Have you ever been accused by someone of doing something that you did not do?

@cream97 (29085)
United States
May 23, 2008 10:05am CST
I have. My aunt accused me of stealing her deodorant. She came to jump to fight me, but my grandmother stopped her.. In the end it was on her dresser. And her son's money out of his piggy bank got stolen and she blamed it all on me... Comes to find out, my cousin stole it.. She tried to jump and fight me for this.
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 May 08
Oh, yes! The most recent time was when someone hijacked an account of mine on a forum and ranted about a job I'd left. I don't think to this day that they believe I didn't write it and may be part of the reason I haven't been able to get a job.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
That was a mean thing to do, to mess you up like that.. I bet whom ever it is will be reaping what they sow.. You never get away with things on this earth.. You best believe that...!
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@dragon54u (31633)
• United States
23 May 08
Yep, they'll get it back twice as bad as they gave it! I truly believe that, and have experienced it myself. Life has some hard lessons!
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
Yes, very very hard lessons. And if you don't catch on to the lessons that you have learned, then you will be lost.... Forever...
@jonesy123 (3948)
• United States
23 May 08
Wow. She may need some meds, lol. With all the things you post here it seems that some of your family is quite backwards, lol.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
To be honest with you, they are! And it is the truth... That is why I hardly be around them that much..
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• Philippines
23 May 08
This happened to me several times already. I hate it when people accuse me of doing something that I did not. What's worst is that when these people find out who actually did it, they do not even find it in their heart to apologize to me. Too bad that there are people who just point fingers at others without finding out first what really happened.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
Yes how they are.. They don't have the guts to face you when the truth is revealed. But when it is time to accuse, they are right there, running there mouth..
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• Bahamas
23 May 08
Yes i have, my sister accused me of stealing a picture of our mom & dad when they first started dating. Now i must admit that i wanted to copy the photo but i did not steal it. I find it hard to believe that she would think it's me, seeing that my aunt{dads sister}was looking at the picture the same time that i was and hasn't been accused. According to her the picture is still missing, and unfortunaly i'm still the number one suspect.
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• Bahamas
23 May 08
That's what i think. but unlike my sister i dont like to accuse people unless i can prove it. My aunt was the one who came right out and said she think my sister should give her the picture. Now knowing this dont you think she should at least have two suspect.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
Exactly, your aunt spoke whom did it... Can't your sister see this? The answer was in her face... Besides, what proof does she have stating that you took it anyway? Your aunt is the guilty one, not you!
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
Maybe your aunt was the one who stole it..
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@jessieBee (1046)
• Trinidad And Tobago
24 May 08
Yes i hate it when people do that. They don't look properly for their sh*t and come asking you for it. Cream that just pisses me off.
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• United States
23 May 08
oh yes i did...back when i was in school a student on the bus accused me of spitting in his face, which i didn't do and it ended up that not only was i suspended from the bus even though there was no proof that this had actually happened but i also lost my tv privileges for a month. i was not happy and i thought that the situation could have been handled far better than it was.
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
That is so unfair!!! Yes, it should have been handled better than it was... They should have had more evidence, stating that you did the spitting... Maybe they should do a saliva test on everyone on the bus, and let us see who is the guilty one!
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
24 May 08
Wow!I know that you was glad to be out of school after all this took place.. It is wrong to blame things on someone, when it is never their fault..
• United States
24 May 08
yeah i was seriously not happy about that one. and thats not the only trouble i ever had in school where things like that occured. i seemed to be the class scapegoat for a long time. thankfully the teachers wised up and realize that i wasnt doing any of the things that i was being accused of. i was a good boy i was.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
24 May 08
Yes I have done that a few times, and I felt so bad about it. I told the person I was so sorry. I found it months lately.
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@ebsharer (5515)
• United States
23 May 08
Oh yeah I have! I was in high school at the time. I got to school and walked into class and the teacher Mrs.??? said here you need to go to the office. I did - I went back to class - I was called to the office for some thing stupid I don't remeber why but I do remember it wasn't from some thing I did wrong. Anyway 3 days later I get called to the office again. I'm sitting there in the office for about an hour before I actually get called into the "principals" office. I get in there and she tells me that my teacher Mrs. ??? said I called her a B!tch walked out of the class room and came back a few minutes later. What I said?!?! No I didn't, your right she is a B!tch and I am calling her that now but I did no such thing. I was in YOUR office when this suposidely happened! Now before I go any farther let me say this. I am the type of person that would say yeah I called her that or yeah I did it. I am the type of person that accepts responsibitily for my actions. Back to the story - they suspended me for 3 days because of this. When I got back to school people were of course asking where I was for 3 days. I told them. Thats when I found out another girl HAD actually done that. Mrs. ??? had mistaken me for her. I don't know how considering we looked NOTHING alike with our brown verses blond hair, fat verses skinny, tall verses short looks. Anyway I typed up what had been told to me and had each perosn that seen it happen sign it. I then brought it to the principal and said here you go I told you I didn't call her a B!tch! My days of being suspended were taken off my "record" and I went about my days. Good thing my mom believed me and didn't ground me or any thing! So in the end it worked out that I got 3 FREE days off school.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
A bad situation seemed to have worked in your favor! This is so good to hear...
