What is the best way for me to not see them at my house, without being rude?

I am so sorry to hear that you are experiencing a series of inlaws invader.:( try to talk to him. or better yet when they show up go to your room and find something to do and just lock the doors. ignore that they are there. the silent is a good approach if you husband has decided that he needs to invite his family in all the time then he should deal with it wihtout your prensence. he is going to miss you and want to hurry his mom out the door soon. good luck

you don't have to be rude... tell you husband first and then tell them that you feel uncomfortable moving around the house with them coming so often... and tell them that you're starting to feel that your privacy is being invaded...

I think you should talk to your husband and explain how you feel as best you can. Tell him that you like his parents, but that you don't feel comfortable with them being in your home so much. If that doesn't work, find a reason to "just be leaving" the house when they come over. Maybe they'll get the hint.

As I have said in your other discusions your inlaws are out of control. It is going to take both you and your husband to lay down the ground rules for these people who seem to think that they are in control of your relationship with your husband. But ultimatly your husband is going to have to enforce the ground rules.

They are being more rude than you could ever dream of being. You just need to tell them that they can not come in without calling first, becaue you and your husband are extremely busy. That's not rude, it's honest!

Hey, hi friend! Hope you are doing well. You know what they ar eyour inlaws right? They are your husbands parents. I hope they are not causing any problems by visiting your house frequently. If you make an issue of their visit, with your husband he might feel bad. I feel this issue might disturb your relation with your husband as well, after all they are his parents. You try to take the matter lightly, if it gets worse like if some problem really persists , which you can't take or tolerate then only talk to your husband about this issue. So he only go to their place and visit them and tell them in some indirect way not to come to your place frequently. But until unless they are not creating any problems for you don't worry be happy. LOL! Have a great day!

tell them there's stomach flu in the house.seriously. most people will avoid coming over if you mention that.it won't work forever,but it'll give you a break.

Fill the house with your favorite smell, MIL will get the message that its your house and not hers. Tell your hubby that you want to have some time alone and make sure its when the in laws want to come over. Sounds like that woman just doesn't get the hint.

Set your own boundaries, if your husband won't. I'm assuming that it's your house, too. My MIL would 'drop by' when my guy was working (at home), and I'd meet her at the door and tell her she needed to come back later. If she dropped by and I wasn't in the mood to entertain her, I'd tell her that I had stuff to do and that I wouldn't be able to talk to her. A couple of times, she tried that and tried to get me hooked into a conversation, but folding clothes with headphones on or vacuuming makes that difficult. I'll also go elsewhere and work/read, if my guy wants to visit and I'm not in the mood. He knows not to expect me to entertain just because there are people there, if I don't want them there, and he doesn't get upset about it. Sounds like you need to have a chat with your hubbie about how you feel, if he knows that you don't want company and is hooking you into socializing.