How do you get off of the phone

Oh sudalunts - I know what you mean. I used to live next to a neighbor who did the same thing. Thankfully though, she did not call often. I'd usually see her outside when working in my yard or going out to my car, etc. She'd start up a conversation and never stop. Of course, at times, I would make up a "little white lie" to get away. I hate to do things like that but sometimes when you are obviously trying to end a conversation with someone and they do not get the oh so obvious hint, it is kind of hard to break away. I do not understand why some people are like that. I do not know if they are really lonely or what. I feel sorry for people like that. But, that is bad too, because I will sit there and listen to them endlessly sometimes because of just that reason. It is not fair to me when I have things to do or just want some peace and quiet. Sorry you have to deal with this with your friend. Maybe the next time you talk to her start off the conversation by saying you only have about 10 or 15 minutes, but you wanted to give her a call. Then once that time is up tell her you have to get going. You do not have to make an excuse of "why" you have to go. Just tell her you have things to do and abruptly tell her you'll talk to her later and say your goodbyes in a nice upbeat manner. Good luck... and I hope if you try my advice that it works for you. Take care.