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myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers4 months ago

If you have a friend or a member of your family that you know her/him last wishes, do you will respect these wishes when this person died? Or only ignore it and do what you think that is better?

 
 
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moondancer (1002) response was accepted on 7/25/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. Wizzywig (1120)   ranked 463 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

I would respect the deceased's wishes as far as possible and i hope that my family will do the same for me when my time here is done.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi Wizzywig, we all hope this. Thanks for comment.

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2. myLot reputation of 70/100. irishidid (1170)   ranked 1,393 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

You respect their wishes as best as able.
My mother's wishes weren't up to us. She had donated her body to science years before she died. I was her witness.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi, you did well respecting your mother's wishes. It is a moral matter.

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3. myLot reputation of 78/100. ANTIQUELADY (2558)   ranked 1,189 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

i think there last wishes should be carried out no matter what anyone thinks.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi antiquelady, I agree with you. When we love someone we need to do the last wishes of him/her. Thanks for your comment.

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4. myLot reputation of 85/100. relundad (1044)   ranked 357 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

I feel that if its possible or reasonable then you should respect a persons last wishes. I recently had a death in my family and my cousin(the deceased) always verbalized his last wishes as far as his final arrangements were. He was not married and did not have kids. He wanted an elaborate homegoing ceremony (funeral). I think everybody in the family assumed that another family member knew the specifics of how this would be financially taken care of. Nowadays a funeral and burial can cost thousands of dollars. Well in the end, even though we all knew what his wishes were, no one was in a financial position to shell out thousands of dollars for a funeral nor did it appear that he had life insurance that anyone knew of. I don't know maybe he didnt plan on dying in his 50's, I dunno. Well anyway to make a long story short, though we would have liked to give him his last wishes either we couldn't afford it or just wasn't willing to spend the money. So we ended up with a memorial service and cremation.But what it taught the living was that if you have specific last wishes you should have a will and make arrangements for them to be carried out. As morbid as it sounds its true.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi relundad, I understand your point and I have to agree with you in this point. Thanks for reply my post.

 
5. myLot reputation of 96/100. moondancer (1002)   ranked 337 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

Most certainly I would respect their last wishes. If they said to do something I would. No matter what I think it's there thought at the last of their life and I would respect it and do it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi moondancer, I agree with you my friend. It is a moral matter and is important for us to have peace of spirit. Thanks for your response.


myLot reputation of 96/100. moondancer (1002)   ranked 337 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  3 months ago

Thank you teka out of everyone you marked mine as best response.

 
6. myLot reputation of 93/100. joliefille (1347)   ranked 256 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

I would try to respect their wishes to the best of my ability. I don't want to be haunted later with the thought that I didn't do what they wanted.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

LOL, you are right. Thanks for reply my discussion joliefille.

 
7. myLot reputation of 90/100. vimaal (1467)   ranked 137 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

hi teka how are you, you respect her/him whishes thats nice pa.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi vimaal, I am fine and you? Thanks for give me a comment.


myLot reputation of 90/100. vimaal (1467)   ranked 137 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

hi teka iam fine da, take care, keep in touch pa

 
8. myLot reputation of 98/100. kaleegirl45 (587)   ranked 1,370 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

If that would happen I would advice her to go to a notoary public and have a paper signed, in that paper she should put down exactly what it is that she wants, this way she will get her last finally wish. And no one can do anything about it.


myLot reputation of 98/100. teka44 (1930)   ranked 200 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Hi kaleegirl, you are right. It is a safe way. Thanks for reply.


myLot reputation of 98/100. kaleegirl45 (587)   ranked 1,370 out of 9,139 in questions & answers  4 months ago

Your welcome.

 
9. myLot reputation of 92/100. Darshu (355)   ranked 2,942 out of 9,139 in questions & answers   4 months ago

hey tekka i always try to respect last wishes of died person but if it is better to get it practically and its should not be violate then i will try to bring it true wishes and before that i will say god bless him/her.

 
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