Getting over your ex  

Cut off the bonds,and begin to live your own life.

In my opinion,maybe he doesn't like you any more.He just treats you as his friend ,so he shows the text messages to you.If he really loves you, I think he wouldn't do such things that would hurt you a lot.

What kind of dude does some stuf like that to get a girl to relize something!?! I would never do something like that to my girl just to make a point, make her jealous or what ever! That sounds very petty to me and I'm only 16. I know you may love him, but if dude loves you he would not be tryna pull something like this. He would be just focused on one and no one else. But you might have to just move on now baby ight, cause sometimes you have to let go the ones you love. And I don't know, maybe someday when you do move on he could realize what he just missed and GROW UP and try to see whats good wit you and him. But I say just try moven on and don't even worry bout him cause thats what he wants you to do. ight.

If you love him,then I think you and him should have a long heart to heart talk,and you need to ask him if deep down if he loves you,and then decide what to do from there,but whatever happens you need to do whats right for you,and always listen to your heart.

Definitely let him go. Think about it this way--if you guys are meant to be together, you will be...eventually. For now, focus on you! Have fun with your friends and when you're okay, start dating again if you want. If and when "he's ready to get it right," then you can deal with him. But you don't want to waste your time waiting because who knows when he'll be ready?!

Why would you love a person that deliberately hurts you feelings. I really don't think that there is something going on in him. come on dear its time to love yourself. There is no love that comes for him but just pure revenge and you don't deserve that. Keeping in touch with him makes it more harder for you to recover from him. show to him that you deserved to be loved and not being treated as a toy he intends to just hurt. Grow up and learn from this experience and find a much better guiy to love who will love you for who you are.

I do not know the whole part of it. why is he just making you fl the pain? what pain did he once faced? is it from you? then you are the best person to guess why is he doig so. for the time being just be yourself.

any jerk who treats you like that needs to be let go.... ASAP. Lifes to short to tolerate treatment like that.

If he does not want you, then it is not wise to go after him or even think about him.
And he may not be doing all that in order to make you jealous. He must be really meaning what he is saying.
But it is unwise to be after a person who is hurting you.

well, i think relationship can't be forced and it has to be a mutual feelings between two person... so all i can say that you just have to let him go and move on with your life... i believe that you will find a better man that will love you and treat you much better than your ex... so please try to forget him... you have to look into the future and not the past... take care and have a nice day...