What is the most important thing you have learned from an in-law?
By SusanLee
@SusanLee (1920)
United States
May 26, 2008 11:05am CST
I think the most important thing I have learned from my in-laws is to be able to laugh at myself.
My mother-in-law and a cousin-in-law will tell things on themselves that I would never have told on myself...back ten years ago.
Through this family I have learned the ability to laugh.
Example, my cousin-in-law was pregnant with her first child 11 years ago, she was a single mother-to-be. Like many pregnant women, she suffered from horrible constipation. I think she was six-months along and suddenly needed to relieve herself but her body wasn't being cooperative, her sister-in-law gave her an infant glycerin suppository.
Within minutes she thought she was going to get the relief she needed. Not so, she had to work at it. It hurt her so bad she said she was hollaring and moaning and carrying on something terrible, by the time she was able to get relief her mother was at the door yelling from fear wanting to know what was wrong, she busted in the bathroom, pushed her daughter forward on the pot, saw what she had passed, it must have been a dozy cause her mom looked at her and said 'Oh my God, are you okay?'
Now this cousin-in-law told this on herself. At first I was stunned, I would have died from embarrassment, but she laughed, I laughed, and suddenly things didn't seem so uptight or something.
I really appreciate my in-laws.
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@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
27 May 08
When my wife and I got married, I learned from her wonderful cousin that if I ever hurt her, I would be hunted down no matter where I went on the face of this earth.
Though I would never dream of doing anything to bring harm to my wife, I still sleep with one eye open and night sweats just in case her cousin decides to count my wifes labor pains when our boys were born 12 and 13 years ago.
Though I would never dream of doing anything to bring harm to my wife, I still sleep with one eye open and night sweats just in case her cousin decides to count my wifes labor pains when our boys were born 12 and 13 years ago. @mentalward (14690)
• United States
26 May 08
To never have them over! LOL (Sorry, in-laws... I couldn't resist!)
Actually, I seem to have learned way more than my in-laws have in my lifetime.
So, the most important thing I've learned is how to make Jerk Chicken from my sister-in-law. Awesome chicken!
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
28 May 08
I have learned what it was like to spend the day raising a baby, with my children i worked when they were small. When my neice-in-law had her little girl she gave her to me at three weeks to play with while she went back to work so i got to do all the things that i missed out with on my own (teaching them to sit up, to like vegtables, to dance ,draw ect..) my little girl is 3yrs. old now and we still have a blast togeather (thank goodness no one is around with a camera). And at the end of the day her mama or daddy comes and takes her home so that if she didn't sleep....i still do! This has been a precious gift that i will never forget.

@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
29 May 08
I remember very well you had to work, and then all that schooling you had to be a nurse 'did I ever tell you how much I admired you for going back to school?'
Personaly I don't want to be babysitting, seems like I've been surrounded by babies most all my life.
It's nice though that you have been blessed with this opportunity and you enjoy it so much.
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