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myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life 4 years ago

Check out the Five Lessons and tell me which one is your favorite.

Subject: Five Lessons

1 - First Important Lesson - Cleaning Lady.

During my second month of college, our professor gave us a pop quiz. I was a conscientious student and had breezed through the questions until I read the last one:'What is the first name of the woman who cleans the school?'

Surely this was some kind of joke. I had seen the cleaning woman several times. She was tall, dark-haired and in her 50s, but how would I know her name?

I handed in my paper, leaving the last question blank. Just before class ended, one student asked if the last question would count toward our quiz grade.

'Absolutely,' said the professor 'In your careers, you will meet many people. All are significant. They deserve your attention and care, even if all you do is smile and say 'hello.'

I've never forgotten that lesson. I also learned her name was Dorothy.

2. - Second Important Lesson - Pickup in the Rain

One night, at 11:3 0 p.m., an older African American woman was standing on the side of an Alabama highway trying to endure a lashing rainstorm. Her car had broken down and she desperately needed a ride.

Soaking wet, she decided to flag down the next car. A young white man stopped to help her, generally unheard of in those conflict-filled 60s..

The man took her to safety, helped her get assistance and put her into a taxicab.
She seemed to be in a big hurry, but wrote down his address and thanked him.

Seven days went by and a knock came on the man's door. To his surprise, a giant console color TV was delivered to his home. A special note was attached..

It read:

'Thank you so much for assisting me on the highway the other night. The rain drenched not only my clothes, but also my spirits. Then you came along.

Because of you, I was able to make it to my dying husband's bedside just before he passed away... God bless you for helping me and unselfishly serving others.'

Sincerely, Mrs. Nat King Cole.

For those who have never heard of Nat King Cole, here is a little information about him.

Nathaniel Adams Coles (March 17, 1919 – February 15, 1965), known professionally as Nat King Cole, was a popular American jazz singer-songwriter and pianist.

Cole first came to prominence as a leading jazz pianist, then switched his emphasis to singing, becoming one of the most popular and best known vocalists of all time.

3 - Third Important Lesson - Always remember those who serve.

In the days when an ice cream sundae cost much less, a 10-year-old boy entered a hotel coffee shop and sat at a table. A waitress put a glass of water in front of him.

'How much is an ice cream sundae?' he asked.
'Fifty cents,' replied the waitress. The little boy pulled is hand out of his pocket and studied the coins in it. 'Well, how much is a plain dish of ice cream?' he inquired.

By now more people were waiting for a table and the waitress was growing impatient.
'Thirty-five cents,' she brusquely replied.

The little boy again counted his coins.
'I'll have the plain ice cream,' he said.
The waitress brought the ice cream, put the bill on the table and walked away.

The boy finished the ice cream, paid the cashier and left. When the waitress came back, she began to cry as she wiped down the table.

There, placed neatly beside the empty dish, were two nickels and five pennies.. You see, he couldn't have the sundae, because he had to have enough left to leave her a tip.

4 - Fourth Important Lesson. - The obstacle in Our Path.

In ancient times, a King had a boulder placed on a roadway. Then he hid himself and watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock.

Some of the king's wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the stone out of the way.

Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. Upon approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded.

After the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the King indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway.

The peasant learned what many of us never understand! Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve our condition.

5 - Fifth Important Lesson - Giving When it Counts...

Many years ago, when I worked as a volunteer at a hospital, I got to know a little girl named Liz who was suffering from a rare & serious disease.

Her only chance of recovery appeared to be a blood transfusion from her 5-year old brother, who had miraculously survived the same disease and had developed the antibodies needed to combat the illness..

The doctor explained the situation to her little brother, and asked the little boy if he would be willing to give his blood to his sister.

I saw him hesitate for only a moment before taking a deep breath and saying, 'Yes I'll do it if it will save her.'

As the transfusion progressed, he lay in bed next to his sister and smiled, as we all did, seeing the color returning to her cheek. Then his face grew pale and his smile faded.

