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myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work 4 years ago

Your boss loves you and saying NO to any work given to you is never an option.
Skipping lunch, rushing through dinner, cheating yourself out of hours of sleep has become part of your daily schedule. You miss parties and family functions without batting an eyelid. And always give the same excuse "I'VE GOT WORK".
But beware - This is not a sign of a devoted worker but that of a workaholic whose single minded focus negatively impacts other areas of our life like family, health, liesure and friends.
Signs of workaholism are - you are too tired, irritable, socially isolated, may suffer from headaches, insomnia, shortness of breath, racing heart, muscle tension, ulcers

 

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1. myLot reputation of 88/100. cupid74 (4713)   4 years ago

Hmmmmm
what a definiation
when i joined Job, and in textiles export and in Marketing
i was like that, rather more like that
12-14 hours daily work. and will u believe in dreams i was despatching and checking samples

then i said to myself, what am i doing, then i control it, but it never means i miss my targets

Take care


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I think in the textile industry and especially in exports when we have to meet targets we just cannot stop doing the work. I have experienced this everytime we reach a deadline here.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cupid74 (4713)  4 years ago

Ahhh very true

u r in it so u can understand the pressure of Customersad

Take care


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Yes I do understand the pressure of customers and sympathise with you,.


myLot reputation of 88/100. cupid74 (4713)  4 years ago

ahhh, thanks

i need them

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2. lovaji (18)   ranked 1,598 out of 2,929 in work   4 years ago

Yeah I love work but no never married to it.
In my personal opinion any one who always says IVE GOT WORK is simply not organized.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Yes u r right. Thanks for your response and happy posting.

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3. myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11876)   ranked 445 out of 2,929 in work   4 years ago

Good advice and some useful thoughts by you by workaholic.thumbup
I do not fall into this category. I try my best to dispose of my work, as soon as it is assigned to me. I do not believe in keeping anything pending with me, irrespective of the fact,whether it is important or otherwise. I do value my social liabilities and relations very much and I do attend social gatherings and do not forget to wish birthdays and anniversaries to my near and dear ones.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I cant say the same about myself because I usually dont say no to my boss. And am not too fond of attending social gatherings so I need excuses not to attend them too.


myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11876)   ranked 445 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I also do not say 'No' to my boss, if he wants me to execute any task at an odd hour, but this does not happen, quite often.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I too have this problem very rarely. 8-10 times a year I think and that is not too much,


myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11876)   ranked 445 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

If it is once in a while, then it will do................


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

yup...very rarely...and always when I have some other plans...hahaha


myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11876)   ranked 445 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

When the boss asks to a job at an odd hour, it appears that he is infringing our freedom and disturbing our pre-planned programmes...........LOL!


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Yes that this is what happened to me last evening. Was in office beyond 7 pm and had to cancel all plans that i had for the evening.


myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11876)   ranked 445 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

It is really bad that you had to stay late...............and cancel your pre-planned programmes. (YOU appear to me a devoted and dedicated worker........)


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I try to be devoted and hard working.


myLot reputation of 94/100. dpk262006 (11876)   ranked 445 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

My guess is YOU ARE a devoted worker. Keep it up!happy


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Thanks a lot Deepak.

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4. myLot reputation of 93/100. penny64 (642)   ranked 842 out of 2,929 in work   4 years ago

Goodness! That describes me a few years ago. Then I started a family and my priorities changed. I think it's definitely for the better. Whoever once said that "we should work to live, not live to work" was right!


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Yes many change their priorities after marriage. But not all. And I think we should all learn to work to live.

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5. myLot reputation of 99/100. applefreak (2290)   ranked 525 out of 2,929 in work   4 years ago

i'm definitely not married to my job. i do whatever work my boss gives me but i'll not miss functions because of work. my boss is quite understanding about it as well so there will never be too much work. i treasure my family much more than my job. to me, i can always find another job but i'll never have another family. i believe that a job is something that pays the bills. i get my satisfaction and happiness from my family. cheers ;p


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Nowadays very few people give more priority to their family than their job. Good work. Yes the family is more important for all of us,

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6. myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 317 out of 2,929 in work   4 years ago

i was my own boss soi ushed ny self even harder. all those things you mentioned tho i did. i am now paying for it w/bad health. stop & smell the roses. i was a hairdresser & all those people i accodated for 48 years don't even know i exist anymore since i can't do their hair anymore. i hear from 2 or 3 on a regular basis but that's it.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I too have been working very hard all my life and never made time for myself.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 317 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

i know what you mean. i had to raise 2 sons by nmylseh. of course they were my first priority but u have to work har to do that. hope things are comfortable for u now.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

I would not say that things are comfortable for me now. Sometimes I just get so fed up that I dont know what to do.


myLot reputation of 96/100. ANTIQUELADY (16514)   ranked 317 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

i know u do & i'm sorry. look at the brighter side if u can. things have been worse & u have gotten this far & u will go further. look around, u can always see people worse than u are. i wish u all the luck in the world.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Thanks a lot for your reassuring response. Sure I look around and find that I have lesser troubles.

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7. myLot reputation of 71/100. subha12 (16391)   4 years ago

till now not. may be at working time, i am very serious to do my jobs. but at times, when i need to take rest from it, i do. on weekends i try not to think so much about job.it can really cause problem in many ways.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Gud that though you are very serious about your job you do make time for your self also. I too try to forget about my work once I leave the office premises.

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8. tamiedy (12)   4 years ago

hmmmmm... maybe... i do love working but i make it to a point that nobody from my family will be affected. it's just by merely knowing what your limitations are.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

hhhmmmm....thanks a lot for your response and happy posting.

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9. myLot reputation of 95/100. redkathy (1860)   4 years ago

I work for my husband for 18 years now. In the beginning I used to sleep with the business phone by my bed so that I wouldn't miss a call. Yes I was always working. We always talked business and I never seemed to leave the job. After some years it started to catch up to me. I learned how to "turn it off" in my mind. I would refuse to talk work after a certain time. At first it took that dedication to get the company going. When I realized we were ok and I didn't need to eat, sleep, and breathe work, self control was the answer to my workaholic state!


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Good you have changed your lifestyle before it ruined your health.

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10. myLot reputation of 56/100. MaeTsuen (246)   4 years ago

o.0 i am making sure that i will not to get that stage. my hubby is my priority... i always make sure that i will leave our shop at this time so i cant go home and have lunch with him and then have coffee afterwards. he is always 1st in my list.


myLot reputation of 97/100. mayka123 (3268)   ranked 96 out of 2,929 in work  4 years ago

Make sure he is forever first in your list. All the best to you and happy posting.

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