If you were me,what would you do?
By yenwie84
@yenwie84 (1344)
Malaysia
August 8, 2008 10:20am CST
I am staying with my boyfriend now. Because of him, I have to live at a place further from my workplace. I had discussed with him several times that we should move to a nearer place so that I can go to work more conveniently,but he insists to stay at the same place. He likes the place we are currently staying now. I have transport problem now. I need him to fetch me to work. Our working time is a bit different,sometimes his working time is later than me. I need to wake him up to fetch me to work. I am causing him a lot of problems. What should I do? Should I buy a car or move to a nearer place and stay with someone else? Please give advices,thanks.
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3 responses
@alori61 (344)
• United States
8 Aug 08
I would say if you wish to live with your boyfriend then you should get yourself your own vehicle. One car and two work schedules does not work well. No matter where you are living unless it is within walking distance you really need your own vehicle. I would never be able to depend on someone else to get me where I have to go.
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@chenmeiyi (972)
• China
8 Aug 08
if ur financial circumstance allows u to buy a new car,u'd better buy one cause
it will let ur bf sleep more every morning and for him it is really a relieving.
and at the same time u two can live together instead of living seperately will may
helpful to ur relationships.
if u cant afford to buy a new car,then u should consider to get up early every
morning to catch the public bus.
if that's doesn't work,u should think living near ur workplace.
take care.
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
8 Aug 08
That does sound like a difficult situation and you probably want to stay with your boyfriend. I think that you should talk about some type of compromise that will work better for both of you. He should be understanding if he really cares about you.
