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myLot reputation of 95/100. Bebs08 (590)   ranked 12 out of 461 in got married3 months ago

What a tragedy? The family is only the reason for getting married? She was just forced because they owe a lot to the man and the only thing they could pay the price is to let their daughter marry the man. The man also likes the idea anyway, the girl is beautiful and nice.

If I am the girl, I won't. I would try to find means to pay the debts. Well, If i like the man, I might but what if I don't?

If you are in this case, what will you do?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 95/100. spalladino (2002)   ranked 35 out of 461 in got married   3 months ago

My family's debt is not mine so I wouldn't feel obligated to marry someone they owed money to. Then again, I'm an American and arranged marriages are foreign to me and something I don't agree with.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Bebs08 (590)   ranked 12 out of 461 in got married  3 months ago

hahaha!! you are right!! Americans have a different way of getting married. This style is common to other countries.

Well, got your opinion. You don;t want to be involved with your parents debts. What if you are also involced in spending the money they owed?


myLot reputation of 95/100. spalladino (2002)   ranked 35 out of 461 in got married  3 months ago

Ok, I'll try to think like a non-American. I guess if I was actively involved in spending the money then I might feel some obligation to marry the man but I'd have to get a good look at him first and, if he's mean, forget it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Bebs08 (590)   ranked 12 out of 461 in got married  3 months ago

hahah!! you're cute!!!

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2. myLot reputation of 94/100. danishcanadian (12820)   ranked 2 out of 461 in got married   3 months ago

Nothing is worth "giving away" another human being in marriage. What kind of a family would pay their debts with their daughter's life? That's absolutely tragic. If I were in that situation, I would not do it.


myLot reputation of 95/100. Bebs08 (590)   ranked 12 out of 461 in got married  3 months ago

I agree!! me too!! that's inhuman. a violation of ones human rights.

thanks for the reply

 
3. myLot reputation of 87/100. LexaNightShadows (956)   ranked 281 out of 461 in got married   3 months ago

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