How Many Times Have You Been Rejected By Someone You Liked?

@nehaaaa (1748)
India
May 23, 2008 6:12am CST
lemme know...
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
26 May 08
I dont know if you would belive me on this or not. But i have been rejected 4 times. However, the first two times, i was not serious at all and i just proposed them in a casual way. I was like kidding or may be taking a chance but their rejection did not effect me. Infact the second time, when i proposed the girl, she did not say no but neither did she say yes, so i took it as a rejection and told her myself that i dont her to think over it again. However, you may call me a little serious the next two times. And i got rejected both the times. The first one gave me the reason as she is just my friend and can't hink of anythign else with me. Later on she had a bf but got a break up recently. The last one was with me in the company during training times and she rejected me saying that she is already engaged. However, i was pleased with myself as i took so much courage to express my feelings for her. And it was the first time that i proposed a girl face-to-face for the first time. So I have lost all my hopes and dont have more courage to face a rejection.. By the way, to be coincidental, the last two girls i was talking about, the names of both the girls were "Neha". So even my friends started taunting me that i fall for a girl whose name is "Neha"... lol
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
26 May 08
So "neha" is the only name dat always stucks your life....Neways dont worry be happy.....take life as it comes...dats the best part of living..its hard to digest the past but v have to....you know one thing dont expect any thing muuch from life as it gives nuthing.......
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• India
26 May 08
HEy you are repeating my words.. "Dont expect good things to happen with you so that bad things won't hurt you much." And by the way... ur name is nehaaa... LOL Anyway. its purely coincidental, that whichever girl i fal in a crush with. her name is Neha.. LOL
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
28 May 08
ohhhhhhhhhhhhh.......Neha name itself means "Love n Sacrifice"...........
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@adrico (204)
• China
26 May 08
never.coz i never tell her my feelings.i really don't know why,may be im always play a passive role in the love. hehe i think to change my ways to deal with my emotions.think to change my ways to deal with my emotions.
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
28 May 08
ya you shud change your ways to deal with it...
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
2 Jun 08
Dats the spirit....atleast later on you wont regret dat you havent pour out your feelingss...
@adrico (204)
• China
30 May 08
really agree with you...i will have a try! wish no rejection.
• India
16 Jun 08
i cant say i was rejected, i proposed my lady love, but we knew that the rlationship was never possible bcos of our religion, now we are very good freinds, and we talk everday, share r things, so i cant say i was rejected
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
19 Jun 08
Thankss for ur response
• Philippines
15 Jul 08
I think i was rejected by someone I liked twice. One girl in my highschool, and the other one in college. After the rejections they have made, I thought that I should stay single for a while and concentrate on my friends, responsibilites,studies, family and God. Those were painful moments of my life. Rejection is never easy. But it made me learn more and realize. I just have to stay positive.
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
19 Jul 08
Ya be positive in life.......
23 May 08
twice by just one person. LOL. iknow. i know. -_^y we used to have a thng for each other but when i asked him if we could formalize whatever it is that we have, he just said he hates to complicate things. yeah..he's a jerk. LOL
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
23 May 08
Sorry to hear dat....
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
26 May 08
ya i agree with you..
24 May 08
no need to feel sorry ^_^ every once in a while, jerks come and make us feel miserable but that's just part of life...but thank you =)
• Philippines
10 Jun 08
A LOT!
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
10 Jun 08
Thankss for ur response
@chiyosan (30186)
• Philippines
26 May 08
i have not been rejected by someone i liked, i never tell them i liked them if there's any. also, most guys would tell me they like me and i try to be nice if i dont like them too.
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
28 May 08
Thanks for ur response
@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
28 May 08
I think twice. It sucks when that happens but at least you can move on and not be weighed down by wondering "does he like me or not?"
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
28 May 08
Thanks for ur response
• Indonesia
23 May 08
never . coz i've never told a girl i like that i love her. i will always wait till the girl give a sign that she won't reject me if i ask her to be my gf. and the sign usually never appear .
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
23 May 08
just go n tell her day you love her...other wise a day will come wen it will be too late n you will regret that day..
• India
29 May 08
once, and let me tell you i was very sad ... i was not actually rejected but i found out that she was liking someone else and then when i asked she said that i am her good friend. that is when i decided she is my good friend and nothing more.
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
29 May 08
Thanks for ur response
• Philippines
30 May 08
Once. But I'm over it now for it was so long ago. I moved on, we remained friends and i now have the love of my life with me.(^^,)
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
2 Jun 08
Nice to know....
• China
29 May 08
Three times by far^-^.But I will go on until I get her!
@nehaaaa (1748)
• India
30 May 08
Dats the spirit...