is a little miracle. I can't wait to see my little surprise in a couple of weeks.