"Noone know's What Goes On Behind Closed Doors"

@raydene (9871)
United States
April 4, 2008 2:00pm CST
Hi All, Many years ago there was a C&W song titled "Noone know's What Goes On Behind Closed Doors" Do you ever wonder or think what goes on behind closed doors? Through the whole X cheating me...and me kicking him out thing I always kept a smile on my face , my head held high and a happy as helI persona whenever I was out in public or even in the house around the kids. Although I did get smashed on wine with my neighbor one time the day after it all happened. But in my room 'behind closed doors' was where I cried my eyes out and listened to music half the night or posted on line or went to www.freerice.com And the point is that "Noone know's What Goes On Behind Closed Doors" Do you wonder? xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I remember this song very well. I loved it. I have often wandered what goes on behind "some" closed doors but not all. I have been cheated on alot of time by my ex's also. I used to go in my room and shut the door and cry and hide from the rest of the world slso. I did not want anyone else to know at the time what was going on behind my closed door. I just wanted be alone.
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I remember dancing with my brother-in-law at a party at my sister Doris's house. I was just a young girl and feeling so grown up dancing with a grownup at a grownup party with my grownup sister's friends! I felt so honored to be invited. My sister always arranged things like that to make me feel special. I do miss her alot. She's gone 2 years next month. xoxoxoxoxoxo
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@weemam (13372)
4 Apr 08
I do sis yes. People always assume that because I smile and laugh a lot that I don't have any worries , It only means I can hide it well , This was strange you writing this as Mo and I were just talking about the same thing today , xx
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
My Darling Sister I know you carry a heavy load and carry it with a smile on your face and only good thoughts in your heart.. I do love you Sis xoxoxoxoxox
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@Polly1 (12644)
• United States
4 Apr 08
No one knows what it is like to walk in someone elses shoes neither, unless you have been there. I sure would like to know what goes on behind closed doors, I would like to be a peeping Polly, you could be a peeping Raydene. And when we found out what was going on we could kick A$$. When I had things on my mind, I would put on the happy front, the smile, nothing was wrong kind of thing. Now you can hold your head high and throw open those doors. "Let Freedom Ring"
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
I guess Polly Dear The best we can do is judge others a little less harshly in the future cause we don't know what goes on behind closed doors! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
4 Apr 08
That is so true. On the outside a family may seem to be the perfect family~ the perfect couple with the perfect kids. But in reality, no one ever really know what goes on in that family. If we are having problems in our marriage, we don't go and tell everyone. We keep it to ourselves and literally fool our friends and family.
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Yea Sweets Many times people are suffering behind closed doors and noone is the wiser... So very very sad! xoxoxoxoxo
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@muscare (3068)
• Australia
5 Apr 08
All the time, I wonder what goes on, and whether people are as they seem on the outside. My inlaws have made me think about it, they appear to be the 'perfect' family in public, but once one becomes a part of the family, their true colours show through. Even when I read news stories about certain things like teen kills parents, I wonder how much emotional damage they've endured behind closed doors before they finally snapped(not saying I agree with their action). No, things aren't always as they seem on the surface, and I feel sorry for all who suffer in silence behind closed doors.
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Hi Doll I do think about it and this is why I try to give everyone a chance...I mean when someone is rude..I know that I will not know why but I will not return rude to them! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
8 Apr 08
Yes, that is a good way to be, even if people are rude. As you say, we don't know what is wrong. Thanks for the Best Response!
@BYOLA2871 (4371)
• South Africa
5 Apr 08
yes alot goes on behind closed doors and you tend to think and wonder what goes on behind those doors,and really its a whole lot of things,many laugh in public,they chat with you and you think they are happy but you dont even know what is happening when they close their doors.Some of the things that i know happens behind those doors are crying,pains,heartache,fighting,squabbles etc and many more.its just awesome how things go on behind the doors
@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Funny Sweets How the name of a song can gain so many responses. It's just amazing... the how we can be different when we need to be! xoxoxoxoxoo
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
6 Apr 08
that is so true, nobody knows what goes on behind closed doors, sometimes the couples that appear the happiest in public are the most miserable at home behind close doors.
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• Japan
5 Apr 08
Creepy!But we never know.It may be something exciting.
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• Philippines
18 Apr 08
For me my opinion is, we don't want other none relatives or close pals to be involve on our private lives that it was when we are hurt to whatever reason we just to the crying thing on closed doors. I do that. When i have a problem I avoid even my closest friends, i just want to be alone in my room, thinking what i have done wrong and what will i have to do,cry , be angry and then finally decide to move on. We try to solve this dilemma first with our own and if we can't and we need someone for suggestion that is the time we asked for help. I guess we are all like that and I am like that, i agree there are things happen beyond closed doors.
@mummymo (23706)
6 Apr 08
I have been in the situation where what went on behind closed doors was horrific and traumatic and I don't and won't live that way anymore! I do put a face on but not cos of how I am being treated but when I am feeling very, very down due to the pain and frustration although my closest friends do see me when I am that low - I have held it all in before and it made me really ill! xx
@BarBaraPrz (51819)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
4 Apr 08
No... Whatever goes on behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors... unless it's something really juicy
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@raydene (9871)
• United States
5 Apr 08
Sweatheart You make me giggle! I guess there are some very juicy things happening behind closed doors! xoxoxoxoxoxo
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