How do you respond to the present girlfriend of your ex boyfriend?
By chechuva
@chechuva (1275)
Philippines
April 5, 2008 2:58am CST
its been a year since i broke up with my ex-boyfriend... and now he's with another girl and he's happy. actually his girlfriend is one of my closes friend. every time i see them there something inside me that really feels awkward. i already have my boyfriend now and am happy with him.
Im having a hard time how to talk with my friend again. i really don't know if she likes me around when they are together. I don't know if she knew that i and her boyfriend is still talking at times and helping each other with some things.. but i do put limits on myself to talk to the guy when my friend is around..
if you are in my position, would you talk to the girl and ask her if she's comfortable with you around them or just leave her? will you still talk with your ex-boyfriend?
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2 responses
@rsa101 (40952)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Indeed that would be awkward to feel when you are with your ex and his GF. Well I guess there is nothing wrong in asking her anyway you said she is one of your closest friends and I guess you can ask her casually to really feel comfortabel when you are with them. Since you still in contact with your ex then it would be much nicer that her GF would know about it so that she can trust the two of you together. I think is best that you inform her than knowing it from somebody else which might insinuate something to your friend.
@delkar (1712)
• Romania
1 Jan 09
if i were your boyfriend, i would be mad on you, to talk with your ex-boyfriend. I think that if you love your actual boyfriend, you shouldn`t talk with your ex. you could make them argue adnd you could lose your boyfriend too, even if you love him. So, i think you should let your exboyfriend . Just hellow and just that. Take care.
