Have you ever been so angry...

United States
July 25, 2008 7:25pm CST
that you start to act totally different? I swear I'm going crazy from anger right now. My husband's job is causing so many problems. He is being forced to work more hours, he isn't going to get a day off for the rest of the summer. He was told that when he doesn't get a day off, he can leave early, but now they're saying he has to ask permission when he leaves. He told me this morning he'd leave early because he isn't getting a day off this week, and now he just called and said he can't leave early. I am just so mad right now. The hours he works is bad enough, but now they won't even give him a day off? He actually got in trouble for taking time off to help me recover from surgery. His boss almost wouldn't let him. It almost got to a point where I was going to have to postpone my surgery because he wouldn't get time off. Luckily that did not happen. Honestly I feel like a single mother raising 5 kids. He's never home. He leaves before we wake up and gets home after the kids are in bed. The kids never get to see him, and I have a half an hour with him each day before we go to bed. I just don't think I can take this anymore! What's sad is he can't quit because he won't find another job making this much money. But the money isn't even all that good. We are struggling. We can barely afford our bills, and forget about any spending money. So basically we're stuck.
3 responses
@gemini_rose (16264)
26 Jul 08
I am not surprised you are mad, your hubbys place of work sounds like a nightmare. A nightmare that is not doing either of you any good at all. Is there no way that he can look for another job just to get him out of the one he is in? It just sounds like life is not much fun for any of you right now and what is the point if it is a miserable life.
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• United States
26 Jul 08
He doesn't even have time to find another job. He does have a place offering him a job, but the hours are really a lot worse, although the money is a bit better. I don't really care about money, I just want my husband home more often.
@gemini_rose (16264)
26 Jul 08
I'm sorry, I don't seem to be able to find the right things to say to you for this one. I just hope that something happens to change it for you real soon Xx
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• United States
26 Jul 08
I know. It seems there is no solution for my dilemma, which makes it worse. It won't be nearly as bad once the kids are back in school. But that doesn't help me today.
@clowdine (1402)
• Philippines
26 Jul 08
Truly, your hubby's job is getting unbearable. I hope his boss or any from the higher management is mylotting too so he can read about this problem. If they're deaf, at least they can read this honest to goodness story of ordeal. But kidding aside, is there a way that he could talk to the employee relations department? Obviously, the labor laws in your country won't allow any worker to be treated that way. And I suggest, the next time he is promised anything, maybe he should ask for anything in writing too. That's the problem with other people. Just because some guys are nice, they abuse them. And I think you're husband is a very nice guy. They want to keep him but he is just unlucky to have been subject in the cost cutting mode. Maybe he should start befriending a key person from the higher management. Not for anything else, but at least, someone whom he can tell about the difficulties he's having while in that situation. And that person could relay the problem to the rest in the food chain so they can do something. While he is trying to coordinate to make things better for him, he should not look unhappy or complaining so as not to spoil the plan. He should look as fresh as before. Very tired and exhausted but not angry. Somehow, these people have a conscience. by realizing and seeing him ready to serve the company to the end but they are killing him, they might do something about it.
• United States
26 Jul 08
Unfortunatly there's no one in the business he can talk to, as this was mandated from the owner of the company. And my husband is not the type to complain.
• United States
26 Jul 08
that is similar to jobs that i have had. they want to work you all they can, and they don't like it when you take time off.