What do you do to pamper your spouse?

United States
June 11, 2008 9:12am CST
What do you do to pamper your spouse? What do you want your spouse to do so pamper you? When my husband comes home, he takes a shower. Then I sit on the sofa and he plops down on it, too...and then he puts his feet on my lap to rub them. I do it for hours. He is a very happy man. As for me, I love to have my back scratched.
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@cher913 (25781)
• Canada
26 Jun 08
i take time out of reading so i can snuggle with him at night and although i am not working at the moment (on sick leave) i still wake up early enough so i can snuggle with him in the morning.
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• United States
26 Jun 08
I am sure he appreciates it, too.
@SusanLee (1920)
• United States
26 Jun 08
We're just not pampering people I guess... I'll rub his head when he has a headache, sometimes his back. I'll fix him a glass of tea or sometimes his plate of food. He'll fix my plate sometimes if he cooks.
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• United States
26 Jun 08
That is pampering to me! My husband loves when I fix him a plate of food.
@marciascott (25529)
• United States
11 Jun 08
Sometimes I spoil him and give him what he wants. He can be selfish sometimes, and I hate that.
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• United States
11 Jun 08
Looking at your picture, I think that whatever you are giving him, it probably works. :)
@SheliaLee (2736)
• United States
26 Jun 08
I think that is so sweet!! My husband loves for me to rub his back and I love for him to do the same. Sometimes he will be just sitting around relaxing and I'll walk up to him, put my arms around him and start rubbing his back and he loves it!! He starts relaxing immediately. Great discussion!!
• United States
26 Jun 08
It is the little things that make a marriage strong!
@KarenO52 (2950)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I put lotion on his back if he asks, other than that, not much.
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• United States
12 Jun 08
That would be excellent pampering for me even if I had to ask for it.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
12 Jun 08
I wouldn't say that I pamper my wife, but I do rub or massage her back, and try to purchase her new books that she likes to read when they come out.
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• United States
12 Jun 08
That is wonderful! That is pampering in my book.