The New Show Baby Borrowers...

Turkey
July 4, 2008 11:36am CST
Have any of you seen this new reality show on Wednesday nights at 8pm? I was switching through the channels the other night and I came across it and it's actually an interesting idea. Here's basically what they're trying to do with it: They take these teen couples, where the girls in the relationship feel they're ready to have a baby, and they stick the couples in their own house (each couple has a seperate house but all the houses are in one neighborhood)and the they put them through the stages of parenting. First, they start off having to wear pregnancy bellies, then they borrow these babies from parents who have signed up to work on the experiment (I know these parents are probably getting paid pft...)and they have to take care of these babies day and night for three days while the parents look on from a tv monitor in a seperate house in the same neighborhood. There is a nanny in the house for each couple and on hand in case of emergencies and the parents can step in whenever they feel like they need to. After the baby stage they go on to toddlers, then pre-teens, then the teens and then GET THIS, the elderly. I relly don't get the elderly part because by the time their kids are elderly, the kids will be taking care of them but I guess the idea is to teach them the responsibility of caring for another human being. Also, while one of them stays home to take care of the babies and ect...the other has to go to work, interesting... I do have to say, however, that if I were a parent, I don't think I would lend my baby out to a bunch of teens for three days, whether I was watching close by or not. A lot of these babies seemed real shaken by it and they kept crying because they were with total strangers and they were being handled by people who had no clue what they were doing. A lot of the parents said that they did it because they were teen parents themselves and they wished that they had had an opportunity beforehand to know what it was going to be like. For that, I respect them. Still, I don't think I would hand off my baby to a bunch of teens, even if I were right accross the street and could step in at any moment.... In any case, after watching these couple's struggles and then watching them give up and say they weren't ready for parenting just after the first baby stage, I started to understand what it is (besides ratings and money) that the network was going for and that is to show these kids that parenting is not fun and games and it's A LOT of very hard work. I think this show is not only a great experiment for those taking part in it but for all the young teens watching the show as well. You have to watch an episode to understand what I mean here. Here's the YouTube link to the intro... http://youtube.com/watch?v=asbeykh9Be8 In any case, what is everyone's opinion on this show and do you think it: 1)Will work 2)Is it a good idea 3)what do you think about people lending out their babies to these teens as an experiment I would love to hear all of your opinions on this one!
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I have only seen the previews for this program. But from what i have seen I think that every young person that is starting to date and is already in a relationship should have to go through this to see just what they can be getting into. It just might put a damper on having babies before marriage or they are mature enough to be a parent. It would be real difficult for me to put my babies in this kind of situation. I didn't even want to leave him with family.
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• Turkey
4 Jul 08
Yeah, for one of the previews for this show the announcer states "It's not TV, it's birth control." I just loved that line :-P I agree though, maybe they should start making this part of a class that teens have to take in highschool or something. Making them work the semester at doing an experiment like this. It would definitely wake them up... I agree, I don't think I could hand my baby over to an experiment like this (not that I have kids but if I did...).
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@deebomb (15304)
• United States
16 Feb 09
Some schools have real life like baby dolls for the kids to take home. the dolls are programed to act just like a real baby with needing changed fed and cuddled. It even cries in the middle of the night. Thanks for the BR
@phoenix25 (1541)
• United States
10 Jul 08
I have seen this show. It's actually on the tv right now, lol. They are on the toddler stage right now. I think it's a very interesting idea, sort of a more productive breed of reality show. As far as the question of whether or not it will work, it depends on what the defition of "work" is. If the goal is to provide an experience that will make these kids think long and hard about having kids when the time comes to make that decision, then yes, I think it will work. I am not sure what to think about the people that are lending out their kids to the teens for the show. I wouldn't want to "lend" my kid out, but of course the parents can oversee the interaction going on in the house, so that is good. At least the parents know exactly what is going on. However, I have to wonder what the kids are going to think, being handed off to complete strangers. I have to wonder if it would be a little psychologically difficult for some of the younger children and babies, being raised by complete strangers for a week. I think I can understand why some of the parents are lending their kids out, though. I think they want to help these teens understand what parenting is all about, but it still would be a little difficult and weird.
• Turkey
10 Jul 08
Yeah, I think my main issue with this show is the parents lending their kids out to these teens for 3 days. Some of these teens lose patients really quickly with these kids and you know that has to be hard on the babies and toddlers who already seem a little emotionally shaken by the whole thing...
• United States
5 Jul 08
I caught this show the other day. And I honestly don't know what to think of it. I did notice that the babies were not into this whole thing. They were definitely shaken up at first. Although, I did notice that one or two of the babies did form an attachment to the teens. At least that's what it looked like to me. The whole idea of this show is understanding in a way, but at the same time kind of silly.
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• Turkey
5 Jul 08
Yeah, I agree...