birthday gifts like maybe some fresh flowers please?
@Hatley (163772)
Garden Grove, California
June 2, 2008 5:11pm CST
hi mylotters are you like me, your guys give you practical
things for your birthdays and anniveraries verus some
fresh flowers,okay please, just once? I have got
cups, dishes, kitchen gadjets, everything practical
but just once would have loved some fresh flowers.
Am I just too romantic or what?
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
4 Jun 08
There comes an age in every woman's life when she has ENOUGH practical things.
Flowers would be nice and much more romatic at a time of life when ANY romance is a gift worth having.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
7 Jun 08
I like the kind I can put into my garden the best. That way I have them year after year.

@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
3 Jun 08
That is just common to us girls! LOL! I also don't appreciate when it will be too often thinking about the money plus my practicality side..LOL, but there are moments that I will also long fresh flowers and feel great when my husband will be sensitive enough to sense it!LOL! He does luckily!LOL!
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@checapricorn (16060)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I know and I am happy with that...LOL! Happy posting Hatley!
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jun 08
checapricorn thats really nice of your husband
and very sensitive too.

@jungletime (221)
• United States
3 Jun 08
lmao...be carefull what you wish for girls! I get lots of "fresh" flowers, but they usually come from the local convenience store!! I'll take a gadget that requires him to go somewhere thats not on his way home! lol
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jun 08
right where they are from makes a difference. but once
a long time ago i had complained about not ever getting
flowers so my hubby knowing I loved to garden took our
wheelbarrow to my moms house and came back pushing the wheel
barrow plum full of margarite daisies so fresh and white
and pretty plants I could transplant into my garden.
@jungletime (221)
• United States
3 Jun 08
Wow, thats very sweet! Whats your secret? I've been complaining about not having any jewelry, so far none has shown up! I got a new wedding band with lots of diamonds for our anniversary seven years ago, I guess that was supposed to shut me up forever?
@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
3 Jun 08
Since I have everything I want or need..everyone knows to just get me flowers and a card and so every BD,Mothers day, Xmas thats my present..though sometimes they come with candy..LOL
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@Rosekitty (19368)
• San Marcos, Texas
4 Jun 08
Goodie..if you lived closer or I did you would get flowers everyday and a nice special hello Friend from me!
Well I have an old truck and you have a new car..ok I'll swap the flowers for your car..even trade..LMAO
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@nupats (3564)
• India
3 Jun 08
Even i love fresh flowers..only thing i do not like to spend too much on them bcoz they r perishable and finally u have to throw them..i am happy with may be 4-5 flower and a bunch of greens/fillers for my vase..when we just got married some friends of ours bought us an amazing Boquet of flowers it was 5 feet tall extremely beautiful and placed as a surprise for us in our apartment...it must have cost them a bomb getting that in fact later on they told me they were planning to buy me a mixer grinder but the guys suggested this huge bouquet and it costed as much...my heart ached at throwing that bouquet bcoz i felt so much of hard earned money has gone into it..i love flowers not very costly...
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jun 08
I know some of those bouquets can be really costly
and I would not want anyone to do that on myaccount
for sure.
@lilaclady (28206)
• Australia
2 Jun 08
Fresh flowers are wonderful to get, they do them up so beautifully, but I think today people like to think more sensible and give you something they think you may need...I love getting flowers but Like you haven't got any for awhile...
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jun 08
I know sensible is great too but still hanker secretly
just once for some fresh posies.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
3 Jun 08
I don't mind fresh flowers. I hate practical gifts.
I can buy my dishes myself, I need some romance in my life.
Yes, flowers, perfumes, nice dinner out, romantic gateway in Hawaii or Bahamas....am I dreaming or what?

@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
3 Jun 08
Hi Patsie,
For me, I much prefer to receive gifts that are practical and look nice.
I much dislike it when people give me non-practical or deco items - especially the latter. It's like if I want to decorate my house, chances are everything would have been done and there won't be any extra space left.
Anyway nowadays, I don't receive gifts anymore. Probably people have stopped liking me or they never did. We normally just buy one another meals for birthday where applicable.
Anyway nowadays, I don't receive gifts anymore. Probably people have stopped liking me or they never did. We normally just buy one another meals for birthday where applicable.@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
6 Jun 08
lordwarwizard the birthday I remember themost was one'
where my hubby took me out to eat at my favorite
restaurant, made me order my favorite foods, then produced
a bouquet of red roses.but the culminating glory was that
our waitress came carryin a s mall cake iced and with candles
and everyone around us chimed in to sing happy birthday to'
you. I was so touched and a tad embarrassed at all the
attention too.
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
3 Jun 08
there is nothing bad being romantic, i think ladies feels more of a woman when guys give them flowers. my wife has asthma and it triggers on pollen so i dont really give her flowers. i dont want her to get sick with a gift from me. i gave her only flowers twice. the first one was when we're still dating and that was the time she told me that she has asthma and the 2nd time is when she came home from working abroad but i made sure that the flowers are sealed in a box. har har har.
@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jun 08
hi oh my yes flowers would really make her sick.
and asthma is no picknic either so of course
you would have to give her something not allergenic.
@dragonfly242 (1060)
• Bahamas
3 Jun 08
Maybe, but i understand where you're coming from.
I remember years ago telling my spouse not to buy me things that everybody in the house gets to use, as a gift.
Flowers will do nicely.
It's just that once in awhile, throw practical to the wind and get me something personal.
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@Hatley (163772)
• Garden Grove, California
3 Jun 08
thats the way i used to feel. i am a widow now
and my son always gives me a cup or something really
practical, nothing personal and I miess that.










