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A sad story...............................what would you have done????????????? email this discussion to a friend?

murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life1 year ago

A man was washing his car when he saw his son scraping on the car with a stone.
Angrily he started beating his sons hand many times,unknowingly he had a wrench in his hand.He took his son to the hospital and there he lost all his fingers,With painful eyes the son asked his dad " Dad when will my fingers grow back?".
Full of regret and remorse father went home, later he found what his son was writing on the car "LOVE YOU DAD".The next day he committed suicide.
Sorry i posted such a sad story...........So what would you have done?????????

 
 
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tags:  sad, violence, children, discipline, anger
 
1. myLot reputation of 92/100. Transdisc (18489)   ranked 972 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

This is awful.

I once caught my son doing something similar with a stick on the car which I was washing. He swore to me that he didn't scratch the car, but that a werewolf had done it and that he had chased off the werewolf with a stick.

I asked him if he was sure that this was how it happened, and he assured me that it was so, so I took his word for it and gave him a hug.


myLot reputation of 89/100. shooie (3548)   ranked 6,906 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

Smiles if more people would do this or something like this there would be less child abuse and children being killed by parents. There is a time and a place to correct a child and beating is not away to correct. a swat here and there I believe is fine. But people need to step back and listen. My grandson the other night went outside after his mom got home and it was dark and we didn't know he went out but came running back in crying. He fell in the dark and oh boy the story he had about the cupcake monster. Lets put it to you this way. If I can get the picture of the cupcake monster drawn I think I will try to turn it into a book called Jake and the Cupcake Monster in the Dark. He was so descriptive when he was talking about the cupcake monster I could see it in my minds eye. Kids do things for a reason they may do it because is the way they express love and not knowing any better than not to scratch a car. you get my plus in this discussion. You have not lost touch with you imagination like so many adults do when we get older. I haven't and is what keeps me young.

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2. myLot reputation of 82/100. relundad (1581)   ranked 948 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

I'm sure I would have been pissed. But I am also sure that I would not have responded in such a violent manner. My kid has destroyed, broken or torn up his share of things, but you don't beat the hell out of a kid as a result of. If for some strange reason I reacted in such a weird way, I am sure that I would have a problem with living with knowing that I have caused physical harm to that degree to my child. I really don't know how I would live with that mentally. I don't believe in suicide but just not sure where that would put me mentally. And the really sad part of this story is that now this child has physical and emotional scars that will last him a lifetime and obviously right now he doesn't have any coping skills.


murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

yeah well anyone would be pissed but its about controlling your anger at the right time. i'm glad that you feel that way........the right way.

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3. myLot reputation of 51/100. Gargoyle0134 (1251)   ranked 8,039 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

Sounds to me like the dad there did the right thing. I am good with his choice.
The boy loved his father, but the father would have caused him with his temper a lifetime of abuse and pain, rather than taking himself off this Earth.
This child will need MUCH help to grieve and..everytime he looks at his hand he will be reminded. Hopefully in time he will find a better environment with NO abuse.
What wuld I have done..placed the dad in prison. But since he saved us the effort..works for me!


murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

what did you mean that he did the right thing in the beginning or in the end?????????????????????


myLot reputation of 51/100. Gargoyle0134 (1251)   ranked 8,039 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

Og course..I meant the dad did right by ending his life. I did not fall off the turnip truck yesterday. He was NOT washing the car wiht a wrench. he was actuvely beating this child and the child is maimed. This father had ..juts a rotten temper. The child is better wiht him gone and not beating him more.

