beauty or brain?
By checapricorn
@checapricorn (16060)
United States
18 responses
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
2 Apr 08
i also prefer to have intelligent than beauty. in fact, beauty could be made by using proper make up while intelligent could not make by anything cause its already GOD giving to human
. its hard to find many people who has beauty and intelligent most of the beauty people (just in my subjective opinion) not too smat enough
. its hard to find many people who has beauty and intelligent most of the beauty people (just in my subjective opinion) not too smat enough
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 08
hm, we can't neglect that some in case (mostly i think) the beauty person has the special treatment from anothers rather than the intelligent person. but i think its normal cause beauty can be seen directly without any proovement while the intelligent shoud prrove firstly that the intelligent in their brain

@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
3 Apr 08
precisely, and i also dont have any idea about the criteria!
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I posted this topic really after watching a beauty contest on you tube where the one who was proclaim as the winner didnt even answer the questions correctly..She never made it but many were confused how come she won!

@dimarkitekt13 (359)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
yeah, i prefer brains than beauty, especially for the girls. she may not look so cool but i appreciate and respect them more, if they have intelligence. although intelligent girl is very particulate in terms of choosing their partners,
beauty however, should go hand in hand with the brain, as the other comments say.
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
exactly right, intelligent girl should I say a little bit picky and have higher standard!but, its our common connotation here in the Philippines like brainy girls are dumb in their "lovelife"...dont know exactly if true true! just people's observation of their friends and relatives!!! thanks dimarkitekt13
@pumpkinjam (8876)
• United Kingdom
1 Apr 08
My answer is the same as the first!
I think, if I had to choose one, it would defintely be intelligence. Although, it would be interesting to know what it's like to be stupid. I could think of advantages like the fact that I wouldn't get bored so easily because I'd think getting drunk was the best entertainment in the world and I'd never have any ambition or intention to do anything more productive!
The thing about beauty and intelligence is that if you are physically attractive but without intelligence, that is all you have. It's good in a way because oftentimes, looks are all you need. However, having intelligence can get you what you want and can also lend itself to enhancing physical features.
Now I'm complicating myself, it's getting late so I will end by saying that my choice (if it were a choice) would certainly be intelligence. I honestly would not like to be like some of the pretty air-heads I know! Although some of those air-heads appear to have neither brains nor beauty and, of course "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" and "beauty comes from within" so either way, the way an intelligent person looks would really not matter as they would have other positive attributes.
I don't know if this has all made sense because I'm falling asleep typing it!
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
1 Apr 08
you give a very good eplanation..goodight pumpkinjam..Im with you..beauty will just fade and temporary!I remember when I was in college, every one has a crush to our professor who is not that attractive but very very smart! He seems to be a super start in the campus!lol
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
1 Apr 08
im sleepy too..pls correct me in my spelling: explanation and goodnight!!! lol
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
thats cool! I wish I have them both too..lol, have a great day I_LUV_U....
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
seriously, thats my choice too! beauty will just fade but intelligence will be the best treasure a man can have for him to survive in this competitive world and will bring him closer in his dreams!!! Thanks Breath
@sherrylwatts (326)
• United States
8 Apr 08
My husband and I were discussing this the other day only the question was beautiful and stupid or intelligent and ugly. My answer is different from most people - I would rather be beautiful and stupid - because I've never met a dumb person that knew they were dumb, therefore you would be happy. But if you're intelligent, you would know you were ugly and be unhappy. I'll choose happiness any day of the week. (and yes beauty does fade, but you'd still be so dumb you wouldn't know how stupid you are - LOL).
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Apr 08
thanks sherrylwatts....I wonder how the debate goes and who won! hahhaha....enjoy posting!
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
8 Apr 08
i love this....great thinking..thanks for dropping sherrylwatts!
@sherrylwatts (326)
• United States
8 Apr 08
great question for debate! I "stole" this from you to ask a friend on IM - very interesting comments - LOL

@comeonmolly (828)
• China
13 Apr 08
Hi.there dear checapricorn,
For me I would prefer intellifent rather than beauty as I think that the beauty can fade with the time goes by,on the country the intelligent will comany with us throughout our whole life meanwhile it also can add color to our life as well as make us more attractive a book when I am a little girl that is "the most attractive person is not judged by his or her appearance ,but by the inner side of this person."That some sort of truth within
The person who is intelligent is such a atractive thing that can gain respect from others;-)
Wish you a nice day:-)
Molly

