Would you choose the one you love or the one who loves you?  |
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 Most of us have been in this situation, when we love someone else while we are loved by a person that we don't actually love but care about. If you happen to be in this situation who would you choose? The one who loves you or the one you love?
In my case, I think I'll pursue the one I love. I'd take my chances because I love the person. That would make me happier, even if I fail to get her or so, I'd be happy to do my best than not try at all .I can't go for someone who loves me if I don't feel the same way. I am very considerate when it comes to the other person's sake. I don't want to hurt people, and if I do go for that person and fail to give back that love, I'll only be hurting her more in the process. And yes, either way that person is going to get hurt, but it would be better to have ended it early. Time is essential. So how about you? What would you do?
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1.  lishiwei (1155) | 4 months ago |  Yes,it's really hard to deal with.I remember that there are someone who also ask this kind of questions.I think if you are a boy you should choose the one who love you and if you are the girls you should choose the one who you love,because I'm a boy.Hehe...Is that I'm so mean?
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 selece (544) | 4 months ago | Wah.. Hehe. Well, these days, it's ok if the girl fights for her love towards the other person. So she also has the power and right to choose the one she loves. No you are not mean but that is your own point of view and I respect it. It's just that we are all free to choose, and being male or female doesn't dictate which choice we should make. Thank you! I respect your thoughts. Thanks for sharing! | |
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| 2. diansinta (4080) | 4 months ago |  This post contains content of a mature nature. You must be Signed in or Registered to have the option to view this content.
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | I guess sometimes, love is not enough. Love doesn't always lead to the kind of happiness we are looking for. But indeed love leads to many good things, and we have to appreciate them. Thanks for sharing. | |
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| 3. moneymint18 (388) | 4 months ago |  Hi selece,
It is a very difficult and personal question as well.For me it is more important that who loves me.If some one loves me from heart and i am not in love with anyone in that case i will accept her and love her.
I will tell you one situation you will understood why i said like this:
Suppose you are in love with a person A but at the same time A is in love with another person B.Now A likes you but don't loves you.There is another person c who loves you very much.Which one you will prefer to run behind.
I will say definitely C because if you do anything also A will not love because A loves B not you in this case you love story will be incomplete.
I hope you understood well with my nice live example.
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | I see and understand your point. In my case though, I would feel unsatisfied if I don't try. And it would be a risk to go for someone if you don't actually love her, and yes I could learn to love someone who loves me but it may take time. But there are no guarantees and I am very much afraid of hurting someone else. Tough but it all comes down on how the person deals with it. Thank you for your concrete example. Thanks for sharing! God bless! | |
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| 4. chiyosan (8234) | 4 months ago |  i have chosen the person who loves me before.. but i was really wrong and i could not stand a day being with the person i dont love anymore. its like i dont have patience for him and everything he does does not mean anything to me...
i would say i'd rather choose the one i love and be hurt than to stay with one person i cannot love. it feels worse than being alone.
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | I understand you and not being able to show some care and appreciation for that person who loves us, it would only hurt him/her. It's a worse case that I wouldn't want to get involved in. Thanks for sharing! | |
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | Yes, you are right. If you don't hate her and she cares and loves you, it is possible to love her. But for me, I'm afraid of hurting the person because I do care about her. Hehe. Get my point right? If I hurt her it would never be the same, I wouldn't want to hurt people, especially friends. Thanks for sharing! God bless! | |
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| 6. jag003 (97) | 4 months ago |  It's nice to have someone who loves you they say you could actually grow to love them in time, but with me I'd rather be with someone who I love, because I won't be faking anything, I might end up getting hurt and all that but as they say "All is fair in love and war"...
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | True True. Faking anything is really not a good thing so I'd also avoid that. Thanks for the response! | |
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| jag003 (97) | 4 months ago | Oh, no problem man, glad to be of help... | |
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| 7. melo_828 (316) | 4 months ago |  of course i'll choose the one who love me and i also love. because if you choose to love someone you only love but doesn't love you, your relationship will not work out. the same thing when you choose the one who loves you but you didn't love, it will only end up in break ups...
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | Given the situation I mentioned, it is hard to choose... Loving someone and being loved by the same person is a different story and a good one. Thanks for the response. | |
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| 8. catfish57 (984) | 4 months ago |  if i was to choose some one again, iwould want the love feeling to be both ways. not just one way. i was hurt to much,when i seperated from my ex.i got divorced in 1984.so to tell you the truth, i am not looiking for love anymore. it is to late for me.
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | I see. But as I've said, love on both ways is a different story from what I've posted. And yes parting ways with someone you love is painful, ugh... Very painful. Thanks for sharing! | |
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| catfish57 (984) | 4 months ago | you are very welcome my friend | |
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| 9. ifglan (323) | 4 months ago |  Well,my friend,if i must decide,i will choose the one who loves me.
I have experienced loving deeply to someone,but i was wrong,one can't love the other with 100%,it's too tired,at last,i was hurt badly.Can't forget those days,so not every one deserves our loving to him.
Maybe,i'm a girl,i'm more eager to be loved,it makes me feel comfortable and secure.
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | I understand you. And yes, it doesn't feel so good to love and get hurt. The feeling of being loved is very pleasing and satisfying. Thanks for sharing! | |
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| 10. SomeCowgirl (2474) | 4 months ago |  The one who loves me, and I did. The one who loves you has obviously been watching you from afar, and is already devoted to you and who you are. A lot of people will pursue a crush, and I can't say that I haven't wanted to, but something has always stopped. My fiance charmed me, and always treats me like his queen, and he is my king. Have a Great day.
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | I agree so. More and more I'm beginning to understand why people choose those who love them rather than those they love. Thank you! | |
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| SomeCowgirl (2474) | 4 months ago | No problem. I am not saying that you can not choose the other but in my opinion those may resolve in more heartache then heartwarmth. Have a Great day. | |
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| selece (544) | 4 months ago | Yes, I agree. Thanks again. Hehe. | |
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