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myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life1 year ago

I have Celiac Disease and can not eat anything with wheat, rye, barley or oats in it. This is a very challenging diet. because there is gluten hidden in a lot of products. Yesterday we had a picnic at church. They served hamburgers and hot dogs and a lot of side dishes. I took Jenny through the line and got her what she wanted and then went back and got a plate for myself. I got a hamburger patty and some lettuce and NO bun. That made some people look at me funny. I then got some fruit salad that I knew was safe for me to eat and asked about a couple of other dishes and had people say that it did not have wheat so I double checked and asked if there was flour in them. Why of course they did! Why is it that people do not know that flour is wheat? Like Duh! I then took my plate and sat myself down, rolled the hamburger patty up into lettuce and started eating. You would not believe how many people were staring at me because I made a wrap out of lettuce. Why you would think I was a side show freak or something. Well it was an adventure and one of the reasons why I do not eat out in public very often. Would you stare at someone if they were eating something that was different then what you eat or modified it to make it edible for themselves?

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. Erilyn (533)   ranked 1,606 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

I don't think it is strange at all. I have yet to figure out why people think that everyone else is just like them. I remember when I was younger and worked at mcdonalds people would come in and ask for burgers without the bun all the time. There are a lot of resturants that have no problem doing something like that for a customer and some places are making it part of the menu. People just need to realize that not everyone is like them, and some people have dietary needs outside of what they consider "normal".

For People like that I just want to look at them and ask would you like to join me? this is a new diet that i found you can lose 20 pounds in a week lol. See how fast a lot of the expressions will change hehehehe. I would find some kind of remark to say to the worst of them lol.

You should see me when I order at a mexican resturant. I love Mexican, but can't eat spicy food. I had my gallbladder removed and since then i have to be careful of what I eat. The server will often look at me funny when I order, but as long as it is brought to me right I don't care.


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Very good comments. I never thought that people would eat hamburgers with out a bun at mcdonalds. That is one of the few fast food restaurants that I haven't been able to order anyhting.

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2. myLot reputation of 96/100. tanniebabe78 (747)   ranked 483 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

I would have been there right with ya! I am lowcarbing and it can be challenging, but I just ignore the other people. Let them stare. I do and it doesn't bother me a bit.


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Great attitude Tannie. I usually do not even notice it but this time it just got on my nerves and for some reason bothered me.

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3. myLot reputation of 97/100. cjgrooms (3194)   ranked 300 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

No i wouldn't stare, but my son has multi allergic syndrome and one of his allergies is wheat so we would often order him a burger minus the bun. I have to admit until he developed this problem that i had never thought about what flour was made of. I tell you i got an education with this child. And going out to eat is not only an adventure but for him could be downright dangerous because when you would ask if this dish had this or that in it they would say no then 10min. after starting to eat he was having an allergic reaction!


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Having food related allergies and intolerances is a very difficult to live with. It puts so may restrictions on us that people do not understand. I am sure your son is often tempted with things that he can not eat by people having the attitude that a little will not hurt you. People on the whole are very shallow and self centered so when it comes to some one that is different they just have to nose in. Hey! Have you had you son try the low carb versions of the burgers. They are wrapped in lettuce instead of being on a bun and are delicious.


myLot reputation of 97/100. cjgrooms (3194)   ranked 300 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

My Son has been on Xolair shots for several years and over the past year the doctor has had us let him start eating a lot of things that he couldn't before (including wheat).
The only foods that he can't tolerate these days is eggs (unless they are baked in something in the oven on 350degrees for at least 30min.) tree nuts, peanuts and All seafood. Other than that he seems to do pretty well these days. I dread the day that they have to take him off the shot and then he has to go back to giving up all the things that he has gotten used to eating!

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4. myLot reputation of 97/100. pyewacket (11627)   ranked 227 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

Hehehe..LOL...gee, maybe you should hang a sign around your neck stating you can't eat anything that has wheat/gluten in it. I don't know why people concern themselves or be busy bodies about what someone is eating...What is it their business anyway? Maybe you should have just stared back at them with what they were eating to make them feel weird


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Hi Pye. I was to busy enjoying my guilt free burger to give them a stare back.

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5. myLot reputation of 91/100. beautyqueen26 (9134)   ranked 748 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

No, I wouldn't stare at another person who was
eating differently than me.
But I might get stares for my hotdog toppings!
I love those things.

It's America! We live in the melting pot of cultures.
Everyone's different, even down to what they eat.

A simpler way to explain your eating habits to the
insensitive numb-skulls that glare and poke fun, would
be to tell them that you are doing
the Atkins diet and have already lost ten pounds!
No carbs! Get it, cause wheat and such has carbs.

