Who's the Boss, in Your Relationship.?

Neither one of us are the boss. We are both pretty independent, and we like it that way. Don't get me wrong, we are always there for each other, but when it comes to going somewhere or doing something, if the other doesn't care to join in then it's okay. We both work and have our own money and seperate accounts, and we both share in the bills, but as for spending money on whatever we want too, there is no feeling of having to ask the other. And there is no need for arguements or who is going to get in the last word.

I would say that my husband is the boss but I my self is a strong minded person also and when we fuss I always have to get the last word in. I use to just stand and fuss with him and he being the person he is he would never let me get the last word in and it would make me feel like he got the best of me so now when we are fussing what I do is let him fuss and I just listen to him and not say anything and i learned it gets the best of him and he will get so mad because I do not respond to him and then when he is done I say what ever and go in my room. that way I have got the last word in and the best of him. he gets so mad because he feels really stupid fussing by his self and me not responding.

I would surely let her be the boss all the time but side by side i would keep a check over things that are happening. Understanding her as my boss doesnt mean i would act like a slave! and nor would she like it but yes i would love her to boss around in a sweet way! however i would like to keep a equality on both the sides.