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myLot reputation of 99/100. ladym33 (1530)   ranked 319 out of 558 in mom4 months ago

had to run out of somewhere with your child because they are being loud?

We went to a confermation ceremony at a church yesterday for my niece and I have to say my 4 year old was pretty good, until after his cousins turn, once he saw her up there he wanted to go by her and started screaming her name. I picked him up and carried him out, and he screamed again in the middle of the aisle, I took off running, I wanted to get out of there as fast as possible.

Has this ever happened to you?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 97/100. nanayangel (2588)   4 months ago

Hi there Lady M!

yes, that happened to me a few times before when our son was still a baby. It usually happens when we are hearing mass. I really have to take him outside and just not finish the mass to show respect to other people who are there to hear the mass too.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ladym33 (1530)   ranked 319 out of 558 in mom  4 months ago

That is about all we can do as parents is just take them out as quickly as possible.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. dragonfly242 (857)   4 months ago

Yes it has.
When my baby was two, we went to visit my friends church, her mom was being ordained as a minister. Well it was a long day because we had attended our church first,It started with her pulling her ribbons out then kicking of her shoes, she then proceeded to slide of her chair and crawl on the floor. At this point i was fed up so i gave her a little pinch and told her to behave under my breath, at which she let out a horrendous scream everybody turned around with disapproving stares, one lady even offered to take her outside. Well after her screaming and ripping her hair out, i'd had enough and just gathered my kids up and made a speedy exit, outside in the car she got a few spanks and i swore i'd never take her anywhere with me again.She'd never behaved like that in our church before so her behavior took me by surprise. On the way home she feel alseep in the car, i guess she was sleepy and a little cranky from a long day.


myLot reputation of 99/100. ladym33 (1530)   ranked 319 out of 558 in mom  4 months ago

I think there is only so much we can require of our little ones, they have a certain amount of time that they can be good, then they just need to let it all out. There were a lot of kids being confirmed so it was getting rather long when he finally started to get loud. I wanted to get him out fast, because each child being confirmed only had about 30 seconds to shine. I didn't want my son to ruin anyone's special moment. I ran out of there so fast, and took him to the bathroom and got him a drink of water, we took our time, and then went back in, in time for the end of the mass. There were only a few minutes left, and the chior was singing so he was fine after that.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. carmelanirel (4660)   4 months ago

Maybe not actually run out, but walking swiftly out..It was when my son was between the age of 1 and 3 and we would go to the library..It took time, but if he raised his voice, (this is after a firm warning each time before we entered the library), I would take him and we would go out to the car and wait on my daughter to get her books..So there were times my son missed out on getting books, but he learned what I meant when I said, "library voice".

Now he is 6 and for 3 years now, he has kept his voice down..(Of course a few weeks ago he didn't, but that wasn't his fault, the librarian, Mary, had given him headphones to sit at the computer and of course with headphones you don't realize how loud you talk..So when he had trouble with something on the computer, he said in a voice that Mary heard him from the other side of the library, "I wish Mary was here, I need help") lol So of course I had to go over and explain he was being too loud..

So next time you take your 4 y/o in somewhere, talk to him first..It may not take effect right away what you want, but he will soon learn..And make sure you have the "coded" words..Like mine for my son was "library voice" and I have used this in other places than the library to keep him from getting too loud..


myLot reputation of 99/100. ladym33 (1530)   ranked 319 out of 558 in mom  4 months ago

He is starting to understand the little talking to he gets when we go to places where he needs to be quiet. He was really good through almost the whole mass, but once he saw his cousin he kind of lost it. After I took him and he went to the bathroom and got a drink, I talked to him again, and he was very good after that, when we went back in. I think the mass was just a little longer with all the kids getting confirmed, than he was able to stand. He is getting better all the time. He actually sat through my daughters whole recital a couple of weeks ago, and he actually sat through a whole movie at the theater recently, this is something he would not have done a few months ago. He is by far the most stubborn of my three children, my daughter almost never acted up when she was little and my middle child would usually listen and behave after he was scolded, when my 4 year old starts up he only gets louder the more you try to stop him. But like I said he is getting better.


myLot reputation of 91/100. carmelanirel (4660)  4 months ago

Yes, he will get better as he grows.. happy

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