Church wedding after 5 years of living together. What do you think about it?  

You're right. I'm also thinking about the expenses...lol. But we will do this for our son.Thanks for the response.

Oh! Don't worry about the expenses. Let your husband worry about it! hahahaha

lol...you're right!Less stress..kidding aside. His money is mine too. We will get it from our savings so , we need to be wise in budgeting. Thanks Insung001.

Thanks for the response jonesy123. We are planning by the end of summer next year. Hopefully no hassle.

The catholic church is almost encouraging it! Many couples get married by a judge first, as the church has requirements to take a class and counseling as well as to wait a certain length of time for the best results! So you got married by a judge or other qualified person, not a preacher, and you do not have any pictures? You can have a ceremony surrounding your anniversary! It is not necessary to get married again, just explain to your son that you got married outside of a church, by a justice of the peace, and that is how many people get married! If you really want to get remarried in the church, or have your marriage blessed, the go for it and enjoy the day! Just do not do it out of pressure to be like others. I understand that many people cannot afford a church wedding in their countries, and if couples rush into marriage, the church will tell them to come back in a year and get the marriage "blessed" with a religious celebration!

Malayo pa leng, last week of summer vacation next year. Don't worry you're already on my list. I will even send you our wedding picture.lol...I just hope everything will be just as planned.Thanks for the comment my friend.

promise wag mo klimutan na imbitahin ako ha?habol ko lang lechon..nyahhahaha!just kidding!khit ulo lang ng lechon ipdala mo sa akin na picture ok na..lol!

oy bkit tong isa na nag coment prang na warningan yta?bwal ba dito ang parental guidance arlene?hmmmm...curious lang si ako?

cno yun? i-chika mo naman...

That's right. The reason we had just a civil wedding was because of lack of preparation. My husband has to go back in korea after two weeks of stay.Thanks for the comment.

I see, well, good luck in your plan and for sure, it will be a great event in your life as a couple!

With his young age, i don't know if he will understand .Maybe when he mature a little bit. Anyway thanks for the greeting. I wish all of you are just my neighbor so I can invite you in my soon wedding. Keep on mylotting,.

just post photos on your profile, most especially the "you may now kiss the bride" part

Hello chandwani..I appreciate your comment but can I ask you a favor , next time you reply on my discussion it should be for general view and not parental guidance ...lol.My lot might deduct a point from me. Anyway keep on mylotting.

I tink he meant sexy, and that is not considered an adult word or forbidden! You may get more points taken away, or the whole discussion deleted, if you use foreign words, like speaking in tagalog or any other language than English! It is in the guidelines!

I guess your right. It's more about me I guess. I want to get married to church because of the blessing from God that I am longing.Thanks for the comment and keep on mylotting.

Don't guess that I'm right or that anyone else is right. You should do what you want to do for yourself. (My point was I didn't think you should do it because your child asked about the picture).

If you've always wanted to feel that your marriage received the blessing of a church/God then you should do what you want to do. That's a very different thing that doing it because your son asked.

My personal belief is that if you're happy with your marriage and you've got your little boy - that, in itself, would seem to show that God has blessed your marriage.

You could always talk to someone at the church, tell them the situation, and ask if they had ideas for a small ceremony (maybe with just immediate family and a cake afterward - or something like that?)

Happy wedding if you end up deciding to do it. Don't pay attention to other people's opinions anyway (including mine). :)

That's a good thing. Congratulation in advance. Wish you more happiness and continious blessing and more children..lol. Thanks and keep on mylotting.

lol! you make me laughed on that "more kids"!! as if we dont have any economic crisis here! lol