Giving Money to children actually could hinder their efforts to build wealth?
By zandi458
@zandi458 (28102)
Malaysia
June 25, 2008 4:13am CST
When I was younger my parents were very strict when comes to giving us pocket money. My mom would stash away the big notes and would only keep coins in her purse. She would pretend that is all she had. She will ask us hell lot of questions if ever any of us wanted money to buy anything for school projects. Her miser way has indeed bear fruits on us now. I don't spend unnecessarily even now that I can afford.
1 response
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
Your mom absolutely did a great way to inculcate on you the importance of saving money.
On my part, I don't know how my mother did it but just the same as you, I also learned the importance of saving at an early age. I still remember that I always had money on my wallet and in fact, I really loved receiving wallets as gifts because I would save as much as I could so that I wouldn't experience being low on cash.
I first opened a savings account with a local bank when I was still a school girl. I tried to be as thrifty as possible and spend only on things that I really need, such as food and transportation fare. This way, I didn't ask for allowance for my school projects as often as I should. Eventually, I was able to save. And this habit went on until I got my first job after graduation.
However, I really wasn't able to continue doing this when my husband (who was still my boyfriend then) and I met. And it worsened when we got married and had our first child, along with the soaring prices of commodities. Also, having a credit card really burdened us in the long run. Now, we still have an outstanding debt with our two credit cards; but I'm hopeful that we'll be able to pay-off all our existing obligations, and save for our daughter's education as soon as possible.


