What shall we write to our precious ones?

Hi! Im dont really have a daughter but I am a daughter. So I just wanted to say that I really apperciate you caring not only for your own daughter but also for surrogates. a mothers love 'real' or not can never be replaced and truly is one of a kind. Well, if I was one of your surrogates just a simple out-of-the-blue-never-expected-at-that-moment-really-tight-hug would be enough for me. Of course since I didnt expect it I would ask what was that for. Then it would be nice to hear 'You know I love you right?' That would just make my heart melt, but thats just me. And since you're talking about writing a letter, maybe you could give the letter after the hug.

In case of the letter. Well, I would love to read some funny moments of us together and maybe the sad ones too. And I would love to read how you really feel about me. I wont mind if its anger, disappointment, love or maybe even hatred. But it has to be what you really feel and not what you think I think you feel about. It just shows you care,and im good with that.

Thats just me...well, whatever you decide to write im sure they'll appreciate it. Goodluck!^_^

I would tell your daughters about the trip you had to see your parents.
The photos you took for Kat and how thrilled she was to receive to receive them.
How Kat thanked you in front of 200,000 mylotters.
Then
You should just slip in how you were conned into donning a bra.
And now it is your new avatar a week.

Signed

the Fish In The Bra

I have one daughter that lives in another state. When we write, it's as if we are in the same room together talking. Face to face.
Sometimes letters to my daughter can be long or just a short one pager to let her know I miss her and am thinking of her.
So take pen in hand, or computer under your finger tips and go with the flow!
Have a fantastic day!

My first thoughts on this were that I wished they lived far enough away for me to have to write to them. I really don't know what I'd say about life at the moment, it's the same as always, some happy times some bad.
I know at least two of them wil read this so I can't say what I'd like to as they'd think I'd gone soppy and would be looking at the old peoples homes.

LMAO...I just loveeeeeeeeeeeeee the new avatar. You should really consider keeping it forever.

I would tell my daughter that I love her dearly. That our life seems hectic and up in the air right now but we have each other and all will be ok.

Going through a lot right now and she is along for the ride and the ride has been bumpy to say the least.

I am a mother of 4 children. Ever since they were little I have kept a diary about each one of them. I wrote in there about my pregnancy feelings and labor and delivery details. Whenever they would have an important day or event in their lives, I would write down my feelings about it. Some things are just easier to say in writing, and I have found it a wonderful way to REALLY express how much they mean to me.

That is really nice - I am sure they are always thrilled to hear from you! i would definitely let them know about the bra thing - even although I am not sure what actually happened, I am sure I will find out as I work through my discussion notifications! Not much i can say to my daughter in a letter apart from what I always tell her - that I love her and adore her and that I am always very proud of her - but she is only 6 and still lives at home! xxx

My daughter is only 9 and its killing me to be away from her. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't think of her and wish I could be with her. All I want is to be a mother to that little girl and at her age I would think she needs one. If I was to sit down and write to her I would tell her just how much I love and miss her and wish she were with me and a part of my life. Thats the short version.

Can't help you on this one dear. My oldest daughter and I have spent the past week in absolute bliss after her custody hearing last Wednesday. It is like the weight of the world has been lifted off of her shoulders. She is smiling and laughing and is finally able to be a kid. Only 10 years too late, but who's counting?

Back when I was pregnant with all of my children I wrote them all letters before they born. Hopes and dreams I had for them, what I wished for them out of life....They are all packed up in a cedar chest and I will be giving them to them on their wedding days. I can't remember a single thing I wrote to anyone but my avatar so it should be interesting to say the least.

pike, my adult kids have their hands full with their own lives, so if I were the one writing to them, I would steer clear of any heartache or problems in my life, and in its stead focus on support of theirs. I would encourage, that what ever bad is going on will not last forever, that there is a a light at the end of the tunnel and it is not an on coming train. We struggle and muddle through but we get through, tougher stronger and more equipped to handle future crises.

Everything I have learned in my own life.