Have you/ are you broken/wounded? Can/Will you heal?
By raydene
@raydene (9871)
United States
February 12, 2008 3:37pm CST
I have spent years in emotional...spiritual...physical pain..
Many times in my life I was wounded sometimes physically but that meant emotionally and spiritually.
I now know it will not happen again...I will not be hurt...I love myself and I will not allow it because I must protect that which I love!
Are you ready to love yourself too? Once you realize your value good things will come to you because you deserve good things...
You always deserved good things but the good things lost their way coming to you ...could not find you because that beacon that draws them was turned off...You must turn it on and the only way to do that is to step down your path to yourself....forgive yourself...love yourself...nurture yourself...take care of yourself...do everything you can to be the best you can be to yourself...Do it for yourself...and the world because the world gets better evrytime love grows!
Louise Hay is one of my favs for a few years now..she is my mentor...she has touched my heart and soul with her teachings..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qYCamVx4fSQ
xoxoxoxoxoxo
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6 responses
@wolfie34 (26770)
• United Kingdom
12 Feb 08
I guess I can never start loving until I love myself and at the moment I am trying desperately, but very very slowly to heal my heart towards myself, I am my own worst enemy I don't even love myself that's why I look for others to love me and yes abuse me too, it was a set pattern till I finally realized it that because I send out messages to people that I attract the wrong types! I have suffered so much in the past that I will not allow my heart to make any more decisions, in fact my heart has closed down to love and it will take a miracle for me to ever love again, I keep in locked up tighter than Fort Knox. I turn people away and I become suspicious, wary and paranoid if anyone wants to get close to me. 9 years of abuse does a lot to a person's confidence towards people, it's something that I and I alone have to address and sort out, but it will take a long long time, pain does heal but very slowly xxxxx
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
13 Feb 08
Sweets just keep reading the 12 commandents or loving yourself..Just do it as many times a day as you can find time for and touch your throat and say" I can change...I can change...If you say it enogh you wioll believe it and it will happen..You are worth it Doll
xoxoxoxoxxo
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@Celanith (2327)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Many years ago I was very broken and wounded in my heart, spirit, body and soul. After many years of counseling, and walking with God and reading his word. I healed. Though some people disappoint and let me down. I am strong and able to accept, cope and pray for them because they are wounded and need that. Just like people loved and cared and prayed for me during my journey of healing. You may have scars but they heal.
@GardenGerty (169453)
• United States
14 Feb 08
Thanks for sharing this video, it really meshes with what I have felt for a very long time. It does come as a timely reminder to me. I helps me remember the power I have felt when I have been on target with my personal messages to myself.
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@grecychunny26 (9482)
• Philippines
4 Mar 08
It is a touching statement my friend.It gives me some self evaluation.I am sometimes unfair with myself. I felt this when I am doing a decision and when the decision is wrong i keep on saying to myself that I am hopeless and when it is decision making again, i am began to be hesitant to decide because i want to avoid making bad decision. I am not confident. I use to give advices to my friends that you should do this and do that because that is the right thing but if you are in their shoes you can just follow that advices easily. Did this happen to you? You know I am loving myself, i love myself i take care of my body but i did not care about my feelings. When i am down the only thing i could do is to cry and be lonely, i can't find answers.... i hate my brain i hate the way I am thinking. I keep on saying I am a positive person but the real thing is , not. I should seek a psychological problem. Do you think i have psychological problem or do you see yourself sometimes?I need more views.
@2btrueinu (700)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
I was also hurt emotionally in the past relationship but now I overcome it already. It was difficult for me to accept it but I have to face it and accept that it was already over and have to keep on going for myself. Sometimes I'm thingking that I was hurt becuase I allow somebody to hurt me and I have wrong also and I hurt that person also but now it's over. What you said it true you have to love yourself,care for yourself, take care of yourself first and not letting anyone hurt me again. Now Iam more careful of choosing. Thanks for introducing to your mentor I will try to see it in my spare time who know it will help me also.
@o2bfree (225)
• United States
12 Feb 08
Me too sister....one foot in front of the other and with hope of a brighter day ; ) Without my faith, I truly don't know where I would be. I refuse to become cynical and close minded. I believe in humanity first and foremost! But sometimes this pain is overwhelming and makes me want to withdraw. I wish you the best and am glad you have so much insight.
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