He looked up at the doctor and asked with a trembling voice, 'Will I start to die right away'.

Being young, the little boy had misunderstood the doctor; he thought he was going to have to give his sister all of his blood in order to save her but he had chosen to save her anyway.

I think these are 5 great Life Lessons. Which one is your favorite? My favorite lesson is the Fifth lesson - Giving When it Counts...
The little boy not only showed great love for his sister, but great courage.

Lloyd


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1. onthetop (82)   ranked 2,639 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

i liked all the short stories ... that are i think real incidences...

i like the last one most .. as the purity of child .. even he thought that he will die after giving his blood to his sister ,which was correct a just misconception, but still he accepetd to give his blood to his sister, just a pure love nothing else and offcourse the kid is very strong and courageous....

the second story i like is the obstacle in out path .. its very truely interpreted .. that if we face obstacle and fight to get rid off we sure get rewards and and offcourse good oppurtunty that may change your life .....

the third one i like is the old lady .. yes its true we met lots of people daily but some we met regulary and atleast we should know their names, i personaly try to know names of each of them ....

rest stories are also good the old mans unselfish help and the boy not took sundae as then he not left the tip of person who serves him...

but the other three stories i like most ...

thanks for sharing alll the stories ..
have nice day ...


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Hello onthetop. I also liked all of the short stories. I liked the one about the child the best. He was very loving and couragous.

Children have a way of bringing out the best qualities of being human. They have no other motives other than an instinctive desire to do what's right.

I'm glad you enjoyed the stories and you have a nice day also.

Lloyd

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2. myLot reputation of 83/100. irisheyes (3349)   4 years ago

These are great. I have one my dad used to tell us. My father's grandparents lived in new Jersey at the turn of the last century. There were men that came through their little town called hobos who were like today's homeless people. They rode the rails from town to town across the country. My great grandmother would leave food for them on the back porch and the men would do odd jobs around the property. One year, one of the fellows decided to stay in New Jersey (They usually went West in the winter) and my great grandmother helped him find work in the little town. He died that winter and his brother came to claim his body. A big limousine came to the house with a police escort and the governor of New York (Gov Whelan) came inside to thank my dad's grandmom for being so nice to his brother. The hobo was the governor of New york's brother. He was also a college graduate (VERY unusual in those days) who had advantages galore but he had a drinking problem and his family was unable to help him. My dad always said, you never know how a life will turn out and you never know who you are helping so you just do the best you can and don't judge people by their circumstances.


myLot reputation of 83/100. irisheyes (3349)  4 years ago

Oops, I forgot to give my favorite. It's the Nat King Cole one. He had such class and it looks like his wife did too.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Hello irisheyes. That is such a great story. It should be included as Lesson #6.

Your great grandmother sounds very much like my mother. I can't tell you how many relatives my mother took into our house when I was growing up.

She fed them and my father helped them find work. And I believe that my family was better off for that experience.

Your great grandmother must have felt very honored to get a visit form the Governor of New York.

You never know who you may cross your path. Choosing kindness to others can have many rewards.

Lloyd


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

I also liked the Nat King Cole story. It was so graphic. I can picture her in the rain, worrying about her husband, and not knowing how she would be able to be with him.

Then out of nowhere comes this "Perfect Stranger" who gives her the most important ride of her life.

Once again, kindness can be very rewarding.

Lloyd

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3. myLot reputation of 82/100. MoonlightSerenade (998)   4 years ago

The fifth is definitely the most moving, but they all got to me. I think this is a beautiful post. Thank you for it, Lloyd.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

That 5th lesson (Giving When it Counts) is definately the most moving. He acted out of pure love, with a lot of courage also.

So far we have 2 votes for # 5 (Giving When it Counts) and 1 vote for # 2 (Pickup in the Rain).

Thank you so much for your kind words.

Lloyd

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4. myLot reputation of 48/100. revdauphinee (4113)   ranked 4,867 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

What a wonderfull posting thank you it has lesons in it for all of us !


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Hello revdauphinee. Thank you so very much for the kind words.

