I am conflicted on whether I should post something or not

Within the myLot family, I believe we should all lose any trepidation about any discussion. If the person about whom you want to write is well known or a frequest contributor to myLot, why not change enough names, locations, etc., to start the discussion without making the subject known to all?

If it's something you think here at mylot we can help you solve, then to respect the other person's privacy, just do as cobra said, change names and places. Probably is something that it's really worthwile to get off your chest.

You seem to be a person that has good moral judgement, therefore trust your instincts. If you feel like it wouldn't be right to post it, I would trust you on that. Weigh the issue, turn it all around and see if you can post it in a way that will not bother your conscience. You may be suprised at what you come up with.

The only time I felt any ambivalence about posting a discussion was because it was of a personal nature, and I wasn't sure if I was ready to deal with it or not. I ended up not doing it. But I think myLot is a good place to come to and get various opinions on things, and most people here will tell you from the heart what they think you should do or give you their opinion on whatever issue. The end decision will be yours whether to post it or not, but I personally think that if you did, you wouldn't regret it.