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wendylb (56)   ranked 71 out of 3,561 in lover1 year ago

hehehe every time i recollect how we broke up with my first boyfriend i kept holding my mouth from laughing out loud. Because my action was very childish. I returned all his things given, his letters and pictures while having our school examination. After that i cut off all my communication to him. Painful but i found it effective.

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1. myLot reputation of 71/100. enzabird (130)   ranked 875 out of 3,561 in lover   1 year ago

that is hilarious, yet ironic. I just broke up with my first boyfriend. I was never "in love" with him, we only dated for 2 months. but in the end I decided that I was going crazy and tried to limit contact down to nearly nothing. Does that make me immature? or just someone trying to hang onto a scrap of sanity by getting away from a colossal joy killer?


wendylb (56)   ranked 71 out of 3,561 in lover  1 year ago

Yes funny, I did that for my family. Relatives of mine no longer pleased with his sarcastic attitude and they found no favor on me because of him. Every time I home late i get scolded because they suspect me of being with him. They have no trust in him and days later i found it to be true. So what I did was I made the first move to break our relationship. he was my first boyfriend and I want me first leaving him than him leaving me.

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2. myLot reputation of 93/100. krayzietam (695)   ranked 581 out of 3,561 in lover   1 year ago

Time is the essence and the true way of getting over someone. I guess it wouldnt hurt if you had someone else that distracts you for the time being, but that isn't a healthy way to get over someone and I wouldn't recommend it. You can focus more on your hobbies, hanging out with friends more, etc. Those are healthier ways to get over a breakup. happyhappy


wendylb (56)   ranked 71 out of 3,561 in lover  1 year ago

Thanks kray, Anyway that event was during my high school life. Of course, that I will not apply anymore to my future. I'm changed already. hehehe But what you advised was also working that time we broke up. I always hang out with my other friends and no longer with friends closed to him because it makes me remind me of him and the possibility of liking him again will be awakened.

Thanks to you and take care!

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3. myLot reputation of 85/100. kangel48446 (392)   ranked 877 out of 3,561 in lover   1 year ago

That was cute, and definitely made me smile this morning! If ending things that way helped you get over your first love, then smile because you deserve it. To get over you first love, I would have to agree with previous posts about allowing time to get over the end of your relationship. In my experience, I still have feelings for my first love but not to the point where I would want him back. I'm happily married now and wouldn't change it for anything!


wendylb (56)   ranked 71 out of 3,561 in lover  1 year ago

After we broke up, i too have that hope also that we would be together again but 2mos later he married my schoolmate. So, I no longer communicate to him.

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4. myLot reputation of 96/100. Zelmarq (4001)   ranked 2,291 out of 3,561 in lover   1 year ago

When we talk of love, its always childish and lovers are childish people. When we are in love its as if we and that person have our own world and the rest around us seem not to matter anymore and when people in love overdo that then there are lots of danger.

When I was in highschool, I just conditioned my mind to forget him and chose to treasure the memories we shared together, of course we were did not have the girl boy relationship but he was my crush. I chose to forget him and cried in silence for In know we will be sturdying in different schools.

CAll it fate or destiny but after six years of not seeing each other, we saw again in our classamte's wedding.And that was the start of a wonderful love story, the story of my first love.

To make the story short, after 8 years, we have found out that God needs us to do something for His glory so we decided to part each others path and end the relationship with tears and with joyful hearts to serve the Lord. Its nice to break our hearts for the Lord's sake for He will honor our tears.

Im getting over the first love through the comfort of God's word in my heart.

Im glad we still are freinds and still praying that someday, saomeday our paths of love would cross again.

have a nice day!


wendylb (56)   ranked 71 out of 3,561 in lover  1 year ago

hehehe, no comment momi.


myLot reputation of 96/100. Zelmarq (4001)   ranked 2,291 out of 3,561 in lover  1 year ago

? Ah ok, maybe I talked too much. No problem.

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5. maloucons (68)   ranked 1,367 out of 3,561 in lover   10 months ago

first love and first broke-up is really such a painful experience especially if your a teenager. Can still recall the pain I experience, i thought of burning all the things a have that reminds me of him but on the second thought i never did. I just kept it in a box sealed and labeled it with RIP.

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6. myLot reputation of 89/100. jingbautista (810)   3 weeks ago

I think i know him. Hmmm.. i saw you crying and being scolded by our auntie that time that's why you did returned all belongs to him. Well, that was still a good choice of breaking him.

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