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myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)5 months ago

What if you caught your partner cheating on you? What will you do? Do you still love him or her after that?

 
 
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1. tominschreiber (47)   5 months ago

No way. I would break up straight away as there can't be trust anymore.


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  5 months ago

Hi Mr. tominschreiber i agree with you.. but i think everyone deserves a second chance right?

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2. Pescoe (93)   5 months ago

i will definitely hate her for doing cheating...i don't think that I will ever fogive her for doing so...


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  5 months ago

if you really loved her, asked her why did she do that. getting each others side is the best way to fix things out.

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3. Jampong (25)   5 months ago

If i caught her cheating on me, i will break up with her in that split second for sure. My love for her will always be there but i will do my best to forgive and forget so I could start a new relatioship and new life with someone who is more deserving.


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  5 months ago

Right! find the one who is deserving, but asked her first why did she do that. Let's get her side. You can always forgive the person who hurt you but you can never forget what they did.

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Jampong (25)  5 months ago

Yup I will definitely ask her reason for doing that. It is more easier to forgive but the hardest thing is to forget.


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  5 months ago

Right, i do believe in that quote.

 
4. abibramwell (14)   5 months ago

If my boyfriend was cheating I would want to know, If i cought him at it literally i think i would go to prison because i would go psyco..lol...My boyfriend in the last month has started hiding his phone from me and changed all his passwords on the computer for his email and face book...I kinda worked out the new password and found emails from girls he walks with talking bout meeting up on nights which he told me he'd been out with his bext mate, He has gone out twice in the last 3 weeks and not come home...I know were splitting up..I feel heartbroken but when i ask him about it he says in a psyco and insane...nice!
xx


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  5 months ago

maybe she fell out of love.:)

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5. myLot reputation of 74/100. benbenlgml (111)   5 months ago

Sometimes, I will keep silent and watch for one period if the lie is really worthy of breaking my silence. If it hurts me, I will have a serious talk with him and tell him my feeling. If he cares my feeling, I will still love him. otherwise, I will end the love.


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  5 months ago

So you were not giving him a second chance after what he did? me too, i won't give her a second chance because my TRUST for her was not there anymore.

 
6. sofelele55 (4)   4 months ago

i kill her.thanks for your reply.thanks for discussion,


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  4 months ago

Bad cheetah! LOL!

 
7. myLot reputation of 99/100. chej18 (444)   4 months ago

Its easy to say you will break-up right away but then if you are in the situation it might changed your decissions.I always said also that once a cheater always a cheater.And only one time the he cheat on me then no regrets i have to leave him.But cheating is a result of failing relationship.I have someone who cheated on me.OK i hate him i feel like i cant forgive him.But i really loved this man it hurt so badly i know but then after a while you have to go on.Then wounds heal and you can forgive but hard to forget.Right now i am working on it.


myLot reputation of 89/100. Klarenz (115)  4 months ago

Goodluck!:)

 
8. myLot reputation of 97/100. zer0charly (1330)   4 months ago

with regards to your first question, How will you know if your partner was cheating?I will feel it for sure.. there's this so called "woman instinct".. and I believe that instinct will never go wrong..

What if you caught your partner cheating on you?
of course the initial reaction would be to get hurt. and if I caught them on act, I don't know what can I do to the both of them.. I will for surely kill them.!LOL.

I'll ask him lots of question..
-why did you do this to me?,
-have I done something wrong?
-have I done nothing with this relationship.?
-aren't you happy with me?

-haven't you satisfied with me?

will I still love him after that?
I don't know. sometimes, even if you really love the person, and you'll give all for him to be happy, just one mistake will vanish all those happiness and love that you feel for him.
and I believe that if you can do it once, of course you can do it again.. twice, thrice..so many times.. sad

 
9. shubh1937 (34)   4 months ago

Depends
1. What is motive behind partnership
2. Are you financially independent
3. Do you have children.
~~~~~~~~~~Loving is out of question, living with is after considerations of above us possible, for purely selfish motives.

 
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