Do you follow your heart or your head when you fall in love?  |
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 People fall in love in different ways. Some follow their heart and some follow their heads. It is easy for some people to fall in love and when they are in love, they tend to loose focus on what is essential and right sometimes, but it depends on the situation.
Some say that you need to use your head as the head is above the heart and that is why God placed it there. Others say its the heart to use as all revolves around love. But to a more practical modern reason, some tell you to use both and balance things out.
I tend to use my heart first when falling in love but after learning lessons from bad experiences, I have learned to use my head also in balance with my heart. So what do you use? Head or Heart?
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1.  rombi001 (458) | 3 months ago |  I would go for the heart:)
but if it doesn't work out it is much more painful!! LAtely I have been trying to keep things more down to earth and not to be very intemate with anyone so that I get some peace and quite... Falling in love can be a full time job!!
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | Hi Rombi. Yes its painful when you use your heart to fall in love with someone. For me its not love if its not full time as you are not really serious about it.
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| 2. OreoCookie3 (11846) | 3 months ago |  I have a hard time understanding how people say they "fall" into love with people. I have never fallen or even stumbled into love with anyone, but I did "grow" into love with people, and the last time I grew in love with someone I married him. Falling kind of sounds like you don't have a choice, but you do have a choice. I will always use my head from now on. I have followed my heart and gotten burned, I will never give up my home and live with a man. I will keep my home base, and if anyone has to do the leaving it will be him.
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | That is a nice term to describe how you "grow" into love. Well I also don't know why people call it "falling" in love. I guess your heart "fell" for the person you adore.
Its good to know that painful experiences keep us standing in the ground and use the head when the next time it occurs and I'm glad you have that conviction now to keep the home base. I guess most people learn to use the head later in life when the heart did not work.
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3.  ptrikha1 (4228) | 3 months ago |  Well I believe it is a combination of Head & Heart because we have to live & go on staying in a real World .
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | Some people prefer it to use both combination of the heart and the mind. But some use the hear at first then the mind.
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| 4. Hatley (8605) | 3 months ago |  I think that when I fell in love, just once, it was heart first then head as I just knew he was the man I was going to marry and there was no question about it. My parent were less than thrilled that I married him only six weeks after we met but I knew he was right for me and we were married for thirty four years so I must have done something right.
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | I think one way or the other most of us use our heart to fall in love and for me, I dont think its stupid as you are just following your heart and by that its what makes and lets you feel happy. I too hope that you will be successful in following your heart. A balance of both is also a good thing to do.
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 giePortlandOR_08 (3939) | 3 months ago |  Though it was a painful experienced but i never regreted that i always use my heart.I was happy and that counts most to me.
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| 6. dumblnddzzy (7691) | 3 months ago |  HI gabrielle!! How are you doing? This time around I am using my head first & then my heart. For the same reasons as you. I need to use my head to balance out my heart. I've learned to not be so shallow about looks, which is a step in the right direction. Yet when I see people now I also see the funny in them which is good I think...Lori
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | Hi Lori. I'm doing fine but a little busy so, I'm coming only a few time here at myLot. Its good to know that you are now using your head after all that you have gone through. Yes, its good to use the head in balance with the heart and its good to know that you now see the funny in people. Take care.
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| 7. busta1baby (1197) | 3 months ago |  id i know when its time to leave the relationship...and mine that i am in now is so wonderful..he is so great to me...and im so glad i got him b4 another gurl got him...its so hard to explain my love for him...but id die for him...cause i love him that much
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | Its good for you that you love him so much and you have fought your love for him. I guess you are so much using your heart and so in love with him. Wish you more to stay longer.
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| 8. rexiemay (348) | 3 months ago |  when i fall in love, i usually follow my heart because when we fall inlove we tend to use it instaed of our heart. sometimes our emotions are stronger than what we think is right. that is why even though we would be hurt in loving someone, we still love that person because what we feel is stronger than what we think. i dont think that there is something wrong with that. loving someone with all your heart is never a crime but we must prepare for the consequences of loving too much.
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | I agree with you that in loveing someone, we must be prepared of the consequences of the things that will come our way when we use a lot of our heart. It is not wrong to fall in love and follow it better than what is right and follow our mind but we just have to be careful or take the consequences of it.
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| 9. checapricorn (3342) | 3 months ago |  I can say, Head. I use to analyze and evaluate things a lot before I will decide. I was very very careful since I don't like to end up my life like some of my friends, who ruined their future. I do go out and enjoy life but I always think ahead and follow my limits! I am very lucky I found the man for me!
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| gabrielle47 (613) | 3 months ago | Well good for you and yes, there are people who are thinkers first and learn fast based on other's experiences and I guess thats what happened to you and why you are using more of your head than your heart. Congratulations for being in love with the man for you.
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| checapricorn (3342) | 3 months ago | Yea..I am just blessed to have a lot of friends who were all married. I have learned a lot from them and makes me more wise in coming up with correct decision, I have fallen in love before when I was still single which I thought I will never ever forget and I will not survive without him in my life! But, I always let my head rule since I knew he wasn't that ideal as far as relationship is concern! I am not perfect in my life but I just want also to be happy. and after knowing him that much, I found out that we just don't match for some reasons! I tried to forget my feelings, it took a while but I was able to handle it, I am glad that we are still friends this time, I am hoping though he will find her soul mate in the near future! | |
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| 10. chocolate_monette (52) | 3 months ago | I would say, I used my head and followed with my heart. Luckily, I am successful and happy. You see, love will just develop. You just have to let it happen. Give it a try. You would not be a fool to let go of the person who loves you. I mean, I don't think you will settle for the person who just fool around. That is how I meant by using my head. But of course, you will not be happy if you do not have feelings at all. But trust me, you will know if you are right or not in an early stage of that relationship. | |
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