Breakup monthsary?!?
By drsparkle314
@drsparkle314 (529)
New Zealand
May 28, 2008 10:44pm CST
Have you ever celebrated your breakup date? It's been three months since we broke up... yep the third month falls exactly on this day... and I'm still not over her... deep within my heart I'm still hoping we'd be back together but as of this day it's been cloudy as ever... I want her back but that's impossible... so now I plan to celebrate that day when things between us started to fall apart... How about you? Have you ever tried to do the same thing? Share you story or your views...
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8 responses
@Elixiress (3878)
•
17 Jun 08
No I have never celebrated my breakup date, I tend not to even note the data in my head of when I break up with people. I can usually work it if I really think about it, but I don't waste my time on the person that I broke up with.
@angel_kaycee (1112)
• Philippines
29 May 08
that's a little weird. although i can still remember my breakup dates. i never used to celebrate them coz if i do. surely i will never have moved on with what i have right now. try not to remember it so that the hurt won't remain with you forever. you must move on. i think she has already. 3 months is enough mourning. its time to mend your broken heart.
@rsa101 (40976)
• Philippines
29 May 08
I am just wondering why you have to celebrate the event every now and then. What I understand about celebrating is something worth remembering event in your life. Why would you choose to remember this day in your life where you lost your loved one. I think by holding on to this day it stop you from moving on with your life. I know it is still painful but it adds more to your pain if you continue to remember this day as your day that you lost her. As for me, its time for you to move on and I truly believe you deserve that kind of treatment to yourself. Do not try to burden yourself about this event you need to grow and find a new one if needed. But time heals and forget about this day for you to be yourself again.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
29 May 08
You've got a good point... I'll try to stop counting the days from now on...
@Chadanne (253)
• Philippines
29 May 08
Dude there are other fish in the sea. Don't be so emotional about things because things just happen. Be strong enough for it. Your a man for God's sake. A man's downfall is when he gets too emotional and does not see the better things ahead.
@pixelpixie (473)
• Canada
29 May 08
Hehe, I'm good with remembering dates. I remember each break up date. It springs to mind and I chuckle about it, but there's no 'celebration'. I guess it's good to remember what I learned and experienced though. Hm.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
29 May 08
I would remember what you said... I will only cherish what I've learned from this day on...
@vermillion (887)
• Philippines
29 May 08
Celebrating something is plainly just commemorating it over and over again. If you so badly want to move on and get over her, then u should start by stop celebrating. Plain and simple. Of course, memories like that don't fade, You'll just have to put them behind you. (^^,)
@aowaow (1516)
• Indonesia
29 May 08
This is the limit you can give to her. Close your journal for her. Three months are maximum to heal your emotional. Have fun with your life, bygone is bygone. You have many important purpose in life, moving on is one of the nearby plan. Good luck, my dear friend.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
29 May 08
There's still one more thing I ought to do for her... just one last thing... I just need to finish the novel... then it'll be over...