You are so right. These lessons have something in them that everyone of us can use to be a better person.

By the way, you forgot to tell me which one you liked the best.

Lloyd

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5. myLot reputation of 98/100. katiedoubleu (2953)   4 years ago

Hi Lloyd! There are certainly some great lessons to be learned here and frankly I liked all of them. After reading through the first four, I was about to choose the one concerning Nat King Cole as my favorite... but then I read the last one. happy

May I choose the two of them as a toss-up? lol If not then I'll have to choose the one about the little boy's very precious gift.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

Hi katie. Thanks for stopping by. These are some great lessong to be learned by everyone, both young and old.

I'm glad you liked all of them. I'll put you down for both lessons.

That makes 3 votes for lesson #5 (Giving When it Counts) and 2 votes for lesson #2 (Pickup in the Rain).

It seems like there is something very special about these two lessons.

Lloyd

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6. myLot reputation of 99/100. mtdewgurl74 (11320)   ranked 505 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I actually loved all of them, I think they are lie lessons that we all should learn and value. number 5 got me a little teary eyed, he was so brave to think he had to give up his life and he did it because of th power of love he had for his sister. I bet that a bond formed that would never be broken. I am saving all these because I find them inspiring and think other would too. We let life pass us by and we rarely think about these things, but we need to start. Thanks for posting this great discussion.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

They are 5 great life lessons that we should all value. The boy in #5 was very brave and I also wondered about the bond that developed between he and h is sister.

I'm glad you enjoyed this discussion and posted your reply.

Thanks,

Lloyd

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7. myLot reputation of 91/100. ctobler0609 (209)   ranked 8,731 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

My favorite is the first. I have seen this before and it has just stuck with me. I actually introduced myself to Gina (the woman who cleans the office that I work in) because of this story. Some time ago one of my employees asked when the cleaning lady comes in. I replied, "I will tell you if you can tell me her name". At first he thought I was joking. He realized I wasn't joking when I told him when the "cleaning lady" comes in for her shift, go introduce himself to her and ask what her name is. He did and that started everyone introducing themselves to her over time. Now everyone knows Gina and she knows everyones name in the office (all 100+ employees). Everyone is equally important no matter what their title. Thanks for sharing all of these stories!


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

That is such a great story. Sometimes the people who do such an important job as cleaning the office is looked down upon. But I know that Gina feels like part of the family because of your efforts.

Regardless of her position, she is still a person with feelings and someone who needs to be part of the social setting of your workplace.

I'm glad you enjoy these stories and replied.

Lloyd

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8. myLot reputation of 94/100. chrysz (1077)   ranked 2,469 out of 32,950 in life   4 years ago

I was moved by the third one because the child showed thoughtfulness and gratefulness despite being treated that way by the waitress. The fifth story is also moving but I found the third one more appealing.

I am not affected with the first story as I see to it that I get to know the person and his/her name especially when I see him/her everyday.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

I'm beginning to like that 3rd story more and more. He didn't even realize how he was being treated because he was focused on leaving a tip for the waitress.

The fact that his thoughtfulness bought the waitress to tears shows how powerful his simple actions were.

Thank you very much for responding and keep treating others with dignity and respect.

Lloyd

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9. myLot reputation of 31/100. joyouskay (116)   4 years ago

I think all 5 are really great lessons, and something I want to share with others. But I agree with you that #5 really takes the cake so to speak. It's a great lesson, especially in this day and age where society is so selfish.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

I'm glad you think that all the lessons are great. Feel free to share them with family and friends.

Lesson #5 really shows that we don't have to live in a selfish society.

Just sharing in time of someone's need can be truly rewarding.

Lloyd

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10. Catherine630 (23)   4 years ago

I like the first story!
Everyone is very important, respecting him is about to return ur respect.


myLot reputation of 90/100. lloydanthony111 (1180)   ranked 822 out of 32,950 in life  4 years ago

I agree with you. "Everyone is very important" regardless of their job, race, social standings, etc.

It's important to respect others.

Lloyd

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