Love and Death

at that point of time people just forget to think thta. they think their life has fallen apart. they can't live without the person they loved so much. its one of the greatest griefs.

when you give ur all to a relationship the world certianly feels black and blurred and u cant find reasons to move on in life cos that was everyhting But i guess over time we realise that we need to face the truth and accpet the change in our lives and learn to move on....im doing that right now

Some loss and damages are unrepairable. If you have ever entered into a committed relationship, you will get to understand the feelings that drive you every moment since being separated from your 'love'. It is hard to believe that world's most amusing events/ entertainments can't bring light to their world of darkness - when someone so very special left them, they are left in the world of endless hopelessness which eventually leads to depression. Now this works in two ways - while a lot them just can't withstand the shock and succumb to the situation by killing self, while there are few who rather divulge their entire focus in achieving a goal, or devoting themselves for a cause. You can not compare this with the suffering of any other forms.

I think a lot of people put everything into finding someone to be with and they want and hope tha the relationship will last forever and when it doesnt, everything else thats going on in the world stops. All of a sudden everything that they hoped for has come crashing down on them and it seems there is nothing left to hope for. Most people usually get over this and go on to try it again. If your not hurt when you lose someone that you loved, I have to question whether or not you really loved them in the first place! Cheers, Tianna

Exactly. There is no point doing it. But depression and hopelessness grips them when they are abandoned or left by their significant other. I am pretty sure it wasn't coined significant other for nothing. They feel hopeless because the person who makes them happy has left them. They're being passive about the whole situation. This is why the head is above the heart - so we should use it more often even when our emotions get the best of us.

I think it is because they may have made the relationship their whole life. There are many parts of life, many things that make up what we call "life." When we make one thing our whole world or whole life, whether it be a relationship, job, sport, or whatever, when it is gone, it feels like the world is crashing down. I think that when we fill our lives up with other things; friends, hobbies, work that we enjoy, helping people, or whatever you like to do, when one thing is not there it is not as big of a deal. It may hurt, but it isn't the end of the world as you know it.

I think is the loss. Is like game over, but please is a new man and a new woman in every corner. My sugestion to this people is jus get over it and fin someone else!

Such people seems to me emotional fool..Life is full of ups and downs..everyone shud face it with courage..giving up life for gf/bf or husband/wife is such a bad thing..people easily forget about their parents who gave them birth..Gf/wife certainly becomes more important than parents..it's really out of my mind that what provokes them to die...