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myLot reputation of 72/100. enzabird (130)   ranked 79 out of 722 in facebook.com3 months ago

I hate to admit it, but I'm a total Facebook.com addict. Every time I get online it is the first site I sign into.

But all of the new features start to worry me. You can track who is friends with whom, who comments where, who likes what. With the features such as pictures, Facebook profiles become idols to ourselves. People can learn so much about us just by flipping through our profile for just a few minutes.

Is Face book simply a great site for keeping in touch with friends or is it an ingenuous tool for stalking?

 
 
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tags:  facebook, privacy, responsible use, stalking
 
1. myLot reputation of 78/100. Wolfechu (821)   ranked 117 out of 722 in facebook.com   3 months ago

Mostly keeping in touch, at least in my case. Half the people I have friended on there are acquaintances from a forum we all post to, so everyone knows everyone to start with; there's not a lot to stalk. The other half are generally friends, family, and old coworkers. They either know each other, or have little in common.

Either way, I make my profile publically available to anyone to start with. I'm probably too boring for anyone to bother stalking;)

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2. myLot reputation of 92/100. baileycows (1869)   ranked 137 out of 722 in facebook.com   3 months ago

Ha! I have tried stalking if that is what you call it. I mean old friends that I want to know what is going on. But you know you can block your profile so that they had to add you as a friend before they can view you.

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3. dalegoodname36 (17)   ranked 339 out of 722 in facebook.com   3 months ago

im quite the facebook stalker myself--so long as u dont hurt them, who cares


myLot reputation of 72/100. enzabird (130)   ranked 79 out of 722 in facebook.com  3 months ago

nice! I admit, I have kept tabs on people of interest before.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. greysfreak (849)   ranked 16 out of 722 in facebook.com   3 months ago

I really don't see it as a tool for stalking because we can choose what information we want to include. Also, you can choose what information to share with certain networks and stuff. So for the most part I think it is up to the indiidual to choose what to share. I know I have always kept my groups private and I am able to hide any activity that I do if I don't want it to show up. So I think the key is to not just be a facebook user, but a smart facebook user. I mostly have mine to see what my college friends are up to now, and since I came to mylot I have hardly even gotten on facebook! lol So yea, to me it could go either way, but if you are responsible it's just a nice way to keep in touch and maybe make friends.


myLot reputation of 72/100. enzabird (130)   ranked 79 out of 722 in facebook.com  3 months ago

Good for you, you are a responsible user and you protect yourself. I'm afraid too many people, though, don't employ caution and are too lose with their information on such sites.

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5. myLot reputation of 89/100. desertdarlene (5656)   ranked 172 out of 722 in facebook.com   3 months ago

I think it's more like keeping in touch for the average user. Though, I can see how someone would be able to "stalk" someone there. I mean, if your ex-boyfriend is there and can see who you are friends with, that could be a problem. But, the thing is that you have control over a lot of your own content. You can make your profile private or delete that boyfriend from our connections. I'm not sure, but I also think that you can block people from viewing things you post there. But, I'm still pretty new there myself, so I'm not so sure about that.

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6. clstar08 (74)   3 months ago

It is just like any tool of humanity: it can be used for evil.
I think for the majority of people it is used as a tool for staying in touch, but can be used by stalkers.
Like dynamite was designed for good and turned to evil. Dun dun dun...


myLot reputation of 72/100. enzabird (130)   ranked 79 out of 722 in facebook.com  3 months ago

boom!

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