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Which one is easier? To be a guy or to be a girl? email this discussion to a friend?

myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people1 year ago

Which one do you think? Guys are always expected to take up all the responsibilities by taking care of the families,building up career and giving full cares and loves to their loved one. What about girls? What I can think of the role of girls just make sure everything is in order,what I mean here is houseworks in the family and everyone in the house is under well care. If we make a comparison between the role of the guys and the girls,to be girls can be easier and more simple than guys. What do you think? Do you have different opinions on this? Please share with me,have a nice day,thanks.

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 93/100. sugarplum9084 (1494)   ranked 7,516 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I don't really believe that men or women should have set roles to be born with. It is the individual who has it harder or easier than another individual, not split between the sexes. A woman can have bigger aspirations in the working world than a man, she can be a manager of a big company and be even busier than a man, and vice versa. I think in these days you can't just generalize between men and women since there are so many societies and more human rights for everyone. Now more commonly a man and wife both share the chores of a house, and share the role of working a job. thumbup


myLot reputation of 69/100. sau2188 (486)   ranked 4,251 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

your true:). Absolutely right


rockpengroc (3)   ranked 24,868 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

exactly


gothic03 (50)   ranked 18,022 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

I agree


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Thanks for the comment.

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2. myLot reputation of 69/100. sau2188 (486)   ranked 4,251 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

Yeah i have a different opinion. Everyone like in guys and girls both have their own duties to follow up. As you mentioned guys have to take responsibilities and do all the career works and stuff same way girls also do this its just that we think that girls have less work. But if we equalize the works they may sound different but they take equal energy time and responsibility. Guys working and girls working at home. Even there are girls now who want to work like guys do for hours long. Girls have alot of homely responsibilities also guys dont have to take care much they have a more easier life from birth to death:)


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

You are right. I think we should not make a comparison between men and women. Obviously,they have different roles in this society. Thanks for sharing anyway.

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3. myLot reputation of 91/100. shamzy18 (1298)   ranked 985 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

in my opinion guys have the easier role, they work but so do girls they build up a career but so do girls on top of that most girls have to do housework too


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Thanks for your opinion. Happy posting here.

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4. myLot reputation of 92/100. granite_butterfly (331)   ranked 3,781 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I would like to think our genders are equal and complimentary to one another. Sadly, this is not the case. There is more to gender than who does housework and one should try to remember when taking on a view of a mysoginist, women bear children, raise them, work, and are still in this archaic view by some men. It is a different way to look at the way things really are and if you love a woman you will treat her in the capacity of that love...


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

I think most of the time,we need to take into consideration that both genders have their own roles in taking responsibilities in life. If we see from all angles, we can figure out that both being guys and girls have its good and bad. Thanks.

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5. myLot reputation of 74/100. ravusri1 (828)   ranked 495 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I am a guy and want to experience what it will be like to be a Girl, want to explore more, want to see the difficulties they face. I think girls are also expecting the same. I know that it is impossible but want to try in next birth. Thanks for raising the question.


andrewe99 (62)   ranked 13,901 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Whoa, watch what you say. That came out really wrong. I know you didn't mean it like that but it just did. Anyway... on topic, while women and men have no set roles in society each have certain expectations to live up to or else they may receive some social rejection. For example, if you're a male and you're a flight attendant, you will probably be the target of some jokes among others. It's sad, but it's life. Just don't let it get to you.


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Thanks for sharing your valuable opinion.

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6. myLot reputation of 98/100. Opal26 (9667)   ranked 4,669 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

Yenwie, Don't you think that is an old fashioned point of
view? Even though I agree with you, we shouldn't be thinking
that way in this day and age. Women are no longer just supposed
to be taking care of the family. It's supposed to be a shared
task. Women are now expected to work too. The roles are supposed to
have changed so that both men and women do the same tasks equally.
That means men are supposed to share in taking care of the housework,
helping with the kids and going to work just the same as women.


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

I cannot deny that this is old fashioned thinking and it is not supposed to be practiced in our society now. But some how,still lots of people are thinking this way. It's true. Men and women can always share out their works. Men can also take care of children and do houseworks at home. Women can go out work and have their own successful career. But one thing if we look into this,is it workable like this for long term? Thanks for sharing anyway,have a nice day.

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7. myLot reputation of 95/100. kingcrapper (1024)   ranked 5,792 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I think your break down of guys roles and girl roles is rather archaic. There are many women who don't care for cleaning and would put career over having a family. If everything were equal, I think it woul be easier to be a guy. Besides the monthly thing, guys don't generally have to think about being attacked and raped. Guys are generally stronger which can come in handy sometimes. They are also more gnerally accepted in a work place with words or rumor. Being a woman though could be handy especially if you have a great pair of legs and people buy drinks for you. Being an a attractive women can be a very powerful position. Give me comfort over power anyday.


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

You have interesting points there,lol. Anyways,these are all my examples of opinions only. Thanks for sharing,winks.

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8. app3ls (48)   ranked 18,202 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

i think both have their own roles.there's no definite whichever one is easier.
No doubt, there are tasks that beyond girls capabilities. But, same thing, men are not all perfect that know how to do everything. I think God is fair.


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

It's true,but some how we will make comparison between both genders when something unfair happens,lol. Thanks.

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9. myLot reputation of 63/100. blkmage1214 (131)   ranked 10,089 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

They are hard in different ways,and in different jobs.


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

Thanks for the comment.

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10. boerema (52)   ranked 11,618 out of 35,119 in people   1 year ago

I think in this day and age gender roles have really been torn apart. Its to much of a generalization to say a guy takes care of the family and builds up a career when theres many women who do the same thing and vice versa.

Although I hate to stereotype this, I will give my personal opinion in regards to your question:

I will say in a building a relationship guys have it much harder with having to spend a lot of money and work hard as the girl basically judges him. I think women have it harder in other situations because they often set high standards for what they want. Guys on the other hand often go with "getting by," and don't fuss over little things like matching colors or decorative pillows.

Theres exceptions to all of these obviously.


myLot reputation of 98/100. yenwie84 (1091)   ranked 166 out of 35,119 in people  1 year ago

You are right. I often set some standards for my boyfriend to achieve before he can get married with me. I just cannot lower my expectations on him. Maybe that is the hard part of being a man. Honestly, I still think men hold a greater responsibility than women. Do you agree with me? Thanks for sharing.

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