miss somebody
By Canteen
@Canteen (592)
China
February 28, 2008 11:04pm CST
having broke up with him, miss him terriblely now. when i am busy studying or something else, i can't forget him for a moment. But every time i saw anything has association with him, i become heart broken. it really hurts. what's worse, though i think of him a lot, i even can't tell him. does he miss me either? i don't know.
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6 responses
@britzsofly (394)
• United States
5 Mar 08
i am going throw the same thing.
i know its a hard pill to swallow.
people always tell you to move on , but its only easy said
then done until they've walked in your shoes.
some people are stronger then others , some people are willing to deal with things like this and bounce back.
others hurt,cry,and stress pain !
so we all arent the same and it takes us all time to heal !
take your time , if it was meant it would be
call him ! if not then just ease your mind.
know that everything is going to be alright !
i mean if he loved u like you are expessing your love about him then yes he probally does misses u .
thanks.
-brittney
@Canteen (592)
• China
5 Mar 08
i visited his personal website space yesterday. i know he's missing me,too. it was me who said goodbye to him. the reason for it is complecated, and now i know we love each other so much. he said every five minite there comes a bus, and every nine minute there comes a subway, but our love will never come again once missed. heartbroken to read those words.
@britzsofly (394)
• United States
9 Mar 08
yes i understand ! im afraid to call my ex too..i love him soo very much , and its so funny how you and i are going through the exact samthing ! my friend text him yesterday to see if he still loved me and he said yeah , she said well how come you wont call her and he said because only thing him and i was going to do was argue ! i told my friend , thats the last thing i want to do ! i would give up anything to have him back ..even though i left him but still...sometimes your heart can be telling you something different then your mind ! but i know how you feel..you dont have to call him..write him and mail it to him ! but talking on the phone to him is one of the least things you can do to get him to understand you still love him..they're many other forms of communication as i said before if you write him a letter you have the time to express your thoughts, but if you call him then everything you was feeling are not going to be how you feel once you've heared his voice ! time is not everything..be gentle with it for a while. maybe he need time to be calm too..hey , who knows you & him might get back ! lets pray.
-brittney
@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Feb 08
I think its a very natural scenerio. we miss him because you still love him. I do not know why this relationship is broken. But whatever may be its natural to feel the same way for the person you loved so much once.
Just be busy in other activities. it will ease the pain.
@rsa101 (40962)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
I do not know how long have you been missing this person but then if it was just recently then I would understand it the way you feel and look at your situation. But then I suggest you slowly move on and pick up the pieces were you left of and try moving on without him. I know it hurts right now its just like being wounded painful the first few days but as time goes by the pain will slowly disappear and you can move on again. Being heartbroken is like that too painful at first but expect that healing will come if you will it so. Right now you seem to have a hard time moving on that's fine but don't expect this to last that long. Just be positive and as much as possible don't think of him anymore. If the two of you are meant to be then he will come back again.
@ashjoe76 (1422)
• India
29 Feb 08
we all go through such a phase in life, eh? in fact, i had gone thorugh many such experiences where my entire life seemed to revolved around a particular person. in some ways it can be entirely negative, but if we succeed in channelising our pains and restlessness in some creative way, you can turn it to a very enlightening period.
@dont_pick_your_nose (2279)
• Australia
18 Mar 08
Ask him not us! If you really still want to be with him then go and find him. If you only like him and dont want the relationship again then dont worry about it, it is just all part of breaking up and you will feel good again before you know it.