I'm sure they would get that. Atkinds, low carb is
all the rage. Lots of people do it and they don't
get stared down. And, it's sort of true, you really
are following no carb, if you think about it!

They will be eating their heart out with jealousy
and leave you alone enough so that you can enjoy your
time out with your family without derision!

Be well.
Have a beautiful day.


myLot reputation of 96/100. tanniebabe78 (747)   ranked 483 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Nope! That response will just get him a whole new line if idiocy! People don't know what Atkins is and thinks it is NO carb when they really should read the book before talking. So he would get lectured instead of stared at. I know all about this one. thumbdownrolleyes


myLot reputation of 81/100. Barbietre (1237)   ranked 2,316 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Amen to that, I eat protein power close to Atkins. They think all we eat is meat hahaha! They have no idea how really healthy it is and how balanced our mrals really are. I had my Triglycerides drop from 225 to 84!


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

That is a great reply. Yes we are in a melting pot and have a lot of different cuisines available and I would love to eat them all. And the Atkins diet is a very good diet and has helped many people.

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6. myLot reputation of 87/100. cripfemme (5744)   ranked 707 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

I can relate to the staring thing on a different level because people tend to look at me due to the fact that I have cerebral palsy and require a wheelchair to get around. I also talk differently so people tend to stare at me for that too. Additionally, I have an allergy to a chemical in plastic (well some plastics anyway) that could make me go into anaphalatic shock. I frequently have to modify my eating choices based on packaging or ask them to change the packaging for me. I love to eat out, however, and refuse to let my allergies or the people who have nothing better to do with their lives than look at me take this activity away from me. My friend, Mary Frances (may she rest in peace) had a great comment for starers. "Take a picture. It lasts longer", she would tell them. This may sound mean, and I'm sure your church friends mean no harm and you don't wish to be mean to them. However, it does make people think.


myLot reputation of 96/100. tanniebabe78 (747)   ranked 483 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

You are so cool! w00tthumbup


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Thank you for your good response. Our middle child also has cerebral palsy and just under went a surgery to get her legs straightened out. But they were not staring at her because they all except her. I guess I was the distraction on this day.


myLot reputation of 87/100. cripfemme (5744)   ranked 707 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

She lucky to have a mom who understands what it's like to be stared at.

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7. myLot reputation of 31/100. joyouskay (116)   ranked 13,783 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

I have severe allergies to foods- the most dramatic being all nuts. People always think I'm odd when I have to ask what type of oil foods or fried in, or double check on the ingredients of specific dishes. Sometimes I find it amusing that others seem so interested in what I have to do- but it gets a bit old when I hear the constant "you have to live without eating nuts?", "I could never do that", "oh my gosh, that is so awful." Maybe it's just because I've dealt with it my whole life, but it just doesn't seem like such a big deal anymore.

I've gotten to the point where if I'm going out for a business dinner, I call the restaurant ahead of time and plan my meal. That way I never have to say anything in front of Clients, and don't have to bother explaining anything.


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

I have also done the same when planning for a wheat/gluten free dinner out. II also always visit the restaurant web site if they have one to find out what is safe.

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8. myLot reputation of 92/100. MsTickle (8961)   ranked 851 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

Good heavens no! I would hopefully be too busy enjoying my own food and the company I was with. What has happened to people's manners. It is so rude to stare. happy


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

I know. People can be so rude.

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9. myLot reputation of 94/100. eachen2002 (873)   ranked 9,263 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

I'm allergic to sugar and i still eat but i break out from it.i just have to make sure that i drink alot of water or just don't eat alot of it.it's not strange that ate food that way,they do have lettuce wraps with different meat like chicken and beef and ground hamburger.


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Thank you for your contribution. There are so many people who can not eat sugar but again most people just take everything for granted.

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10. myLot reputation of 91/100. positiveminded1977 (4517)   ranked 223 out of 38,384 in life   1 year ago

Sorry to sound a bit ignorant. But I don't know what is gluten free diet and why people have to take a gluten free diet. It sure sounds like a torture. I am usually engrossed in my own plate when I eat in public and I hardly notice what other people eat. But I guess some people would be interested.:) The best thing is to ignore them, and if they insist on staring give them a sweet smile and ask them if you could do something for them. That should send them on their way.

Cheers and happy mylotting


myLot reputation of 93/100. 1grnthmb (1557)   ranked 841 out of 38,384 in life  1 year ago

Thank you, A gluten free diet is one that is free of wheat, rye, barley or oats in any form. It is like having a very severe allergy and that is the way I usually describe it. I will not get into the symptoms here but they are awful. I usually just ignore people but in this case I had a very unusual amount of people observing me.

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