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myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 299 out of 14,946 in parenting2 years ago

When I was a little kid (maybe four or five years old), my mom would let me and my brothers play in the front yard, unsupervised, while she lay on the couch inside and read a book. Looking back on it now, that seems kind of odd. Even back then, the world was a dangerous place for kids. I could never do anything like that.

I'm a super protective and watchful mom and want to know where my child is at all times. She's way too young to have the kind of independance and freedom of movement that an older child or teen might enjoy.

Most times, while I'm cooking in the kitchen, my daughter will go to the livingroom and hang out with her dolls. She plays at the edge of the couch and pretends her stuffed beanies are talking to each other. Other times, we play together. And, sometimes when I'm on the computer, she plays in the same room. And, then there are times, when she's using my computer to watch her DVDs, that I'll hang out in the room and watch the shows with her.

What are you doing, while your child is playing? Are you hanging out in the same room? Do they play alone in their own room?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 99/100. jcj_111776 (1252)   ranked 1,377 out of 14,946 in parenting   2 years ago

Whenever I have to do some chores, I make sure that my son plays somewhere near me. Where I can keep an eye on him. He likes to make a "little bridge" on our sofa and no matter how careful he is, he does slip sometimes. So, I never leave him to play on his own, unsupervised. Accidents happen all the time, especially in the least unlikely place.

So, I plan my chores with his playtime activities. When I need to be outside tending the garden, he comes with me, too. The work is much slower because I always need to see what he's doing and that interrupts my work. But his safety comes first before anything else.


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 299 out of 14,946 in parenting  2 years ago

You're a good mom! I like to keep a watchful eye on my little one too. She was very accident prone when she was learning to walk. I've had to learn to keep everything (paper, toys, etc.) off the stone tile floors, because they're a real slip hazard for her and me.

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2. carachuchay (22)   2 years ago

When my baby is playing inside his playpen, I blog:)

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. sharay (1360)   ranked 3,127 out of 14,946 in parenting   2 years ago

Oh..i can never be careless when it comes to my daughter, she does play outside home with a neighbour child, but i make sure i hear her voice in the distant and once i lose track of her, i go there and make sure she is fine and ask her to be inside the gate and if it all she goes outside, i will not let her play anymore. she is just around 3, she knows her limits and since she does not want to be inside the house, she tends to be careful too


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 299 out of 14,946 in parenting  2 years ago

You are a very smart person to keep such a watchful eye on your child. A parent can never be too careful!

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4. myLot reputation of 91/100. Katesmama (3222)   ranked 709 out of 14,946 in parenting   2 years ago

My Kate has a play room, and she loves it. A lot of times I have to go in there and sit, she does a little tot's version of a tea party, its so cute! But since she got a little cd player and a Backyardigans cd, she brings me in to turn it on, and says, "Go. Go, go, Mommy." and pushes me out the door. All of her craft stuff stays ing the livingroom, so she'll do that with me sometimes. My kitchen is open to my living room, so unless she's sleeping on in the play room, we're always together.

A coupel of weeks ago, she was in the baby pool and I'd forgotten to bring out essential things, like a clean diaper, toys, towels, all that. I had to leave her out for two seconds for each run, and freaked out every time. No matter that I could see her the whole time, I just imagined someone noticing me running in and out of the house and waiting for an oppertunity to grab her. So scary! I couldn't handle it!


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 299 out of 14,946 in parenting  2 years ago

I can imagine how worried you were. I am the same way too. Mine is fiesty, but no match for an abductor.

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5. myLot reputation of 95/100. kezabelle (2671)   ranked 410 out of 14,946 in parenting   2 years ago

If my children are playing indoors (they are 4 and 2) then im either in here with them or somewhere in the house doing jobs. If they are outside playing im either out there with them sometimes playing or ust relaxing with a book but always there watching maybe doing some gardening, or if its time to cook dinner I will be in the kitchen doing the dinner as I can see them from the kitchen window and leave the back door open so I can hear them.

Our whole garden is enclosed and two locked gates so they are very safe (as they can be anyway in this day and age) I prefer not to sit indoors and leave them alone as I worry always that someone will get int he garden no matter how safe it is


myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 299 out of 14,946 in parenting  2 years ago

You're a good mom!

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