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boogli69 (43)   ranked 7,598 out of 23,410 in relationships2 years ago

Have you ever fell in love with a bestfriend or with your close online friend? What did you do to get over it? Is telling him/her what you feel, may ruin your friendship? What do you think?

 
 
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ferdzNK (2326) response was accepted on 7/1/2008.
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. ferdzNK (2326)   2 years ago

I think it would be better to be up front with it than to keep it to your self. If she's your best friend then the more reason that he can understand you. Who knows what could happen but for sure its for the best.

I personally had that thought too, but after weighing things up I've decided to tell her. Of course she was shock to learn it, I even offered her that I won't be seeing her for a while if that's what she want. I am prepared for the worst, but she decided to give it a try. We eventually get married and now have two lovely daughters.

Good luck Booglie and happy postinghappy.


boogli69 (43)   ranked 7,598 out of 23,410 in relationships  2 years ago

Thanks for sharing ferdzNK, what a very romantic story about you and your bestfriend. More power to the two of you.


myLot reputation of 98/100. ferdzNK (2326)  2 years ago

Thanks for the tag and welcome to myLothappy.

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2. myLot reputation of 70/100. subha12 (16451)   ranked 685 out of 23,410 in relationships   2 years ago

i have never fell in love with a friend. but it happens many cases. its quite natural too. the fopundation stone of love can be friendship. in this case its good that you know each other beforehand.

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3. golea07 (2)   ranked 15,320 out of 23,410 in relationships   2 years ago

Well, I've been in love with my best friend... but she rejected me...at first I thought it'll be the end of our good friendship but after 2 months at last she said sorry and I apologized too... we bacame best friends again for 6 years...don't ever say or reveal something to your bestfriend if you know well that its not yet time for the both of you to go to the next level...you may not know...maybe someone else comes in to both of your lives...then all is over just because you felt something for your bestfriend...just love him as your bestfriend...thats it...:D

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4. myLot reputation of 98/100. magojordan (2489)   ranked 53 out of 23,410 in relationships   2 years ago

I remember how I asked my best friend for my problem about being in love with a friend. of course she had no idea that she was the one that I was referring to. She told me that if that person is really your friend then she would still consider you as a friend regardless if you love her more than that. A week later I told her my feelings and a week later she turned me down. We are still friends as of the moment and I have a girlfriend now. I'm glad that she turned me down because if she didn't i wouldn't be with the person that I love the most.

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5. myLot reputation of 93/100. dhangski (1961)   ranked 1,591 out of 23,410 in relationships   2 years ago

I did fell in love with a close friend. But I never had the courage to tell him what I felt for him. I don't know what will happen next. I've been keeping this for a long time now. Even before I got married. Well, I guess I have to keep it by myself coz I have a family and he has a family too. sad. But I'm happy with my life now. I'm happy to in the arms of my first and last love, my husband.

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. Muelitz (1084)   ranked 5,935 out of 23,410 in relationships   2 years ago

Yeah I did. But we did not start as good friends. We Started as co-workers that are angry at each other, then we became friends, then it developed into love and then marriage. We just let it develop and not do anything to stop it.:)


boogli69 (43)   ranked 7,598 out of 23,410 in relationships  1 year ago

Wow, that's really good. Thanks for sharing.

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