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Parents, Community Leaders, Students: Why aren't you giving respect?  email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people 5 years ago

Please, read my words (and then please read the article that's provided below):

I'm not too old, I'm not too young. However I was raised that teachers should be given respect. I have had terrible teachers, but I always showed respect. I assume that other people aren't raised as I was and are taught that they can do anything they please. I always thought that it takes a village to raise a child, therefore I put the blame equally on the parents, community leaders, friends and students.

Parents: you should raise your children. Oh, are you too busy? Do you have lach key children? Are you on drugs? Working two jobs? Well have you ever heard of a baby sitter? How about a family relative to baby sit or day care? How about Big Brothers, Big Sisters or allowing them to develop positive relationships at the YMCA? Eh?

Community Leaders: Yes, you always want to blame the teachers. They are at fault cos the parents didn't raise them correctly. Have you ever heard of the theory grabage in garbage out? You can't improve people if they don't want to. Therefore, why don't you make more programs like Big Brothers, Big Sisters, YMCA and mentoring programs after school? Why don't you hold the parents and students accountable for their actions?

Students: By your role you see so much each day via the media, family and life experiences. You should know how to improve your behavior and what is expected in your class. You shouldn't always blame everyone else when things go wrong! Take some responsibility for your actions.


Now, I just read this article:

http://www.teachermagazin...

It's concerning 3rd grade students (translation for Non USA residents: eight to nine year old children) plotting to harm their teacher with a knife, toy gun, and hand cuffs.

Yes, we all want to blame everyone else, but guess what? Everyone is equally responsible for the problem.


Now, please provide any comments about teaching and education. Why does everyone blame the teacher/school system? Thank you.


Pablo

 

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Jemina (2554) response was accepted on 12/11/2009.
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. Hatley (50812)   ranked 436 out of 27,148 in people   5 years ago

parents ultimately have to raise their own kids and the schools cannot do if for them and if they need some help for gods sakes ask for itas it is out there to be used.


myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

Yes, that's what I don't understand. So many people are there to make EXCUSES of why THEY CANNOT do something...well at least in the US, there are SO MANY RESOURCES that it makes me think that they must not want to do it. It's very sad that some kids would try to hurt their teacher :(


Pablo

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. mememama (2153)   ranked 666 out of 27,148 in people   5 years ago

Everyone blames the teacher/school system because they don't want to be held accountable for raising their children. I think parents today are too focused on material things, so they don't pay attention to what matters: their children. I know it's hard getting by now in days, but do we all need these big fancy cars, video games, and houses? I know of a few parents that work more hours so they can do that. Children don't get two craps about that, they need their family.


myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

Family is very important, so listen up parents, you've heard it from a mom that knows. Isn't it better to spend time with your children than not? Quality time over not spending at all will get success in the relationship


Pablo

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3. myLot reputation of 95/100. OreoCookie3 (22464)   5 years ago

Everything starts in the home. Disrespect begins at home, as well as respect. I think parents of 3rd and 4th graders just don't have a grip on their kids for them to act in this way. The teachers aways get blamed, but maybe the parents need to pay more attention to what their their kids are doing.


myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

Exactly, OreoCookie3! How can someone not know that their child got a knife? I guess being sneaky or something? Respect begins with the parents and the community. You can't expect the teacher/school system to work miracles if the parents don't give a crap about their children.

"If you really don't want no children, why do you have them?" was what Lucky Dube sang in one of his songs. I question that to many parents, especially ones that just don't care. Why did you have them to begin with? blink

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. Jemina (2554)   ranked 220 out of 27,148 in people   5 years ago

I saw this news a few days ago and I was actually shocked that those children even at their tender age can already think such things. I think they have too much exposures to violence and crimes that they get their minds fed with informations that are of mature content.

I feel sorry for the teacher. I'm a teacher myself so I can relate with the teacher if ever she became rude to them. As a teacher when you have told the kids not to do it the 3rd or 5th times in a day for several days then I'm sure you would get fed up.

Much worse, dealing with students with ADHD or ADD is very, very difficult. You have to be a kid to understand them. I just hope the parents will come to their senses and realize where they have gone wrong.


myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

Yes, I agree. And guess what Jemina? She only displined the student because he was standing on his chair without permission....who wants a kid to stand on the chair and be disruptive when you're trying to teach the other kids in the class? ADD/ADHD is not even an excuse...the parents should have the brains to take their children to their doctor for proper treatment...or control their diet (no sugars/artificial colors). The problem with ADD/ADHD is that sometimes they don't take their medicine (follow their diet) so their symptoms show up....

I agree parents should take more responsibility with their children..

Pablo


myLot reputation of 98/100. Jemina (2554)   ranked 220 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

I'm with you there when it comes to monitoring the child's daily intake of food and supervising his medication. These two things should be strictly observed.

And to think that the teacher is not new in teaching, she's been in that school for years so she knows what she's doing.


myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

Yes, Jemina. As I was reading the article the teacher said the students weren't serious. That could be true, but I am still in shock of their actions of why they did it. She is a veteran teacher so (I assume) she's know what's best for her students. Of course, standing on your chair isn't even appropriate in most situations unless the class is playing an educational game of some kind. It's sad about the students, and I truly feel sorry for them..

Pablo


myLot reputation of 98/100. Jemina (2554)   ranked 220 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

The students couldn't be serious but the plot they devised is quite well planned for their age. These students/pupils must have been watching crimes too much and so their mind is fed with informations that needs to be supervised by adults.

A chair is for seating and the floor is for standing, that's very, very self explainable. If the kid is allowed to do it at home, chances are s/he will do it anywhere s/he goes unless the parents train and discipline them at home.


myLot reputation of 89/100. callarse1 (3214)   ranked 1,907 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

I agree Jemina that the parent plays a key role especially for some of the behaviors in class, right? :)

Pablo


myLot reputation of 98/100. Jemina (2554)   ranked 220 out of 27,148 in people  5 years ago

That's absolutely right! Parents are the mos responsible in molding their children's character and behaviour.

It's sad though that sometimes parents are too busy with other things that they don't have time to look after their kids.

As a result, these kids could watch movies unsupervised and learn from what they see.

Or some rich parents can afford to pay other people to look after their kids who may not have the best idea how to discipline and train children how to behave properly.

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