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@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
24 May 08
I get alot of this from my mom lately. She is mentally ill though and her meds aren't working too good. She accuses me of stealing everything and then she finds them. She's 81 and her memory isn't good either so she forgets where she puts things. One day she accused me of stealing her watch and it was on her arm. She has made up some really wild stories about our neighbor and her own sister too. Its sad cause i think sometimes she really believes them.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
24 May 08
This sounds exactly like my nephew's grandmother. We was at her house, and she went to the doctor and came back to find that her phone was gone.. Before she left that morning, she unplugged all of her phones just so we could not use it..When she got back, she swore that we took her phone... But she hid them from us, and did not realize that she hid them. What a waste!
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
24 May 08
It sounds like you aunt has some issues. I think I would avoid her at all costs. Yes, I have been accused of something I didn't do by a roomate in college. It was a awful time for me.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
24 May 08
Yes, and that is what I do , avoid her at all costs!
@greenline (14838)
• Canada
25 May 08
I feel sorry for you. It's unfortunate family members do not value your honesty and sincerety. Yes, I have been in similar situations too. Not really accused, but I can sense some people suspectimg me for things I have nothing to do with. It's amazing. But, they finally see the truth, and start smiling again !
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
26 May 08
But yet when they found out that it was not you who did the bad thing, then they are not man or woman enough to apologize..
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
23 May 08
cream,that is terriable. My partner always accuses me of lieing. Ond it really does hurt my feelings. No matter how i try to tell him I am not tellig a lie. He will not believe me.He always accuses me of doing something or other and when I say I did not do it, he says I am lieing.I really do get tiered of being called a lier all the time.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
23 May 08
He sounds very insecure! You may need to think about rerouting your love life, if this keeps on going on..
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
24 May 08
Hi cream97! Oh that is horrible! It feels so unfair when someone will accuse you of something that you never did. I have never been accused of anything like that but I was accused by this person that I have said something bad against her and I asked her, who told her. She told me who said it and I asked her to come with me so I can confront the other person of what I was accused of saying. So she did and when I confronted the said person, she said she never said such a thing to the person and that she just misunderstood. So, in the end we just prove that the person who made up the story is a pathological liar. Take Care and God Bless! Happy Mylotting!
@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
26 May 08
Yes, very true! And it hurts when it is done by people you trust.
@cream97 (29085)
• United States
26 May 08
You see faith210, things like this can make you not trust someone... See how people can do you to the point where you can be insecure of their honesty..?
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@cream97 (29085)
• United States
24 May 08
Yes a bad liar, that person is... The entire story was made up to sound so true.. Sad, sad sad
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@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Jun 08
yes when i am a child my dad always accused me doing something instead my siblings did, it is because i am the eldest among the siblings and he expected me to do good than my brother's or sister's. today, i never accused for doing something i never did, maybe if that will happen i will be get mad of the person did it.
@lingli_78 (12821)
• Australia
24 May 08
oh yes i have... a number of times at my workplace... but i just keep quiet and let it go as long as it does not cause any harm for me... i don't like to argue or create a bad situation in my workplace... so i choose to keep quiet most of the times... take care and have a nice day...
@muscare (3068)
• Australia
27 May 08
Way back when I was in school, I was accused of tying a piece of string around a girls neck, by the kid that did it. The teacher sent us both to the headmaster, with this kid sticking to his lie, me sticking to the truth. Eventually, the headmaster marched us both back to the class and held a vote. The liar ended up getting what he deserved. By the way, you sound like you have a very 'interesting' family....!!
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
24 May 08
It really irritates me to be accused of something in this manner. I remember on a job my boss was implying strongly that I had put gas in my personal vehicle with the company gas card. We were only supposed to use regular and the report had came back that I had gotten premium gas. He would not listen nor believe me. I told him to wait while I went to my truck. Fortunately I had saved every single receipt where I had gotten gas, and kept them in my truck. I pulled the days in question and went and handed them to him and he had no doubt I was ticked off just from my attitude. The tickets showed exactly what I had told him all along. I know that I really could not totally blame him cause his report said that what he believed were true. What ticked me off was that his attitude had already branded me as a liar and a thief before I said a single word. He never did apologize either. I would have a difficult time doing someone else that way.
@saizo6 (2199)
• United States
28 May 08
The worst thing that happened to me was that a friend of my mom accused me of hitting her kid. I didn't even know what was going on because I was usually at school when the boy was dropped off for my mom to babysit. For a while there, the mom was really hostile and rude towards me. She didn't even bother to confront me and ask for the truth or anything. She just went around telling everyone that I was a bad person and shouldn't be trusted. I didn't even find out about the whole situation until my aunt mentioned it to my mom, a few weeks later. It turned out that the kid lied to his mom because he thought it would be funny. The mom didn't even apologize for bad-mouthing me after finding out the truth either. I for one, did not find the situation funny at all and I straight out told her that I didn't want anything to do with her or her kid again.
@ml2blog (414)
• United States
24 May 08
Oh my god, I always experienced such accuse.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
27 May 08
Wow that is acting way too dramatic. I have have been accused of stealing small things when I was a child like my brothers Halloween candy. (which i did) In school someone stole my little doll i had and I stole it back , and the teacher said it was hers . A memeber of my fam once accused my fiance of stealing 20 bucks which they later found .