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 The first time you made love to your love, did you plan the evening or did it just happen?
It's been 3 years since i was with a guy so i'm a little nervous about going to the next step in my relationship, even more so now as i'm sober so it's very different.
I want it to be special but i know the first time maybe is not that good as your both nervous. Just wondered what the best way to approach this.
Any advice on this will be great thanks, even wether on the sofa or in the bedroom?.
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1.  Elixiress (2729) | 2 years ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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 aquajules4 (330) | 2 years ago | i just wondered as it is the first time wether the mood should be set right or just go for it.
I think it's better to just go for it as, if you plan it you may be really nervous and then it will go wrong. | |
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| Elixiress (2729) | 2 years ago | I would say spur of the moment at least then you know both people are in the mood for it. I feel that if I organised it, by the time it got to the time of the doing it, I might not be in the mood. This could result in one half of the relationship being disappointed, because they were excited or the other side of the relationship doing it unwillingly, which isn't as enjoyable. | |
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| 2. ozzeth (489) | 2 years ago |  its just happened never planned. You know the connections is there..you feel love and then when your body touch to the other body or even just your hands. You feel something different. Your body talk to each other. Your mind and your eyes show the feelings then....thats it.
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| aquajules4 (330) | 2 years ago | It's a new relationship, he has said that he does not want to rush it. But the feelings i have for him are electric and he seems a little nervous so.
But i think perhaps a nice massage or something like that might help the nerves a little what do you think? | |
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| aquajules4 (330) | 2 years ago | Romantic evening is a good idea, will have to suggest it.
I think spur of the moment is best at least the first time. | |
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4.  GoSaintsNo1 (343) | 2 years ago |  for me i think if you plan it then it seems to me the mood would be all wrong. i would let it just happen when the time is rite for the both of you
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| aquajules4 (330) | 2 years ago | I think your right, what about setting the mood. Like candles or is that to planned?? | |
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| GoSaintsNo1 (343) | 2 years ago | no not at all it,s what you like and puts you in the mood | |
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| 5. abhisad (6) | 2 years ago |  It was a special thing that both are you coming close to each other, so it is important that both you feel very comfortable,relax & full satisfication. So bedroom is the most preferable thing from my view.
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| aquajules4 (330) | 2 years ago | Yes i think your right, it was very close to happening today but his sofa is just too small and uncomfortable. So i think i need to drop a few hints about the bedroom.
Thanks for you advice | |
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| 6. kezabelle (2671) | 2 years ago |  No we didnt plan it it just happened and it was amazing, I think if you plan it it gives you chance to be nervous and that can ruin things a little so relax see what happens but if its going to be good it will be no matter what
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| aquajules4 (330) | 2 years ago | thanks for your in put will take on board when i meet someone new. As this relationship does not seem to be going anywhere. | |
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