@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Apr 08
Thanks for dropping and I truly agree with what you have mentioned!Intelligent will bring you to a very good life, you make very great decisions in life for your own good because of your intellect, this will bring you closer to your dreams because you know really the way how to do it! Whereas, being beautiful is just limited! You attract people but once you start talking,no one will trust you or rely you anymore as far as work is concern! you can't definitely make good choices since you are just limited and you don't think broad enough!
@clowdine (1402)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
To be intelligent is better. It is more useful when it comes to survival. If someone is intelligent, she can also make herself appealing like a physically beautiful person by demonstrating wit. It's not easy to be beautiful as it is not simple to be intelligent but with the technology and cosmetic age we have, beauty can be achieved in some degree but intelligence is more likely a permanent thing. Some knowledge can be acquired thru serious efforts though.
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
Yes true, there are fake beauties nowadays if only one has the $$$$...but to be intelligent indeed is a gift and a hard work!
@dragonfly242 (1060)
• Bahamas
2 Apr 08
I'd go with brains anyday. And besides beauty can be bought, but intelligence...you just can't put a price on.
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
especially nowawdays, every parts of our body can be replaced, can be edited and enhaced! lol!!
@nice030481 (1109)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
i want to be more intelligent, coz i already have beauty!! lol!!
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I like that attitude! lol..i can see anyway, you are taken so must be beautiful..Mabuhay nice030481
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
3 Apr 08
lol...justify friend? why? joke!..have a great day!
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@carinio98 (2929)
• Philippines
3 Apr 08
ah yeah lol sorry if im not wroth is specifically sorry about that. well i like to be beautiful its just that if you are look good you look brainy.
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@yasmin02476 (292)
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4 Apr 08
i like to think i have both...lol...but i suppose brains gets you further but i cant get alot by fluttering my eyes lashes too..ha ha....seriously brains because when some one speak with intelligence its beautiful...x
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
4 Apr 08
im with you yasmin02476...you're very lucky then to have them both..lol, me too I feel like I have I do know yet have to confirm first..joke!!
@mhayelynna (363)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
i choose to be intelligent
i don't see other advantages of being beautiful other than many men will court you( and i never like that)
while being intelligent is a great factor of being successful
and until your last days intelligence will never fade but beauty will fade at least at your 40s you won't be able to use it for long.
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I agree..it fades as time goes by, but being intelligent if lifetime! will bring us closer to our dreams, get a good job and later on we can afford to beautify ourselves!!! Thanks
@wnbwnbwnb (426)
• China
3 Apr 08
Definately intelligent!
Being beautiful is great,however, being intelligent is excellent!
If one is beautiful, he/she may look pretty; but if one is intelligent, then he/she must be charming!
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
3 Apr 08
true then beauty will follow after you have that brain and confident dealing with people!
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Apr 08
wow! I love that confidence lkbooi! thats what every person needs to develop within! I tell you, when I was younger, I always wish and wish and wish..hhahaha..I wish I'm like this, I wish I'm like her....its funny but I'm sure its part of just growing up in my simple place and Its ok for me. But, later on in my life, I know if I wont start loving and accepting myself whole heartedly who else will! hahahhhahaha....so, I was contented with what I can do and what I have in life! Its a wonderful feeling and it was my gift for myself! hahahhhahah!!!
@jiangsl (377)
• China
13 Apr 08
I think it is very easy for me to choose.Of course,I will choose to be intelligent.I can do many things and get success if I am very intelligent.I will earn lots of money,I can buy anything I like.I also find a girl friend easily.So to be intelligent is wiseome.Many modern things are made by intelligence,and the development of the world also depend on intelligence.Don't you think so?
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Apr 08
i agree 100% jiangsl! When you're truly smart,you are just like a magnet to girls and every one will desire of you! hahhahaha...that's true and I can attest to that!
@anujain75 (1059)
• India
13 Apr 08
i will choose intelligent.because without intillegence no money,no money means no bread butter
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Apr 08
Right on! No one will hire anybody who is just physically attractive and will just be a nuisance in any work place!Its a mess! hahhahaha...In order to get a good job which is of course mean good salary, once needs to be intelligent in his'her own field!and this gift will be a stepping stone to be a very successful persons and live a great life!
@augustine87 (173)
• Philippines
13 Apr 08
No need to choose. LOL
Seriously, I believe one can be beautiful just by being intelligent. If beauty is to be defined as how a person attracts another, I know people who are not good-looking physically but are very charming and very sincere, thus beautiful. They use their intelligence and their sensitivity to reach out to other people I guess, beauty is about character too. But of course, there are cases wherein intelligence, in terms of IQ, prevents one from being socially competent. Thus, we have the geeks and the dorks. (I did not include nerds here because nerds are intellectual and socially competent people.)
But one is not necessarily intelligent when one is beautiful. Case in point, Paris Hilton. If we were talking about the physique and just the physique, I can consider here beautiful. But beyond that, she's always making a fool of herself. There's no other word for that except stupidity.
@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
13 Apr 08
haahhaha..thats true!I agree with what you have said, when one is intelligent he/she will be very attractive to every one will he/she will start talking! It will indeed captivate attention and I just dont understand why, Its just work that way! You will love to listen and hear their voice! Its really amazing how it works!






If I may enhance, I will...intelligence. Then, using my super-natural intelligence, I will carve ways out to make myself appear much more beautiful.
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