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myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people1 month ago

I can hear this couple fighting and violently braeking things and i don't know what to do,i didn't want to go to the place to intervain into their situation,neither do i want to get myself invoved too much,what do you think i can do to help this people before they harm each other. angry

 
 
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1. myLot reputation of 98/100. Humbug25 (795)   ranked 201 out of 25,855 in people   1 month ago

Hi alpha7

I have been in exactly the same situation before and it's not nice. It went on for a while in the early hours of the morning and when I heard their child crying that is when I decided to phone the police. I told them I was the neighbour but didn't give them my name or anything and luckily they had a neighbour the other side of them too so wouldn't have known which one it was. When they came around the young lady was taken to hospital and her boyfriend to the police station I am not sure what happened about the child as I had to go to work that day. I moved out shortly after.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

I think you did your best, calling the cops without giving your name,good. thumbup


myLot reputation of 98/100. Humbug25 (795)   ranked 201 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

The thing was that I heard the child crying and that was it, the decision was made for me really. You can't tell me that you can't get involved when you hear an upset child in the middle of it all. If anything happened to that child I would never have been able to forgive myself when I could have prevented it.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

blushIt's true.

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2. myLot reputation of 84/100. barbie84 (1482)   ranked 4,310 out of 25,855 in people   1 month ago

i would leave well alone iof i were you, interfering in domestic disputes usually ends with them having a go at you for it so leave them to it or call the police out if it gets too bad as there is not a lot else you can do realy.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

Yes,it can be turned on ones head,the idea of calling the cops is good anyway!happy

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3. myLot reputation of 99/100. horsesrule (1206)   ranked 2,332 out of 25,855 in people   1 month ago

Other than calling the police, there isn't much that you can do. Other people's lives, even if they harm each other is their choice unfortunately. It would be nice to help people and save them from their own stupidity but we can't. The reality is that other people are ultimately responsible for themselves. I'm sorry.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

Thanks. cool


myLot reputation of 99/100. katsmeow1213 (1458)   ranked 778 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

That's really good advice, and I totally agree. They can split up, and leave each other. If they are abusive, it's their own choice to stay in that situation. However if a child is involved, as the first poster said, I would call the police.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

sadChildren should not be involved in voilence.

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4. myLot reputation of 80/100. Hatley (11217)   ranked 1,585 out of 25,855 in people   1 month ago

alpha7 call the p olice and report a couple fighting as
'you just might save someones life. They will not tellthe loud fighting couple who send them so you will not be involved
and youjust might really help one who is being abused.
i and my son did this back at the old apartment complex. The husband had a gun and had already shot his wife in the arm, and the police got there in time to stop him from killing his own
children. He was high on some drug and did not even know who he was. I was so glad we had called the police.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

thumbupYou saved a life.

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5. myLot reputation of 97/100. AnnaB7 (300)   ranked 929 out of 25,855 in people   1 month ago

I think that I would just call the police if it sounded like someone was being hurt. It is really not a good idea to get to involved because it can cause you a problem, if the police come then the problem is just the couples who is fighting, the police is not going to tell them who called especially in a sitaution where someone could get seriously hurt.
at least i don't think it would.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

Thank you AnnaB7.

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6. myLot reputation of 95/100. chenmeiyi (506)   ranked 2,667 out of 25,855 in people   1 month ago

After their conflicts,i think you can go to their house to talk with each of

them respectively.That's really not hormonous and i am sympathetic with that.

Talk sense to them,good luck to you and i'll keep my fingers crossed.


myLot reputation of 85/100. alpha7 (802)   ranked 2,446 out of 25,855 in people  1 month ago

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