Conflicts occuring over and over it's becoming insane

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Ok, so the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results each time. Well I'm tired of doing all the house work. If I were a house wife I would not be complainging but the fact is my husband and I both work 8 hours a day, sometimes he works more than 5 days a week and I only work Monday - Friday. On my weekends I clean the house and don't expect him to lift a finger on days that he works and I don't. But all he does is goes to work, comes home, plays computer games all night, comes to bed at about 12am and does the same thing over again. The definition of insane does not describe him because he doesn't desire different results. It's me that's insane apparently because no matter what I say or do to get him to help me do a few chores around the house he never does it. My normal day consists of getting up, working out, going to work from 8 - 5, get home, cook dinner, leave the dishes on the table in hopes that he will clean the table off for me, doesn't happen, I might get them up tomorrow morning, I'll wash a load of clothes, dry them, fold them, sometimes put them away, sometimes I will just leave them on the dryer for a while. I'll take the trash out, sweep the floors, mop the floors once a week, clean up his computer desk and all the dirty socks from under it to be washed for his next week. His normal day, wake up, go to work 7 to 3, come home, take work clothes off and throw them in random places (shoes by the door, socks on the recliner, work shirt on the dinning room table, belt on the dinning room floor), sit at computer until Wife gets home and cooks dinner. Eat dinner, get back on computer. Go to bed. I'll admit I'm not the best at doing house chores. But I do the necessity things so we'll have clean dishes to eat off of and clean clothes for the next day and normally on the weekends (my ONLY TIME OFF) I'll do the rest of the house cleaning just for my husband to mess it up. If I had some help throughout the week then I would be able to take my 2 off days and enjoy them. What can I do? I've tried telling him how I feel, he apologizes says he'll change and then NEVER does. I swear we've argued about this 50 times in the 2 years we've been married. If I ask him to do something and he actually BEGINs to do it he'll pout like a 3 year old child until I tell him to forget about it. I'm ready to hire some help to clean my house... he won't like it because it will cost money but I don't care at this point.