Am I losing him?

You can still continue your relationship with him even if you are not ready to get married yet.Just tell him that you need to plan everything first and now is not the right time yet.For the meantime you can just enjoy each others company and if the right time comes you can both decide to get married.

Honesty is always the best policy. If your commitment feelings have changed say so. Sit down and have a heart to heart. People are not mind readers. You have to be able to talk. Communication is key, put the cards on the table.

The best thing you can do is sit down and talk to him. Tell him excally how you feel and don't hold back. Tell him that your feelings will change. If he loves you he will understand no matter what the situation.

tell him you need some time to be prepared for marriage..

Hi there Nesha!

I think that saying that you don't want to marry him for now means that you don't want to marry him ever so I really don't see anything wrong with it.

Guys should know that women are a very strange breed. Even if you said you would not commit to him when you told him you wouldn't. This is all very simple: contiue with with relationship and watch for signs that he is ready to take it further and then just have your level of commitment fall into place! Make sure he is the one though...too many people just settling!

You might not ne sure that he will agree to your proposition. Do you know what is there in his mind?
You have felt attracted towards him, but that is only one-sided. You will have to wait and see that he too is attracted towards you, he too wishes to be committed to you.

Think it through. Usually your first instinct is true. There was some reason why you told him that. Make sure he is the one. If you made a list of pros and cons which side would fill up quickest? Are you being honest with yourself? Good luck!

Hmm.
Being committed is way different to being married.
You can be committed by being with him in a steady relationship. Get to know each other, understand each other better and have fun with each other.
Being married, means forever. Or at least till one dies(no offense) and let's not think about getting a divorce (no offense again).

Have you really thought about it? Are you ready to get married?

When you're sure, then talk to him. Tell him what you really want. Tell him you don't want to lose him and tell him you want to commit to him whether in a steady relationship or in marriage.
If in steady relationship, that would also mean you must be thinking of a future with him. Just not now. So tell him that. Someday. Just not now.

Good luck.

Did he ask for marriage already? Well since you are intending to be committed with the guy you should be expecting him to propose if the feeling is mutual. Well for me that will be a for him if in case he ask and you refuse. If he sticks to you then I would say he is sincere and is willing to wait. Just be sure that you have a valid excuse why you are not ready for marriage I guess he would understand it.