Money for charity... do you believe it?

@vivasuzi (4127)
United States
February 27, 2008 10:33pm CST
Ok so Chealsea said she would give her money to charity and it sounded like she meant ALL of it. James indicated he would give the money to support "biking around the world" or whatever which, in my opinion, is dumb. At least chealsea's money would go to a charity and help people instead of whatever the heck James was talking about. Anyway, do you believe them? I would give SOME money to charity but if I were to win that money, I would use it for ME first. I would pay off my house and car (which chealsea and james said is materialistic). Well I don't think it's materialistic to own my house without worrying about bills. I would go on a few vacations, and save the rest to earn interest. I would be more generous to charity but I wouldn't give it all to charity. It's not to say it isn't nice if Chealsea does give ALL her winnings to charity, but it does seem like she should think of her own life too. Paying off your house, or fixing up things in your house that are broken, to me that isn't materialistic it is practical. What do you think??
1 person likes this
2 responses
@raychill (6525)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Well... fixing up a house is materialistic because a house is material. So is a car. You may think it's no big deal to pay off your house and not have to worry about house bills anymore but... that's thinking of only yourself. There are plenty of people in the world who don't have a house or don't have a car and the point of being "materialistic" is having those material posessions. So by thinking about yourself not having to worry about your house, you're being materialistic because a house is a material posession that some people don't have. So, I completely agree with both Chealsea and James who say that it's materialistic. That's not to say that I wouldn't use prize money on myself or anything, but I'm just saying...it is, by definition, materialistic. From Merriam-Webster: Materialism - 1 a: a theory that physical matter is the only or fundamental reality and that all being and processes and phenomena can be explained as manifestations or results of matter b: a doctrine that the only or the highest values or objectives lie in material well-being and in the furtherance of material progress c: a doctrine that economic or social change is materially caused — compare historical materialism 2: a preoccupation with or stress upon material rather than intellectual or spiritual things
1 person likes this
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
1 Mar 08
Well I don't agree with them about not wanting to pay off those things for themselves. To me materialistic would mean if I went out and bought a million new things, a new and bigger house, etc etc. I feel like we are all living in an over stressed world where we can't take a day off work b/c we are worried we can't pay our bills. That is a crappy way to live. They make it seem like anyone who has spent their life working their butt off just to scronge up enough money for bills is materialistic for taking the money to pay off those bills. I wonder how Chealsea is living. Does she have a house? Does she plan to get married and have kids? B/c if she does plan to have all that someday, she may think twice about whether or not all her money should go to charity. I was wondering last night if perhaps she's in the dough already, b/c who else could skip out on work for MONTHS and still say they don't need the winning money.
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
2 Mar 08
Yeah I got that part of it :) I just had to complain some more about James and Chelsea :-D
@raychill (6525)
• United States
1 Mar 08
Oh I'm not saying I agree either. But I'm just saying that technically it is materialistic by definition. So I agree that it's materialistic because by definition it is, but I'm not agreeing that you shouldn't do that.
1 person likes this
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
28 Feb 08
I used to always give to charities but when I found out the very small percentages the charities actually get I think twice now, some of the heads of some charities are getting anormous wages and even some of the collectors these days get a very good wage, so I think today it has chaned from a charity to a business, its sad but it is fact.
@vivasuzi (4127)
• United States
28 Feb 08
Exactly! You know I donate about 100$ to this charity each year and I feel like I get about 500$ of free stuff in the mail! I kind of feel like I bought my calendar each year and bought my personal labels and all that stuff. I don't donate for the free stuff but that's what they seem to think! I think it's better to donate to your friends and family! At least then you know what positive change it can make. I would give a chunk to my parents so they can relax a little and not be so worried about their retirement funds. I'd give a chunk to my sister and her family for her kids. If I won it right this second, I'd give a chunk to my friends wedding! Charity starts at home :)
1 person likes this
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
28 Feb 08
I agree with you 100%
1 person likes this