When love is a drag ?
By jidesh
@jidesh (283)
Canada
April 2, 2008 1:31pm CST
All rosy rosy when fallen in love fresh, slowly things unfold weakneses come out, compatibility takes it toll and disagreement occurs.
Fight once in a while is fine, but turns out to be every hour event, still there is some force that makes the bond tight.Neither one is ready to understand and realizes there is some major issue, still continues...for years and years...Some just understands and make adjustments, atleast they enjoy days of fun time and essence of love.
I agree nok jhok adds to value to relationship, but in the as mentioned above I mean there is no end to it still people continue...
Questions is (most cases) : at first moment of understanding(not realizing) that there is problem why cann't guy or the gal make a tough call and say it's over when neither party is gonna step down on uncompatibility issues ?
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3 responses
@ladym33 (10978)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I suspect neither wants to end it because they are used to each other and afraid of what the unknown will be with out one another. Sometimes people feel that it is better to be with the wrong person than to be alone. But if it is not meant to be than they should let each other go so they can both find the right person.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
2 Apr 08
I'm not sure compatibility is the issue. Just because everything isn't fresh and new doesn't mean you have to fight. Though, sometimes I think this is where the relationship ends up.
People are looking for change and they find it by fighting.
Now, we know they still care about each other. So, what I suggest instead of letting that arguement come out. Stop and think. How would you feel if someone else treated this person the way you are getting ready to? You wouldn't like someone else yelling at them, so don't do it.
Step away and cool down. Make this a habit.
Then add a good change into your life. People need change, we just need to make sure it is in the right direction.
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@Breath (1297)
• United States
2 Apr 08
The longer your with someone the harder it is to end the relationship.I think sometimes both people know the relationship just isn't working out but both parties just hate to be the one to end the relationship.You just get comfortable with the person your with.Even if your not that happy and fight you guys share the same living space and have time invested into the relationship.Sometimes people just hate to be the one to end it because maybe they are afraid of being alone and not finding someone else.We always second guess our self.Only you know if you are still in love.sometimes you have to be the stronge one and end it even if it hurts for a while.
