Why do other people love to talk about their neighbors?
By djmarion
@djmarion (4898)
Philippines
April 16, 2008 8:45am CST
My family lives in a subdivision few kilometers away from the city. At first we thought the place was perfect for us since the village is quiet and all of our neighbors are educated but were wrong, the place is good but not the neighborhood or at least not all of them.
The problem about them is that they love to talk about us, all of us in the family. I don't understand why and what have we done wrong to them, you see, we don't hang in the street, all of my siblings are working and so we are all busy, we have no time to stop and spread nosy gossip around. We are quiet people, when we have no work we rather stay inside our house, to make it short we rather sleep or chat with one another than to go out of our house and chat with the neighbor.
Lately I've been hearing stories from them about my family, they keep saying that we are dirty, that we are being bankrupt, that we are snob and so on and so forth. They are also spreading news that we are selling our house because it will be foreclose by the bank and we'll end up with nothing.
Funny but these are all full of crap! I don't understand why they keep on pestering us instead of taking care of their family and their own lives. We have nothing to do with them and infact we've been ignoring those nosy news coming from them for years now, thinking they will get tired of talking about us but to no avail it seems that they are enjoying talking about us everyday. We try our best not to be affected with those gossip but sometimes it seems that enough is enough, i am so pissed-off that i want to yell at them and confront them about their attitude.
I don't know when will they stop talking about us of if they will gonna stop.
4 responses
@williamjisir (22819)
• China
16 Apr 08
Hello dear djmarion. I am sorry that you do not have nice neighbour. But you are right to ignore them about their gossip. Mouth is there with them and we can do nothin to stop them from gossiping others. So I do not think that there is need to care about them. In fact, I dislike nosy people, but I try to stay away from them if I know they are such people. Just ignore them, or it will only make you feel worse. Anyway I wish you and your family happy without getting your life affected by those unfriendly people. Take care, friend.
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@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
15 May 08
people who talk about others are just pretty worthless themselves!
if they are, why would they have time for gossiping anyway...
you know for sure that they are not saying and does not know the truth about your family.. so just shrug it off and don't mind them. whether they stop or not, people around the neighborhood will know soon that those who told news about your family are just lying.... so that does not seem bad at all. :)
@rhane7315 (5649)
• Philippines
18 Apr 08
well i those people don't have anything to do with their own lame lives. it also happened on me for about 2-3years ago. when my bf that time (who's already been my ex right now) stays in our house for about 2-3 days. it happens that we have a long distance relationship and our house we're too far for about 50 kilometers so we seldom see each other and that time, he decided to stay with us just to spend his new year with us. then it happens that my cousin told me that our neighbor were gossiping about us and they even asked my cousin if my ex and i we're living together. they even said that they saw me sitting on my ex's lap, which is not true
i'm really fuming that time that i wanted to approached them and ask what the hell they're talking about
i'm really fuming that time that i wanted to approached them and ask what the hell they're talking about