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4. myLot reputation of 86/100. itsmefaith (2236)   ranked 3,865 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

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myLot reputation of 97/100. Chevee (3600)   ranked 5,839 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

Is this what they mean by the post has been deleted?
I have never seen one deleted before.


myLot reputation of 93/100. Goodie123 (7548)   ranked 1,037 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

It cannot be a true story Faith.
Who washes their car with a wrench in their hand.
And who in their right mind would not realise they had said wrench in their hand.


murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

hey i'm not BBC news or anything.
i juz pass what i hear

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5. myLot reputation of 96/100. prettyhanan (512)   ranked 8,559 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

Oh my god.. I will tell my God that I really sorry about what have I done and I will take my son to see a speacialist about the finger.. I will try my best to make sure that my son will live happily.. I will not committe suicide because it will make my son suffer all his life.. I would not let it be..


murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

probably the best thing to do.
you did a mistake once so dont commit a graver one again!!!!!!!!!11

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6. Tanewha (57)   ranked 20,370 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

Beating children for whatever reason is just plain wrong. Placing more importance on any posession than your own child is evil. Cultures that encourage such evil should be dragged into the modern world.

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7. myLot reputation of 96/100. djoyce71 (1624)   ranked 988 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

What a very very sad story of a father and son. I pity the poor son. His fingers will never grow. Dads, please don't beat your children that hard. They are kids and should be dealt with properly.
The father must have been so hurt and could not carry and accept what happened, that's why he committed suicide.
OMG

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8. myLot reputation of 76/100. myklj999 (7262)   ranked 1,897 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

Why was he washing the car with a wrench in his hand?confused

I think you need to practice on your story-telling skills before you try this again.


myLot reputation of 74/100. Scotlandthebrave (1267)   ranked 7,485 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

You must get the best response for this one
I would have been proud to have written this reply myself
Come on mr original poster
Please give this guy the best response


myLot reputation of 89/100. shooie (3548)   ranked 6,906 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

and yet we respond to the dumb discussions instead of ignoring...shame on us.


murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

This not just for you but for all the people who dont go with this discussion.
I dont go surfing the net tryin to find stories that i could make money out of.
some say its not real.....
who cares if its real even i dont know i juz came to hear this story and thought it conveyed some good messages and so i wanted to share it with you people.
if you want real stories y dont you read the newspaper or sumthin.
If you really didnt like this discussion the best thing would hav bin to not respond.


myLot reputation of 76/100. myklj999 (7262)   ranked 1,897 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

No, the best thing would have been for someone not to post this as thoughg it was true. As I said before: why was he washing a car with a wrench in his hand? You now have other people thinking this is a true story; you could at least say something about "this isn't true, but it has a good moral". I never said you went searching the web for anything at all. I just said it's not a true story and someone needs to practice on their storytelling skills. Sorry if you're offended by truth.


myLot reputation of 89/100. bonbon664 (2304)   ranked 1,680 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

People's reactions would have been a lot different if you had of been up front about the subject of your post. People wouldn't have been nearly as sympathetic if they knew it didn't happen. I just don't like playing on peoples emotions.

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9. myLot reputation of 89/100. bonbon664 (2304)   ranked 1,680 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

I wouldn't have posted such an obviously unbelieveable story. This story sounds totally ridiculous to me. Well, there was a reason for that...it's phoney!

http://www.snopes.com/horrors/parental/fingers.asp

It's been a hoax for years.


myLot reputation of 76/100. myklj999 (7262)   ranked 1,897 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

Thank you bonbon; I didn't even bother to check due to the fact it was so obviously untrue...


murali1 (27)   ranked 3,954 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

i hope you know that posting links isnt supported here


myLot reputation of 76/100. myklj999 (7262)   ranked 1,897 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

Posting links is permitted under myLot rules. This is directly from the myLot guidelines:

"Make sure to post useful links in discussions when necessary to provide authoritative guidance or to refer to a third party article"


http://www.mylot.com/o/guidelines.aspx

Maybe you should follow this link and brush up on the guidelines some.


myLot reputation of 89/100. bonbon664 (2304)   ranked 1,680 out of 38,209 in life  1 year ago

Listen murali, you posted a false story, I pointed that out, and you are an expert with 24 posts???? You should read what's allowed and what's not, before you tell me what to do.

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10. madureira (9)   ranked 26,632 out of 38,209 in life   1 year ago

children need love...
this man has mental problems, to made this...

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