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miraclefreebies (57)   ranked 4 out of 36 in good listener3 months ago

Sorry for the inconvenience, but I really need a good set of ears right now. I'm going through a lot of problems right now and I really don't have no one to just sit and listen, or stand and listen, whatever works for you. I'm always tired, weak and just run down and sluggish all the time. I forget things all day long and everyday. Oh my gosh the list goes on and on. I don't have any friends, I never want to get out of the bed, and at the same time I keep waking up all through the night. Can I get some feedback somebody, anybody?

 
 
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jcbenitez88 (5) response was accepted on 8/13/2008.
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tags:  depression, problems, life, beat depression, be happy
 
1. myLot reputation of 79/100. bdugas (1107)   ranked 24 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

When we go through a lot of problems, one right after the other it seems to stress us out, sometimes to the point of not being able to handle what faces us each day, you go to bed at night and as soon as you lay down all of the days problems start running through your head. It takes all I have in me sometimes after a day of fighting social security, the doctors my husband goes to, our problems in Louisiana where we lost our home to Hurricane Katrina in 2005, that is a nightmare that will never end for some of us.
You should go to your doctor and tell her what is happening and she can give you something for the stress, she gave me doxepin so i could sleep at night. Stress will lead to more health problems, like the massive heart attack I had fighting all these people. He*ll half the time I don't even know what day it is, don't be afraid to ask for help, it is out there and we all need it sometimes as life suck if you let it. Do you really not have friends or is it that you think they don't care, maybe they dont' understand what you are going through. Like I said get help don't let the stress control your life.


miraclefreebies (57)   ranked 4 out of 36 in good listener  3 months ago

No I really don't have friends, I been in Florida for a year and a half and all I did was go for long walks by myself or with my husband, but mostly by myself. I would like someone who I can communicate with sometimes,or click with. I had a friend in Memphis Tn but we lost touch.

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2. myLot reputation of 51/100. Gargoyle0134 (1251)   ranked 23 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

Sounds like hypothyroidism symptoms? But check it out with the doctor.
An easy fix! (A pill in the morning with your vitamin to raise your thyroid hormone!)

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3. chanti11413 (3)   ranked 18 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

What seems to be the problem?

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4. marielagordita (61)   ranked 29 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

Try goin on myspace, add local people and become friends with them.. join a group like whats your favorite hobby? join a group that has that.. oyu know you can meet knew people

 
5. myLot reputation of 47/100. fifileigh (1258)   ranked 5 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

it sounds like depression. for starters, wake up, eat a healthy breakfast, take ur vitamin, drink a cup of coffee, and go for a walk and smell the fresh air..get out of the house and do something. try to meet people and socialize in a cafe or coffee shop...or while walking say hi to the first person u run into...

 
6. nurseia (20)   ranked 21 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

You might have a thyroid condition which can be associated with weakness and depression. First,try going to your Dr. for help. In the meantime, try taking a multivitamin along with eating healthier foods. Get some fresh air and try a few exercises. I hope this helps.

 
7. Juduka (93)   ranked 19 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

What do you like to do? Meeting new people is easy at hobbies and functions when you at least have one sure subject to talk about.
I noticed you're a member of Freebieforce. I haven't given it good consideration, but it is some sort of Network-Marketing company? Maybe some one upline would be interested in building a better relationship, business, team with you. After all Network Marketing is a business of appointments and relationships.
What do you want from life? You have my ears.

 
8. jcbenitez88 (5)   ranked 26 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

Hi, let me start by saying that I know exactly where your coming from, and that it's all in how much you care for yourself. I'm still fairly young, but was forced to mature at a young age and could not handle the stresses of life. I just got out of the hospital about a month ago for attempting suicide, and was almost successful, but the doctors would not give up, I WAS REVIVED. And this is what I learned:
1. You are a product of what your mind conceives.
2. Friends come and go, but in the end you are your one true friend.
3. EVRYTHING HAS ITS TIME.
Things may not happen when and as fast as we want them to, but usually when we rush, we get more than what we bargain for. So just take a deep breath and appreciate what you do have. Like right now you have a computer and you have hands to type with. Someone right now cant even see, they cant walk, someone has to feed them, they have cancer or aids. . . these ppl are not worried about friends they are wishing that they could just be as normal as we feel. Always remind yourself that you actually have it alot better than what you may think. Lonliness is just our minds telling us to stay active. Take yourself to a movie or dinner and laugh at the couples that dont realize how much fun it is to actually be single. . .let me just stop hear and I hope that this helps. . . . .but dont forget in the end, its you that you answer to.

 
9. jhoyimperial (27)   ranked 27 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

have a hobby.

walk in the park with fresh air.

change your look. few inch of hair won't hurt. a fresh new you is the best. works very fine for me.

keep away from things that makes you sad.

whatever your religion is, always have faith.

unload your stress by doing something worth. accomplishing little things helps a lot.

forget thinking much. it doesn't help at all.

write down your thoughts. your dreams, fantasies, heartaches, everything, anything. it's one way of releasing.

look in the mirror and smile at yourself. do silly faces in front of it it's fun.

do fun things.

it's not bad to getaway from the world for a while. it is what we call searching for one's self.

 
10. myLot reputation of 97/100. msedge (1279)   ranked 22 out of 36 in good listener   3 months ago

I sometimes feel like that specially when i am being pressurize by something.I would just do things normally but my mind is somewhere.I got to use of it because thats what really i am when i am on stress.So i tried to deal with it by keeping myself busy and diverting whatever in my mind to something else.I guess you are just worried of something.Help yourself by doing stuff that would cheer you up.

 
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